My boyfriend needs some help with this, apparently. He doesn't quite understand how much time he needs to be spending with me (per week) and how much with his buddies. We have been dating for a looong time, just FYI. The first year he spent almost all his time with me, and now he's realized his old guy friends and is hanging with them more. What's your idea of a good balance, say, for a week? I know there's not a concrete ratio, but I'd like to hear what you have to say and discuss it with him later. Thanks!
2007-01-16 14:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by reba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
50/50 is good. It's also good to chill with your girlfriends when he's chillin' with his buddies.
If can stand his buddies, try to hang out with them more. Then ask him to do the same with your friends.
2007-01-16 15:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by zotzotzot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old either of you are, so it makes this a bit difficult.
In a marriage, or a couple living together, usually the male spends 1-2 evenings per week with friends, and the rest of his time between work and his wife or girlfriend. He would take his wife/girlfriend out minimum once a week to dinner and/or a movie.
In a relationship where both the guy and girl are still living home with their parents, the guy would still spend more of his time with his girlfriend than with his friends. He would also probably be expected to spend some time home with the family he lives with.
Whatever you two decide about his time with his friends--be sure that you get equal time to spend with your friends (or family).
2007-01-16 14:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not opt for to be in an "everyone" dominant courting, i opt for a courting in which my female friend is my pal to boot as my sexual spouse. you do not talk of "who wears the pants" in friendships, do you? i do not realize why human beings imagine a courting should be a dominant/submissive dynamic... I quite hate the idea of authority. human beings should be loose. for this reason, i do not opt for to ever experience like i'm bossing a woman round or that she thinks i'm making her do some thing she doesn't opt for to do. on the different hand, I fee my own freedom, and fairly for the reason that a tremendous type of the court docket situations men have about dominant women folk is they don't "enable" their bf dangle out at the same time with his pals, etc - any female friend ever tells me to settle on between her or my pals, i'm lengthy gone. So i'd a lot really come across a courting in which we are able to both experience free with one yet another the human beings i understand who've pulled one of those courting off are the human beings who were only sturdy pals for a lengthy time period previously they began courting. It appears like the most exciting and discomfort loose way of doing issues IMO.
2016-11-24 22:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make 1 day out of the week 4 just u time,2nd 4 alone x or just the girlsx the balance is u both get ur personal space & x apart.& add one day 2 the mix,just 4 u and him all day"or make it "datenight it bring's back excitement & spark withot being 2 bloggled down with who and were 2 do or go.Good luck.try it @ least 4 one week u'll b happier.
2007-01-16 14:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first 4 days with you and then 3 days with friends
2007-01-16 14:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by k-dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋