im a teenager and i really like this girl. I know that she will never be with me. Even if i try to forget about her i cant because she is in the same school bus that i am and i see her every single day (i cant change buses and im a bit young to have a drivers license). Any usefull tips please??
2007-01-15 03:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your in High School Their's got to be hundreds of other girls in that school the best advice I can give you is to Find another girl quick (someone that you're interested in) and get something going with her, trust me the sooner you meet someone else and move on the quicker you'll get over this girl and just being around her won't even fase you anymore!
2007-01-15 03:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless she's told you straight out that she doesn't want to go out with you, don't assume it. My b/f thought the same thing about me before we were together until one day I pursued him and we've been together for 2 years now. But in the case that she has told you, you're still young and there's plenty of other girls out there. Just don't talk to her as much and make her have to come to you if she wants your attention. Start hanging out with your friends more and maybe go on some dates or double dates even if it's not a relationship type deal. The more active you are the easier it'll be to forget about her.
2007-01-15 11:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. There is this guy I really like and think about all the time, I see him everyday. Problem, he has a girlfriend, (Room mates boyfriend) and I am not going to even try and steel him off her, one thing, she is have his child, two, I amd friends with her. But still I can't stop thinking about him. But guess what I do. I do other stuff and thik about other stuff so it so don't bug me.
2007-01-15 12:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by LeoJames8-1-08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well without knowing exactly why you say that you have no chance of ever being with her - I would have to suggest that you move on. You are still young and you don't want to waste your time wishing you could be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You may miss out on someone really nice.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 11:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such infatuation! It is just nature's way of reproducing the spoecies.
It might nevere leave, but real relationships are NOT built on fantasy. Get real and enjoy someone who wants to humngh and be with you.
2007-01-15 11:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else and jus dont think boutz it as much u cant really forget cuz hell if thats possible then everyone would try and do it. Just learn from it. Then again u never did give her a chance so u dunno if u had a shot or not
2007-01-15 11:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by ooobabybunnyooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she involved w/ anything like sports, theater or
any after school groups that you might like ?
if so join the one she's in & TRY to get to know her, but be sure that if she has a b-friend he's ok w/ her talking to
other guys, some boyfriends get stupid about that stuff
2007-01-15 11:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything.
Wait until you see the next cutie on the bus.
We all eventually move on....you will too.
2007-01-15 11:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRy to ask her out!!!!!!! You will not lose anything! If she turns you down no big deal; there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are young and have plenty of time.
2007-01-15 11:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Artemis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have two choices,
talk to her, get to know her, take her out for ice cream
or
find a girl who likes you back
you don't KNOW if she won't go out with you until you talk to her. i've been surprised by some of the girls i've been with. don't knock yourself out the game by thinking negatively. if you go for her and get shot down, so what?! you'll be happy knowing you went for something, instead of thinking, 'What if...' if you get shot down, just talk to another girl and get to know her. you'll forget about your bus crush like that.
2007-01-15 11:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋