How do girls ask guys out? Guys, how do u want to be asked ot by a modest girl?
Ok I think I might like my best friend. How in the world do i ask him out (if I decde to) or how do I drop hints that I want him to ask me out? I dont really want to ak him out because every tim its ended badly. Remember I am a modest girl and 13 so..... ya. Anyway, thanks 4 all your help! :D
2007-01-15 10:43:03 · 13 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you THINK you might like him
Make sure you either do or you don't because you say he's your bestfriend?
Thinking you only like him, going out with him and finding out you don't.. well you could say good bye to your happy best friend relatiosnhip rigth there.
Be positive first that you want him as a potential boyfriend.
Friends going out with friends can be tricky sometimes, but it can work
As for how to ask him out, the best way is to be confident and to not do it at school.. Try after school, when none of his or your friends are around
Good for you though, stepping up to the plate like that!
Girls can ask the guys out to you know!
2007-01-15 10:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy...I've been there before...well, I'm 14 now and let me tell you, the situation you're in SUCKS! It turned out bad for me but hey, he could end up being your dream guy.
Here's some tips.
-To drop hints, talk about you wanting a bf, but don't sound desperate, that will turn im off
-flirt a bit more then usual, laugh at his jokes, smile around him, and even don't be afraid to give him a playful shuve
-spend one-on-one time with him, if he's your friend, ask if he would just wanna go to a movie with him or just hang out
I'm kind of on the shy side when it comes to asking a guy out. But I did once, all i said was that I was tempted to ask him out and BAM! he said he wanted to too. But just do it spur of the moment, don't think too much about it
Good Luck!
2007-01-15 10:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by macloveskingtut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well you said he is your best friend so the thing I would do in your situation is just see if he wants to "hang out sometime". It would not seem weird to just go out to a movie or lunch since you are best friends. But just make it the two of u going out to a movie. That wayhe might realize he likes being with you one on one and it would make it a lot easier to ask him out to dinner or a real date.
2007-01-15 10:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by summerlovin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him one on one and tell him u may like him as more than just a friend...ask him if he feels the same..if not, then say that you are fine with being just friends and you dont want things to be weird
2007-01-15 10:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casually mention phrases like "yeah, we have been friends for a long time" or "man, u know most girls would die for you" and other phrases like that. when you mention these, do not look directly at him, it is good to hint, but not to the point when you are begging him, that will just pull him farther away. ask him questions like "when are you planning on getting a girlfriend?" and other things like that, remember, do not make direct eye contact. hope this helps (it worked for me)
2007-01-15 10:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by rokndrumm3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually don't ask guys out, not to burst your bubble. try talking to him and dropping hints, then maybe saying you like him alot. i wish i could help more, but i've never asked out a guys before. my bf asked me out. but guys are shy about it too; it took my bf 3 months just to ask me to go to the movies with him! dating is akward; especially at 13. try to just drop hints. good luck!!! swimmergirl4@verizon.net is you need more advice. i'd like to help.
2007-01-15 10:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 06:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want him to ask you out, show motives that you like him! guys will notice that easily... and dont use cheesy word coz they dont find it attractive ^.~ just go straight to the point and ask him out! dont be scared coz your bestfriends right? he will not hurt your feelings if he valued your friendship ^-^
2007-01-15 10:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my boyfriend were friends before we started going out, he was in love with me but i hadnt a clue. eventually we jus got closer and closer, little things like if we watched a movie id find myself snugglin into hi, we'd always go places wit friends but the front seat was always mine, jus do litlle things like gently touch his arm when your speakin and little gestures to let him know how much you care and you just may be as lucky as me. good luck. and remeber if its meant to be it will be.
2007-01-15 10:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun make things difficult for yourself and torture yourself in doing that.
just ask and put our female pride aside. sometimes the oldest fashioned tactics is the most obvious?
just do it . . . you'll never know till you try?
2007-01-15 11:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Peggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋