Family & Relationships - 16 January 2007

One of the people that I work with is an uber PAM. This guy is a PAM to the extreme. He is only 23 and is planning to marry this girl whom he has been dating for... get this... four months!

I repeat: He has been dating a girl for four months and he is talking about proposing to her and buying her an expensive ring. What a tool!

What can I do to convince this guy that he is retarded for committing himself so early in his life (and so early in the relationship)? Yes, I know that it's ultimately his decision, but I feel that he is only setting himself up for disaster. *I* don't plan on getting married until I am in my 30s (and that's assuming I *do* decide to get married) and if I do, it's not going to be to a North American woman, that's for sure. This guy needs help and he ignored my e-mails about nomarriage.com and other related sites. Is he a hopeless cause?

2007-01-16 14:20:40 · 13 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-16 14:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by what 1 in Singles & Dating

that just suddenly came to mind after i was reading a book about the horrors of prison

2007-01-16 14:20:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to end this dispute? I'm afraid I won't be able to marry him if this keeps up. I really want to marry the cat, but unfortunately, it is NOT legal yet.

If we love him equally, we are considering taking all our wedding money in order to clone our cat.

Does anyone know where to start with the cloning process?

2007-01-16 14:18:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my daughter is 20 and her man is 30 and he has to come to my house to get a meal and he dont want to buy her a pair of under wear what do i do and he comes to my house after hours and my husband really dont like this happen i feel as i am in the middle when your kids dont want to listen

2007-01-16 14:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Our sex life is almost non existant, I'm finding myself wanting to cheat more and more everyday. I've tried taking to him but he's having a tough time now. He's unemployed so he's stressing. He can't seem to hold a job, i love him and am willing to ride with him, what should i do?

2007-01-16 14:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki Nyquil 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend needs some help with this, apparently. He doesn't quite understand how much time he needs to be spending with me (per week) and how much with his buddies. We have been dating for a looong time, just FYI. The first year he spent almost all his time with me, and now he's realized his old guy friends and is hanging with them more. What's your idea of a good balance, say, for a week? I know there's not a concrete ratio, but I'd like to hear what you have to say and discuss it with him later. Thanks!

2007-01-16 14:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I went in my husband's cellphone on a hunch without his knowledge because he was acting weird to me lately. On his main screen I was startled by a picture of a girl spread eagle on a sofa butt naked. Of course I searched his phone and there were more pictures of nude woman. I was upset and I accused him of cheating. So, I got the darnedest idea to have him put me in his phone nude and he took the pictures but, then he erased them immediately. I asked him why didn't he keep my pictures in his phone and he said because I am his wife. I honestly do not know if the pictures on the phone are from porn sites or real women. I am upset because I think he doesn't think I look good enough to be on his phone. Help me because if I am wrong I would like to appologize to him. What do anyone else think?

2007-01-16 14:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by VON 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this guy and he is 43 and i am 23 and i really like him and everyone tells me that its worng and i should stop but i don't think i can. he also has a girlfriend

2007-01-16 14:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by frogger23 1 in Singles & Dating

a)Murder.
b)Stealing.
c)Prostitution.
d)Work.
e)Go to parents.

2007-01-16 14:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

what sould your main corcern in your 20's then in your 30's and in 40's

2007-01-16 14:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 14:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa Rivas 2 in Family

Mabye something so strange you knew right then and there you had to start thinking of a way to end the date.

2007-01-16 14:14:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it when girls are loud when they orgasm??? I am a very loud talk dirty kind of girl but sometimes I wonder if guys even like that.

2007-01-16 14:14:23 · 31 answers · asked by ..cHeRi.. 4 in Singles & Dating

I I am 12 years old and totally crushing on a guy.But I am scared to talk to him.I think its account of my low self-esteem.but anyways
whenever I talk to him I literally get numb.I cant get him off my mind.I dont know if he'd like me cuz I dont think I'm pretty enough to date him.I wanna talk to him but I am too darn scared plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-16 14:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I have been married for over 20 years and I love my wife dearly. Is it wrong to master bait when your not getting it from her?

2007-01-16 14:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Hyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really, seriously thought I was okay with a recent--within the past two days--breakup with my ex of six months. But then the night comes and, for whatever reason, I can't keep my emotions in check as well as I was doing earlier today. I don't want to cry anymore, regardless of how healthy it is. I can't stand crying alone, especially while thinking he doesn't even give a **** and is perfectly ******* okay. And it's too late to do anything with friends or go anywhere. Please, any suggestions on things I can do here at home to ease this pain before I get ready for bed would be appreciated. Thank you.

2007-01-16 14:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by CrystalDreams 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 14:12:37 · 2 answers · asked by USCalec11 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you have a secret? I have a big one that none of my friends know about. Tell me yours, I'll tell you mine. LOL

2007-01-16 14:11:53 · 22 answers · asked by FALCO 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm haveing trouble with my jackass of a boyfriend because he takes things to seriusly and he uses his emotions and his haert and not his brains and I want to work this out of him somehow....

2007-01-16 14:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by Braiden E 1 in Singles & Dating

at home? The first one home, or the one with the new car? The parent, or the child? Deep thoughts! LOL!

2007-01-16 14:11:33 · 3 answers · asked by Jen-Jen 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok theres this guy i went out with about 5 months ago, and he likes me (so i have heard from my friends) and i really like him... but we're not going out. and my friends said hes afraid to ask me out.... so what do i say to him? he doesnt know that i know he likes me tho... is there any way i can make it clear i WANT to go out with him!? please help! no rude comments please.

2007-01-16 14:11:01 · 4 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2 in Singles & Dating

Cause girls always say girl and boys always say boy.

2007-01-16 14:10:54 · 20 answers · asked by anime_moca 1 in Friends

but hes dated my ex best friend , ive ruined our friendship twice , we're really close now bu thow should i get him to want me again???? plz help

2007-01-16 14:10:16 · 4 answers · asked by strawberryskittle14 1 in Singles & Dating

I am tired of staying home and am waiting for him to take me somewhere to do something. What do I do to get him off his wallet and out on the town?

2007-01-16 14:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While it is true that men do not shy away from sex many men are not into the deep physical connection and mood setting that woman seem to like when we are with our man. Is it true that men don't desire romance or super close sexual intimacy like women do. I crave it from my husband but he seems to be fine without it. Are all men like this? Why does he not want to connect with me like I want to connect with him. I know he loves me, his fidelity is not in question. I am just so frustrated that he feels 1000 miles away during and after sex but is more affectionate at awkward times and I am a bit disappointed. Why can't he be in the moment with me. He likes it hot, heavy and freaky but I don't feel like he "makes love" to me. I need that and it seems that he doesn't get it. I don't like it like a "freak" I need to be caressed and cherished and it seems boring to him. HELP!!

2007-01-16 14:09:50 · 4 answers · asked by Venus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-16 14:09:48 · 18 answers · asked by cuttiedramapink 2 in Family

My dad (who is free to date whomever he chooses) recently started dating a trashy bar whore who has 5 kids, and leaves them who knows where to go to the bar. My dad is a respectable buisnessman in his mid 40's. He recently broke up with a woman who was super nice, but he said she was too clingy. I understand if that isn't what he wasnt, cuz he's been divorced from my mom for over 10 years.

He has only introduced this woman to my 2 younger brothers, who are supposed to keep her a secret. (they dont like her) I'm assuming cuz he's ashamed/embarassed.

He goes to the bar where my sister in law is a bartender, and she told me about all of this.

I dont have the right to tell my dad who to date. But do you think it would be wrong to let him know of my disappointment in his choice of women?

I'm 26, and I know i have absolutely no say in his love life. But I want him to know I'm disappointed. He is attractive and successful...he can do way better.

2007-01-16 14:09:15 · 2 answers · asked by Coltsgal 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've had this crush on this girl in my class for a while and, I'm not sure if she is shoiwing interest in me or not. When I go into the room before class 4 extra help and when she is in there and sometimes I'll see her smiling at me, or she'll just be staring at me when I'm not looking(but not in the creepy stalker way).

And typically its the other way around I'm the one smiling and staring. I don't know what to do (i've been burned in the past[not literaly])

What should I do????? HELP!!!

2007-01-16 14:09:09 · 3 answers · asked by QuestionMark 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband works very hard and make a great salary (200k+). I'm a mortgage broker and work on commission. I don't make anywhere close to as much as he does and don't work anywhere as hard; part-time at best. I am however responsible for the majority of the household upkeep. We don't have any children.

Lately he's been on my case about being lazy. When we argue he's quick to point out that essentially everything we own is his. This is very demeaning to me since we've been married for some time.

How should I deal with this?

2007-01-16 14:08:44 · 16 answers · asked by gabgirly 1 in Marriage & Divorce