ok i like this guy and he is 43 and i am 23 and i really like him and everyone tells me that its worng and i should stop but i don't think i can. he also has a girlfriend
2007-01-16 14:16:16 · 17 answers · asked by frogger23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wrong? No.
Wrong 2? No.
Why would anyone consider this wrong? Two legal, consenting adults?
2007-01-16 14:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by know_it_all_NOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the age difference doesn't bother you and if the fact that he has a GF is ok with you, then there's nothing wrong with this type of relationship, just don't expect anything more than what you two have. For the record, I was once involved with a guy who was 21 years younger than me (he was 23 when we met in 2002)....we had a "thing" going for over a year, but he got another girl pregnant and married her to do the "right thing". And there's nothing wrong with having a "f..k buddy". Men do it all the time, why can't women?
2007-01-16 22:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes for a minute. How would you feel if your boyfriend was messing around with a woman 20 years youger then him? Or any woman at all? It's not fair to any of the 3 of you in this situation. None of you can possibly get the full benefits of a relationship from this setup.
The best thing to do for yourself here, is to appreciate his friendship and be content with that and go for a boyfriend relationship who is free to have a girlfriend. You know? Good luck.
2007-01-16 22:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it, but the guy has a GF, how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Put yourself in the Gf's possition its not cool to hump someone elses man. Get yourself another sugar daddy.
2007-01-16 22:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also told you i think you are way to young but i can't say anything because i have made my mistakes in life. You will make yours you will learn as you go if you want to stay with him or not it's up to you and him. Just rember he has a girlfriend and 5 kids that he has a resposibilty to.
2007-01-16 22:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he age factor and the "Sex Buddy" status does not strike me as wrong. If both people involved are of adult age and are ok with thesituatuion its fine. However, since he has a girl friend, it seems wrong. Lies always catch up to people. If you are apart of one, it will catch up to you to. Good luck
2007-01-16 22:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 23 you're old enough to make your own decisions about your life. If you are happy the way things are then don't listen to anybody. If you don't want to see him you can stop just quit talking to him and say its over.
2007-01-16 22:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. I've always perfered older men my whole life. You can't help who you are and aren't in to.
But remember that he HAS a girlfriend... so if any moves are made it should be by him.
2007-01-16 22:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tif 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the gf is black then be prepared to hear :
OH HELLZ NAW ! WHY IZ YOU ALL UP ON MY MAN ??? GET UP OFF MY MAN HOE FO I WOP YO AZZ !
scary i know but all women are thats just black women and latinas there scary too.
hell all women are crazy .
2007-01-16 22:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a gf then forget bout him, find someone u can actually have and dont become a home wrecker
2007-01-16 22:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋