Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

My girlfriend has been with 7 men, including me. I try to see past it, but I just can't. I seem to think it's a high number. She also claims to have had sex with them, even though she wasn't in love with them. I've been with three women (including her) and every girl I've had sex with, I've been in love. She says she loves me and that I'm different, but this is bothering me almost to the point to where I'm almost ready to end the relationship. Ladies, How many men have you been with and are my expectations too high? Should I just let this go?

2007-01-15 03:46:36 · 26 answers · asked by whathappenedamber 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 03:46:28 · 28 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

I need some good advice..no bullsh!t answers..ok?
There's this girl, she's really pretty.. but for some reason, I'm shy. ( i never really am)..but I've NEVER actually talked to her though, see thats a problem..so I need some good converasation starters..and tips on how not to make a fool of my self.. i know I have a chance.. I jsut dont wanna mess nething up..and I dont wanna wait to long..so please gimme some good advice... i mean..I know how to play the game.. I'm just scared about this one for some reason. IDK why?....but I'm 15..and yes I do focus on my studies. ...just in need of some good advice.

2007-01-15 03:46:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now he is mad at me cause i brroke up with him and i just didn't feel like we were right for each other as i no you all have i like another boy nad i no that he is right for me you all say it is just puppy love since i am only 13 but you don't no my feelings the boy that i brroke up with whats to be more than friends

2007-01-15 03:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by amanda d 1 in Friends

i was engaged to the most amazing guy that was so perfect for me,but his mom always introdue into our realtionship well he tried moveing out a week ago and she threathe dhim if he moves out she doenst want nothing to do with him etc..so he broke up with me.. i really miss him and i dont want or feel other guys are it for me,i feel he is the one for me ..what do i do?

2007-01-15 03:45:45 · 17 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 03:44:31 · 2 answers · asked by Ruby 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i was ment to be going out with this guy and we got really close and he seemed really nice, but then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me n calling me back i dont know what i did and why hes not talking to me has anybody any idea?thanks

2007-01-15 03:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by poppy! 2 in Singles & Dating

Women: Has it ever been a problem for your husband/bf if you make more money then they do?

This is for a paper that I am thinking about writing.

2007-01-15 03:43:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He never asks me about my son. He never compliments me unless I may bring it up. I am falling in love with him tho. We have really grown close. But I wonder if it is because the sex is so good I won't find that anywhere else???

2007-01-15 03:43:25 · 11 answers · asked by jen 2 in Singles & Dating

help me!

2007-01-15 03:42:58 · 1 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i guess the picture of me is decieving, but it's the closest one to the way i look! but i'm not as 'confident' as it appears!

anyway to the point:
there is a girl i wanna jst get to know, but i'm not sure on the way of approaching her, her friends say she's shy, and she is! wut do i do? just go for it & if she's shy how do i know if she thinks we'd get allong when she isn't such and extrovert?

2007-01-15 03:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by Rambo 1 in Singles & Dating

by flirting i mean no physicall contact and no serious sexual intentions. just mind games.

2007-01-15 03:42:32 · 39 answers · asked by Vali 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance arrived at her job early and discovered the cash register was missing as well as other things. So in fear, she left and went next door to the men's store. There's a guy their who always eat lunch at her resturant, so he walked around her job to check things out with her to see if the burgular was still there. After the police, employees and her boss show up she calls me a 1:15 min later to give the news. In my mind I was extremely furious that I was the last to find out .... Am I over-reacting or am I being put on the back burner?

2007-01-15 03:42:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bofriend used to be a bad boy last time.but now he change and want to be a good boy.he wears earings and my parents don't like him juz because he wears earings.besides that, he is not really good in education.my parents expect me to find a guy who is better in education and has a good job.my boyfriend is hardworking in his current job,not a professional job.he's a good guy,responsible,caring.i love him very much.

2007-01-15 03:42:05 · 7 answers · asked by shirley 1 in Singles & Dating

Women: Has it ever been a problem for your husband/bf if you make more money then they do?

This is for a paper that I am thinking about writing.

2007-01-15 03:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am well aware of the fact that I am NOT a good listener. For some reason I always feel like I HAVE to get my point in or the world will come to an end. I not only catch myself turning what she says around to talk about myself, but I cut her (my wife) and other people off ALL the time. I know I'm doing this and I know it needs to stop but I don't know how. I REALLY need help in this area. HELP!

2007-01-15 03:41:38 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On Friday I went to the video store where that guy I told u about works. And when my uncle was talking to him and the guy was looking at me. And then he was talking about his favorite games to play and he got to know more about me when he said that. And on Saturday we went back to exchange more games and he was looking at me and I was on the phone and he kept looking down and then glancing up at me. Then he playfully asked me why I was still there and I said "b/c my mom and my uncle are exchanging games". And then as I was leaving my mom goes up to him and says " You can have her". The her she ment was me. And he gave me the look. The scooby-doo look when he really wants a scooby snack. What do u think?

2007-01-15 03:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

My son is leaving for IRAQ in 1 week and i am terrified !! I just need some prayers and kind words to help me get through this !! Ipray for all our military every day ,but this has hit so close to home it scares me and i know their are a lot of people going through the same thing our family is going through and may god bless us all!! He is my only son and i love him so much and he has made us so prod of the man he has became! His name is C.J. and him and my daughter are my pride&joy because i am so proud to be their mother! My daughter gave birth 4months ago and has developed heart trouble and she needs prayers too and her name is Heather!! Please be nice on here because i am feeling overwhelmed right now!! Thank god i have a great husband to lean on ,but he is just as scared as i am ,but will not show it!! Thanks again and may god bless us all !!!

2007-01-15 03:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by linda bug 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How long did it take you to realize that you wanted to marry your wife? I mean I am divorced now and it took us 8 years to get married. I am in a relationship now for a year and a half or so and I feel like we both have the idea of get married in our head. Do you usually know from early on if this is the "one" or what?

2007-01-15 03:40:50 · 8 answers · asked by ny_girl11229 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We just had our first date, and we were getting on briliantly, laughing and talking loads. Initially upon eye contact he would look away embarassed but by the end we kept almost constant eye contact. At one point he sat with his hands on his thighs and kept rubbing his thighs with his hands. Just curious as to what that means. Any ideas?

2007-01-15 03:40:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had 2 affairs in my life. One for 2 months and other one for 2 yrs.. But never got physical with anyone as i dont believe in sex before marriage. I don't have any contacts now at this point of time with any of these persons. Now should i tell about these affairs to my would be husband? or is there no need? as there was nothing physical. I was thinking this as it might cause a problem afterwards if my husband gets to know this from my friends.

2007-01-15 03:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by me... 1 in Weddings

Is Buying a BMW X-5 too much?

2007-01-15 03:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by Humility 2 in Marriage & Divorce

suggest some ways.. really worried 4 this.. first time

2007-01-15 03:39:56 · 3 answers · asked by jaya 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that everytime someone asks a question about race & dating, everyone answers the same and yet we still get those questions? Do you all not read the question's answers before you jump in? Do you just have some much time to kill that you are hoping to get a different answer? Most important to me is "Why the HELL do you care what others think about it?"If it bothers you that much maybe the problem is not others but you...show some conviction in your life and just do the right thing!

Live your life so that your friends can defend you but so that they don't have to!

2007-01-15 03:39:46 · 3 answers · asked by utahbugtussel 3 in Singles & Dating

he flirts with me even in front of his girlfriend?

2007-01-15 03:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy that asked you out 5times and all those times you say no and then start talking about someone else that you have feelings for is he jealous when he wont even talk to you???bearing in mind you went out once before and it all ended in disaster

2007-01-15 03:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a teenager and i really like this girl. I know that she will never be with me. Even if i try to forget about her i cant because she is in the same school bus that i am and i see her every single day (i cant change buses and im a bit young to have a drivers license). Any usefull tips please??

2007-01-15 03:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

so i can steal your wallet when you're not lookin.

that would make me happy.....

2007-01-15 03:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do we get together?
he likes me. he's cute and sweet but a little shy. we DON'T go to the same school. we both play ice hockey. we will go to the same high school if i choose to go to a public one next year. we go to the same church. our families are friends...which makes the prospect of going out a little awkward...........
how do we get together?

2007-01-15 03:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and my mom won't let me go to California by myself i told her I was going to stay at my sister's place for the summer?

2007-01-15 03:36:51 · 5 answers · asked by BabyC 1 in Family