Why is it a guy can sleep with as many women/girls they like but when a women/girl does it she is called a s**t? The reason I ask is I have a friend who likes me more then a friend and he asked how many guys I have slept with, when I told him he said I was a s**t. Its only 2 guys!! Any way he has slept with over 15 women/girls and he thinks thats ok....what the hell? Please explain!!
2007-01-16 22:18:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 20 by the way...and I did "turn it on him" you know said thats not fair you've had more then me and he has no answer..
2007-01-16 22:31:15 · update #1
That's called having double standards .
But seriously women tend to encourage this . How many times have you bitched with your girlfriends about this hot-new-coed who also happens to be a "slut" ??
Personally I think if a woman is called a slut then men should be called 'gigolos "
2007-01-16 22:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has slept with 15 women then you have to decide whether this is OK with you. If it is then remind him that he has slept with 15 women and demand to know why you should accept him sleeping with 15 women when he has a problem with you sleeping with 2 men.
2007-01-17 06:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered that myself, I think it's like a mancho
thing w/ the guy, like I'm so great look @ how many women want to be w/ me
yet a female is suppose to act like a lady & not
sleep around w/ lots of guys, go figure
It's best for BOTH to not be w/ alot of people so
why do guys make it like it's great, I'm not sure
2007-01-17 06:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to let you know but this guy sounds like he want to make you number #16
he must been young all very young minded to call you a sl*t
you should call him a sl*t... and forget about him
and never tell a guy the real number of guys yr slept with keep it to yourself.
2007-01-17 06:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by priscilla d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is hung up on a lot of old crap, dump him and move on to greener pastures. I plowed my fields as a young man and know my wife did the same, thank god!! What we did was our business before we met and it remains that way. Take a hike dear, there are better bulls out in the pasture..
2007-01-17 06:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually the women in society that judge other women and give them these kinds of names... Men are more than happy to date or have sex with a woman immaterial of how many partners she's had in the past... ;)
2007-01-17 06:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to piss off! sex is healthy in anyway, this argument has been around since the beginning of time and will never die out, men just see it as an accomplishment to do as many girls that they can, until they get some sort of an std, then its "that dirty s**t's fault" thats just the mentally of some men, tell this guy to get a life!
2007-01-17 06:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by livinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is very immature for even asking this question.
In the future remember that how many people you've been intimate with is your business and only your business.
A friend calling another friend a sl*t....is not a friend.
2007-01-17 06:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males think it makes them more of a man when they have been with more women.
Men like this you should avoid, they will only use you, call you a slut and move on.
It's like saying a man that watches soap opera's isn't a man, only women watch that. Real men only watch sports.
2007-01-17 06:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk, it shouldn't matter how many people you have slept with as long as your faithful to the person you're currently seeing.
2007-01-17 06:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋