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We just had our first date, and we were getting on briliantly, laughing and talking loads. Initially upon eye contact he would look away embarassed but by the end we kept almost constant eye contact. At one point he sat with his hands on his thighs and kept rubbing his thighs with his hands. Just curious as to what that means. Any ideas?

2007-01-15 03:40:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

hands on thighs is a guys subconcious way of bringing your eyes to his crotch area - basically in a dominant way of invitation
Other good body language signs are his legs crossed facing you - his arms open - this again is a no barrier gesture - thus inviting you into his personal space
Rubbing your cheek - or brushing hair out of your eyes - all good!
xx

2007-01-15 03:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

This is a good sign babe, you are lucky!!
He will be rubbing his thighs because he finds you really attractive but is nervous because he does not want to make a fool of himself in front of you so rubbing his thighs is a way of calming himself down when he is around you.
Don't worry babe he wont do this on all of your dates. Good work though catching this one.
xxx

2007-01-15 13:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0 0

by the eye contact, at first he was a little shy (good thing) and then he got comfortable around you (also good.) when i talk to my girlfriend, i constantly play with my hands or rub them against my leg-- without even meaning to! so yea, he loves you =)

2007-01-15 21:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0 0

Nervous, Anxious, Likes you, Probably more then just likes you and i am not talkin about love...lol Did it look like he was dying to kiss you and you kept talkin and talkin and he kept rubbin his thighs because he was getting....all of the above....? LOL

2007-01-15 11:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0 0

Not really, but it was probably just nervous energy. It sounds like you had fun. I hope he plans another fun date for the two of you. Good Luck

2007-01-15 11:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Seems like he's just a little nervous, that's understandable for a first date.

2007-01-15 11:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0 0

He wants to get them hands over you but was feeling a bit sweaty with nerves.

2007-01-16 08:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

He was probably still a bit nervous and his hands got a bit sweaty

2007-01-15 11:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 1 0

He's insecure, nervous.

The rubbing of the thighs.. does he do drugs? Sometimes those who need a fix will do this.

2007-01-15 11:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 1 0

Maybe he was trying to keep his hands to himself, but he wanted to touch you-- so he just touched himself instead....
also could be burning off excess energy/excitement by doing some reptitive task...(like thumb twiddling)

2007-01-15 11:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0 0

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