Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Sam, my younger sister, is starting to terrify me. At 20 years, she's in college.

For now.

We were both brough up Christian, and I've always been proud as to how strong she has always been.

Other than an obsession with being a preacher's wife, she has lead a normal teenage life. She loves TV, pop, etc. She was normal.

As a college freshman she decided she was called to be an intercessory missionary and wanted to quit school. That was a rough 3 months for my whole family because my sister has never even been on a mission trip and is NOT ready to come up to the Kansas City International House of Prayer on her own. She has yet to even hold a job!

Lately she's can't hold a conversation without turning it into a sermon. A phone conversation attempting to find out how school is going turns into a conversation about the glory of Immanual.

I just don't know where my sister is going, and I don't know how to deal with her anymore.

2007-01-15 10:43:18 · 17 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7 in Family

How do girls ask guys out? Guys, how do u want to be asked ot by a modest girl?
Ok I think I might like my best friend. How in the world do i ask him out (if I decde to) or how do I drop hints that I want him to ask me out? I dont really want to ak him out because every tim its ended badly. Remember I am a modest girl and 13 so..... ya. Anyway, thanks 4 all your help! :D

2007-01-15 10:43:03 · 13 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 10:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by Samantha R 1 in Singles & Dating

I met the most perfect guy. I never entended to get as close to him as I am now but now that I have feelings for him it makes my situaton worse. Im sixteen and he's twenty two. I turn seventeen this year. I love him and he loves me and he's really nice and caring. I want to be with him but I know that it's wrong in some ways. The age of consent in my state is sixteen but im still worried about whether or not I should be with him. We decided to stay close friends until im ready and I told him that that may be when im out of high school which is next yr. He said he's willing to wait but I dont know if I believe that. I dont look sixteen and im very mature but I know being with him will be difficult. If I decide to be with him is this wrong? Should I tell my parents or should I just wait until im out of school.

2007-01-15 10:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 10:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should i show him and if so how should i show him like give him a *******

2007-01-15 10:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by Guitar heroez 1 in Singles & Dating

If you tell a guy you like him, can it somehow make him like you back?? I mean, if girls say that to a guy, doesn't it make the guy to think about the girl even more?

2007-01-15 10:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago. i was supposed to wait on him, and i did. but when he wanted me back i told him i coulnd't put my heart through it again because i know what would happen. now i like this other guy, and we're getting to know each other. therefore, we call ourselves "talking" how long should i wait until i start officially "dating" him?

2007-01-15 10:41:26 · 29 answers · asked by youmakemesmile :] 1 in Singles & Dating

ok everyboy loves me even the guys that my friends like so my friends are rely jelous so know what do i say to them

2007-01-15 10:41:25 · 5 answers · asked by tallnpretty91 1 in Singles & Dating

i live with my boyfriend, and his dad is abusive to him...... what can i do or say to him(my boyfriend) to show that i care.... or should i just be there with him..

2007-01-15 10:41:24 · 3 answers · asked by DxL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to know. I have seen it in every case in the office. Thanks.

2007-01-15 10:40:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm married he's not we are in our early 30's last night we went to a hotel and got it on i had to get back home he said he he'll call me on my private cell i know he works today should i wait for him to call or call him or was i just a booty call how can i find out?
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2007-01-15 10:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How soon does it take to love someone? In your opinon...

For eg:

a day, a week, a month, 6 months, a year and so on...

2007-01-15 10:40:17 · 4 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Singles & Dating

"Meaning" some people like hair, or legs or nails?

2007-01-15 10:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there a code that will hide only one or two people or people you want to chose to be hidden? I know there is a code to hide all of your friends.
Im just curious because i have a friend who only has 50 something friends,but the thing on there says 60 something. i was wondering if maybe she found a way to hide certain people...??

2007-01-15 10:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Friends

hi, im 26, never had a girl friend, been rejected so many times i've lost count. i have a great job, a great career, my own apartment, all the fundamentals that a guy can ever need. i dont have an image problem as i am ok looking and have a fine dress sense. i have a great personality& a great sense of humour, i just don't understand it, why dont girls want me? people say the right girl will come around, but she never has, people say im young, but my 50yr old mate has heard that one ll his life yet no1 came around for him. Do i have to be a jerk in order to get girls? i dont want to be something im not. Is it coz im a nice guy that im a loser in today's society? 'Someone will come along' ??? well, people only say that to get rid of you. Why do girls only call me after they get pregnant and they rejected me prior to that? What have i done wrong?

2007-01-15 10:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by vanilla 1 in Singles & Dating

because they know they aren't gonna get laid, or do they date them because of the challenge, or is it neither and it really isn't ALWAYS about sex.

2007-01-15 10:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 10:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by ilovedadq 3 in Singles & Dating

I am having issues with my Best friend. She and i both big flirts and she is mad at me all the time because everytime we meet a boy they all want to date me and not her. I dont know what i can do to make her not angry at me all the time. in fact the last boy we both met i didnt even talk to him other then saying hello and then i walked off so that she wouldnt get mad at me. but he told her that he wanted to date me and she is taking it out on me. what can i do to make her not hate me all the time.

2007-01-15 10:35:54 · 24 answers · asked by In love with my bestest friend 2 in Friends

is it the same as a car? middle or the side. should i have posted this under bus category. no smart comments are you will be reported to the powers that be at yahoo. we will take away your answer privileges.

2007-01-15 10:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Singles & Dating

I've had no freinds in 2 years.

I rarely make conversations at school.The thing is.
I feel because i have no friends i don't want to come out of my shell because i don't want people to find out i'm a loner.They'll inevitably ask me who i hang around with and i won't know what to say.

I can either lie or tell them the truth and leave myself open to being known as a loner.At the moment they probly don't know for sure i'm a loner in school & outside school.


p.s i've never been verbally or physically bullied.

2007-01-15 10:34:34 · 12 answers · asked by boh990 2 in Friends

I have a friend who is a player and I realize I cannot trust him. We have never gone out but he gave me the impression that he like me but I realize he really does not. It has been really hard to get passed because I liked him but he is so immature when it comes to women. Should I continue being friends with him? Common sense tells me not to but it would not be right. Just would like another opinion or so.

2007-01-15 10:33:12 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

my father has been coughing so badly that blood came out.. now he looks really sick
I could see his dieing very slowly....OMG..I hope not!

yesterday he was coughing so bad(his a heavy smoker)
I had stomack sick....and he wont see a doc coze he doesn't like them or the hospitals

so I had an argument with my mother and told her weather he likes it or not his GOING to a doc!!
so today he went by HIMSELF!!...and came back saying it was nothing!!..my mother told him why the doc didn't pic your lungs he said he doesn't need to and kept on shooking he's head!!
I wanted to cry so much..I went to my bedroom..and just tried hard to let my tears fall..but I Fuc.kn couldn't cry!!
I was hearbroken..sad depressed.....dont know?
Im just letting my anger right here..
so thankx for listening!

2007-01-15 10:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Before you women start, maybe they ARE better off with him if I hate him enough to not see the kids. I want NOTHING to do with him. He moved out after he became involved with another woman. He now wants a divorce but has dumped her. ( I actually feel sorry for her). But I want nothing to do with him. The only way that can happen is if I give him complete custody of the kids. NOW I understand how men do this a lot. Leave the wife and the kids and start again. Live and learn.

2007-01-15 10:33:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 10 months who is 27 (russian) and lives at home wants me to come in and say hello to her parents everytime i pick her up or drop her off. Its important to her that i be close to her family because she is. I dont have a problem with it every now and then but i feel it is a bit unusual and reminds me of when i was 16 years old. I keep telling her to be more indepenent and leave the nest. Am I wrong?

2007-01-15 10:32:53 · 23 answers · asked by slumlordo 1 in Singles & Dating

How long should you date someone before becoming engaged? And how long is a good length of time for an engagement?

2007-01-15 10:32:48 · 13 answers · asked by i_love_610 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please i need tips best tip gets fav. pick!

2007-01-15 10:32:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you guys are mean you called me mean name why

2007-01-15 10:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by Amber D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-15 10:31:23 · 18 answers · asked by Joseph G 1 in Friends

well my interm report card was mailed a week ago. I took it snd hid somewhere. I told myself that i would put it back sometime in the mailbox a week later... that's when my grandma was going to leave. Well the day has come, what should i do how should i put it back in the mailbox without my parents noticing? i don't want to hide it anymore!

2007-01-15 10:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by Nik person 2 in Friends