He never asks me about my son. He never compliments me unless I may bring it up. I am falling in love with him tho. We have really grown close. But I wonder if it is because the sex is so good I won't find that anywhere else???
2007-01-15 03:43:25 · 11 answers · asked by jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for sharing that with us.
2007-01-15 03:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he never compliments you? or asks about your son?
Does your son live with you?
Some men are not good at compliments and as such if he is the same then be fore warned he will not be good at communication or sharing. Be sure you are fine with that.
As for your son...it really depends on the situation. Does he know him? How well? How often does he see him? so on and so forth.
Sex is only important in the beginning find someone you can communicate with cause eventually the sex slows down and becomes routine and eventually stops. Communication is forever.
2007-01-15 11:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully....your son is a part of you and therefore any man you date has to take on the "whole package". It could be that he's not a parent himself and isn't used to the situation....or it could be as you say, the sex is good so he's hanging around for that. I think you have to have a serious conversation with the man....ask him where he sees the relationship heading......you'll be able to tell by his reaction if the type of feelings you have for him are returned. If they're not.....walk away.
2007-01-15 11:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he is ready to be in a committed relationship with someone who already has a child. It seems like he is ignoring that fact. The sex may be great but you have an obligation to your child and you need to make him aware of that. You need to try to include the child, if possible, in some of your activites so he can become acquainted with him. Good luck to you.
2007-01-15 11:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy may be interested in the sex, but it sounds like that is about all. If he was interested in you as a person, he would want to know about any and all things that interest you - especially your son. Why want someone who is so into themselves and not into you. It will be a lifetime of giving and not receiving. Don't you deserve more???
2007-01-15 11:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it onli a sex relationship too me u dont talk boutz ur son,he dont compliment u so i mean really was the point in the relationship other then the sex? dont have sex for 1 week and see where it leads u or try 3 days and see ho he acts
2007-01-15 11:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by ooobabybunnyooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It"s probably the sex because like you said he doesn't seem interested in other things. I'm a single mom and if their not interested in your kid then they aren't there for you. It all depends on what you want. Good Luck
2007-01-15 11:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He is a loser. Figure out why you like losers. Good luck finding a good guy.
2007-01-15 11:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by yendyssixela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have kids? or not? if you are close with him and are enjoying your time just go with the flow dont give him up over this. ask him his feelings
2007-01-15 11:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need someone that appreciates you and thinks you and your child are special don't settle for good sex and the rest is crap
2007-01-15 11:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually active, and he doesn't mention your biological child, then he is using you.
2007-01-15 11:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋