say I meet some guys on the net and then start to going out with a couple of them, up to what stage I should say "ok, this is getting further ahead in a relationship so I can only date one person" ??? I mean prior to kissing .
having a very conservative background and now knowing I have to be open-minded about certain things, am not sure where is the boundary. most my friends married to the their first love so cant ask them. I really need to know and want to do the right thing, before I start have drinks with them, so I can be relaxed and not worry too much again.
I guess some people aware and probably seeing a few at the same time as well. I dont know what to say when someone shows strong interest after the first drink but am not though dont mind just be friends. but I feel so bad when later he realise am not interested in relationships at all.
2007-01-16 22:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is upto you when you want to date one person exclusively... But be sure to let the guys know there are others that you see, so that if they aren't interested, they can move on... Some guys are quite happy to date a girl/woman who dates other guys... ;)
2007-01-16 22:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why go out with more than one if you know in the first place you only want one?? think about the other guys feelings that you hurt, do you tell the 2nd or 3rd guy that you are already dating someone? if not then you are wrong for that, knowing that in the end you are just gonna break up with them,. try dating just one at a time. no need to have 2.
2007-01-16 22:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by brandonjb2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say 'have one person for company', 2 becomes a crowd. More than 2 means an unmanageable crowd. There is no need to be too open minded, and it does'nt mean the things that you imagine. Do only those things that make you happy and satisfied.
2007-01-16 22:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be with just one.being with 2 means you can also be with 3 or 4.That 's why you dont care about having a relationship seriously.
2007-01-16 22:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a reality check-- dating = a relationship, anyway your question was too long so I didn't read the whole thing
2007-01-16 22:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with it till one of them is your boyfriend. even though you still can have male friends. just if you have a boyfriend it's better know what he considers a bound between male-female friendship and try not to cross this bound.
2007-01-16 22:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by adwoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet guys on the Internet. It just isn't safe these days.
2007-01-16 22:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest straight up and you wont have a problem, tell the guys your intentions...Only way to go
2007-01-16 22:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the bunny said dating = relationship, f**k = f**k.......... its all good but no 1 shall get hurt in the process well ,too much anyways..............gl hf
2007-01-16 22:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit back and have a gangbang with all of them. You won't regret it!
2007-01-16 22:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by . 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋