I need some good advice..no bullsh!t answers..ok?
There's this girl, she's really pretty.. but for some reason, I'm shy. ( i never really am)..but I've NEVER actually talked to her though, see thats a problem..so I need some good converasation starters..and tips on how not to make a fool of my self.. i know I have a chance.. I jsut dont wanna mess nething up..and I dont wanna wait to long..so please gimme some good advice... i mean..I know how to play the game.. I'm just scared about this one for some reason. IDK why?....but I'm 15..and yes I do focus on my studies. ...just in need of some good advice.
2007-01-15 03:46:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm your age, and I know what your saying and feeling. Its hard I know, but you just got to go for it, talk to her as if you were her friend. Tease her a bit, make an inside joke, get her number and call her. Just get to be her friend thats key
2007-01-15 03:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Justin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, brings back memories! Except, I was incredibly shy at 15! You're scared about this one because you really like her and don't want to blow it.
Well, no matter what you do, there is always the possibility of making a fool out of yourself. It can't always be avoided.
Best bet is to just grow a pair and be CONFIDENT and maybe a little witty. Girls like self-confidence in a guy. As for conversation starters-something mundane is usually best when it is a girl you don't speak to about something on a regular basis. Actually, even better than that, pay her a sincere compliment about something. Then say something mundane to get a conversation going. Hopefully, she'll play along. If she likes you too, she will.
From there, it's just a matter of finding common ground to build on.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-15 11:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you're shy around this girl is because you just have a delicate ego. You need to get over it. Since you're young, you don't know this, but there are more pretty girls out there that you're going to have to talk to in the future. Some of them will even be at your job if you get into corporate America. You just have to act natural around her, like she was anybody else that you liked, and talk to her that way. So basically, you're going to have to get over yourself, say hello to the girl, and talk to her naturally like you like the girl. Be yourself.
2007-01-15 11:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by bo, kingpin at large 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made a fool of yourself but we all do that from time to time. Call her ,show up at her door just have a flower for her and she'll get the picture.Sounds like you don't want to screw this one up .She must b pretty special. My thought is that she is.Good luck ..Im sure you will have a sparkle in those blue eyes !
2007-01-15 12:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋