My fiance arrived at her job early and discovered the cash register was missing as well as other things. So in fear, she left and went next door to the men's store. There's a guy their who always eat lunch at her resturant, so he walked around her job to check things out with her to see if the burgular was still there. After the police, employees and her boss show up she calls me a 1:15 min later to give the news. In my mind I was extremely furious that I was the last to find out .... Am I over-reacting or am I being put on the back burner?
2007-01-15 03:42:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think your over reacting a bit. Her safety and calling the police would be the first two things to take care of. What were you going to do if she called you? Say, get out of there and call the police anyways right!
Don't worry about it... it was just an instict thing. I know you want to be her protector.. and that's sweet, but I wouldn't sweat this particular situation.
2007-01-15 03:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by CEP 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She went somewhere where she would be safe and he probably offer to go back with her to see if the person was still there(smart). She had to call the police and she had to call her boss. There were questions that had to be answered and that takes time. No I don't think you were put on the back burner. She didn't want you to worry.You would have wanted to be there and that would have been a distraction. She did the right thing. Relax and be happy that she wasn't in the store when this happened.
2007-01-15 11:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by lynnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, get over yourself !! You should be proud of the way she handled herself during a fearful moment. Leaving the scene and quickly seeking help was precisely what she should have done. In a very short period of time when the scene was secure, she had the decency to call you. When the police were questioning her and taking her statements, what did you expect her to do?? Interrupt them, so you could be informed??? If you are ranting and raving about this, she needs to put you on the back burner !!!
2007-01-15 11:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over reacting. She had to have been stunned to walk in and find her place of employment robbed. I would say that the police and her boss kept her very busy answering questions. Had she not gone to the business next door, they could have had suspicions that she was part of the robbery. You need to give her at least a hug, tell her you love her, and be thankful that she wasn't there during the robbery. You could be grieving now instead of being petty.
2007-01-15 11:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This incident in itself is no reason for alarm. She did the smartest thing and that was getting out of there and getting around other people. I'm sure with the adrenaline that came from the situation and the fear she just was a bundle of emotions and confusion. She is your fiance and hopefully if she wans't committed to you she wouldn't be wearing your ring. (She does wear your ring doesn't she?) Unless you have other reasons to doubt her devotion and faithfulness to you I think you are over reacting on this one. Hopefully you two haven't given each other reason to suspect cheating as relationships with doubt are painful and stressful for anyone. Give her the benefit of the doubt. . . treat her like a queen. . . and until she gives you a concrete reason to doubt her. . . . enjoy what you two have and try not to worry. . it will only eat you up inside. Good luck and God Bless you. . . . . God BLess America as well and death to all terrorists!!!!
2007-01-15 11:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by vonhugenstein21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overreacting. She did the right thing by getting someone to go back with her and then call the police and her boss. You have nothing to do with the business just with her and I think she did the right thing by taking care of the burglary first and then calling you. Think about it, it could have been worse she may have not called you at ALL.
2007-01-15 11:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her priority was to her job and employer...yeah, you're upset over nothing...she had other things on her mind at the time than to call her bf or anyone else...and it would've looked inappropriate in front of her boss for her to be socializing in the middle of a crisis at work.
Get over yourself.
2007-01-15 11:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your over-reacting. If I got robbed the first person I am wanting to call would be the police, not my fiance.
2007-01-15 11:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by 88776 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are over reacting. She did the smart thing and that was to get help as fast as she could so she wouldn't be alone at the crime scene. You should be proud of her not mad at her.
2007-01-15 12:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are really blowing this up. She was in a state of shock and panic. Give a break! If you can't YOU need pro help.
2007-01-15 11:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋