by flirting i mean no physicall contact and no serious sexual intentions. just mind games.
2007-01-15 03:42:32 · 39 answers · asked by Vali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer boils down to your intentions.
If someone responds in kind with your flirting, what are you going to do with it?
However, to play mind games is just not right. I don't see any good coming out of it, if that is your intention.
2007-01-15 03:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by ME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think flirting is actually cheating, but it could be a prelude to cheating. It may depend on whom the person is flirting with. Sometimes, a boyfriend will teasingly flirt w/a female friend or relative just to make her feel good and that's innocent enough provided it is within full view of his significant other. The same could be said of the female gender. So, I don't think flirting equals cheating, but if someone has the desire to flirt heavy w/someone other than his or her significant other it could mean that they've lost interest in the relationship. It could also be their way of causing a problem so that the other person will leave them and make the break up easier. So, flirting is suspicious behavior.
2007-01-15 03:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think flirting is close enough 2 cheating. Y flirt when u have someone in ur life already. Y not flirt with the one u r with u want 2 know y u won't because flirting is a temptation of cheating.
2007-01-15 03:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with layjc01, it could end up to leading somewhere and how do you know to trust the other person that its just a fun game? What if they don't think so and start to pursue you even if you are already hooked up-its dangerous to flirt its always the start of something be it good or bad.
2007-01-15 03:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by UR funee but looks arent evrythg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think there are no angels on this earth therefore so far as there physical contact and playing of mind games, then i think there is cheating in it. you see you cannot do the things you do with your partner with another person. when you flirt it means you are cheating i personally do like people who flirt.
2007-01-15 03:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by spankybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your intentions. Why are you flirting? Are you putting feelers out for possible cheating? Something missing from your present relationship that you need reassurance of your attractiveness?
may be more going on here than cheating (it could be cheating if you want it to be)
2007-01-15 03:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think flirting in this sort is cheating at all. I do it all the time. Flirting is just a way of making others feel good about themselves. ;)
2007-01-15 03:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there's a difference between flirting and just complimenting. i wouldn't be pleased if my girlfriend flirted around, and i would consider it cheating (in a minor way), but i would definitely not break up with her or anything, like i would if she cheated in a worse way (kissing, etc.) let me make this clear though: SHE IS VERY LOYAL TO ME, I AM JUST USING HER AS AN EXAMPLE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, SO I DON'T WANT TO FALSELY GIVE YOU THE NOTION THAT I DON'T TRUST HER, BECAUSE I'D TRUST HER WITH MY LIFE.
2007-01-15 13:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Konrad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By flirting with someone, it means that you like them and want them to like you in a game way. Let's just say that if you saw her flirting with some one else, how would you feel?
2007-01-15 03:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion the real question is does flirting hurt your partner and would that hurt the relationship as much or more than cheat? It is about building a strong lasting friendship/relationship on trust, honesty and commitment..."no its not cheating but it is as bad in my mind."
2007-01-15 03:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by utahbugtussel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋