I am having issues with my Best friend. She and i both big flirts and she is mad at me all the time because everytime we meet a boy they all want to date me and not her. I dont know what i can do to make her not angry at me all the time. in fact the last boy we both met i didnt even talk to him other then saying hello and then i walked off so that she wouldnt get mad at me. but he told her that he wanted to date me and she is taking it out on me. what can i do to make her not hate me all the time.
2007-01-15 10:35:54 · 24 answers · asked by In love with my bestest friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like you are are probably more attractive then your friend, mabey if the boys know your seeing someone they will pay more attention to your friend. You could try setting your friend upwith a boy she likes then Iam sure she would be pleased with you . Good luck.
2007-01-15 10:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there has to be more to it then this. She is obviously insecure about herself. Or if you want to the best friend in the whole world---next time you both meet a boy and she really likes him, just say you have a boyfriend and that will take you out of the picture....problem solved!
2007-01-15 10:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by flavorsavoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what your going through because i am feelin it to. you see me and my best friends always walk through the hallway at school. there are always these cute boys walking past us most of the time they always end up noticing one of my best friends. and its always the same one all the time. but think about it. you cant control what you look like and how boys react to you. its just the nature of your looks that makes boys attracted to you. its not your fault that you get attention and she doesnt. think about the pressure you have to go through and how hard it is sometimes to chose which one you want. to me i think instead of her being mad and upset that she should be happy for you. not upset. tell her that you know how she feels and that you cant control how boys feel about you. give her some tips or let her change around her wardrobe a little bit. a true friend would be happy for you. not jealous. i dont think your friend is mad at all. i think she is jealous of you. good luck. just talk to her.
2007-01-15 10:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it, not harshly and don't try to sound rude just tell her that you understand why she's mad just tell her not to take it out on you. Look at the situation through her eyes. You would do the same thing too. Just try to be considerate of her. And just to be safe try not to flirt as much for a while. I know I'm a big flirt too but just try it.
Hope I helped!
2007-01-15 10:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta lay down some tough love for your friend...and the law. It's not your fault guys dig you and not her. If she can't handle it, too bad...so sad. You can't ignore guys so it doesn't hurt her feelings. If she's a true friend then she would be cool with you and not act like a crybaby.
2007-01-15 10:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to put her b i t ch mood aside have she ever thought that maybe guys find u more attractive than her.U cant be blammed for ur beauty. If she is a real best friend she would ask u how to get guys to pay more attention to her.
2007-01-15 10:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by SugNspice_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like your friend is relly jellouse but if she gets mad at you because the guy likes you better it not your falt and she needs to just cool down no affence. But good luck.:-)
2007-01-15 10:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that guys are immature and are just going for you because (if i am not mistaken because you are making you're self out to being pretty nice looking) that they are looking for a hottie who is 'easy'. (which you probably aren't) Tell her when the guys grow up, she'll be getting more guy at her door too. Friends come first! "Hoes before Bros"
2007-01-15 10:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by macloveskingtut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find yourself a new best friend. Seems to me like you think you are best friends, but you are not really. There seems to be some underlying jealousy and envy issues.
2007-01-15 10:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't alter who you are just to make your friend happy.
She's so jealous she can hardly see straight, but don't cater to her. So, you're prettier than she is. What can she do about it? What can you do about it? Nothing.
If you guys are always fighting, it's not a friendship is it?
Honestly, just stay who you are and let her have her tizzy fit. She's being immature and just plain jealous.
2007-01-15 10:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋