my father has been coughing so badly that blood came out.. now he looks really sick
I could see his dieing very slowly....OMG..I hope not!
yesterday he was coughing so bad(his a heavy smoker)
I had stomack sick....and he wont see a doc coze he doesn't like them or the hospitals
so I had an argument with my mother and told her weather he likes it or not his GOING to a doc!!
so today he went by HIMSELF!!...and came back saying it was nothing!!..my mother told him why the doc didn't pic your lungs he said he doesn't need to and kept on shooking he's head!!
I wanted to cry so much..I went to my bedroom..and just tried hard to let my tears fall..but I Fuc.kn couldn't cry!!
I was hearbroken..sad depressed.....dont know?
Im just letting my anger right here..
so thankx for listening!
2007-01-15 10:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Windy:U sick BASTARD!!hope u die and burn in HELL!!YA FUC.K NUT!
2007-01-15 10:44:07 · update #1
hey hey...dont worry i wish him ALLLLL the best! and you too! you should stop worrying alot and stop crying...you can just focus on making him quit smoking...that's all....my mom was a smoker, and i would throw away the pack of cigerattes she has if i see them...you can always help your father, encourage him do drink lots and lots of water, it helps in cleaning the body from all the disgusting smoking effects....
i wish you and your father the best! and clean these tears from your eyes! :)
2007-01-16 01:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has an ulcer. It may not be the worst. Why don't you get your mother and you and take him down back to the doctor and be with him and see what the doctor says. If he goes by himself, he may not have gone at all. I know this will be a hard task, but tell him how much you are hurting inside and you're worrying so much you can't stand it. I hope it works out for you all.
2007-01-15 10:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a caregiver and i've studied herbal remedies extensively. also, once i had the flu or something and started to cough up blood(yes, i smoke) then, this old hobo dude i give my cans to came by, saw my condition, said he'd be back, he walked into the hills and brought back a paper bag filled with squaw brush, it looked like long pine needles, he steeped it in a big pot of water for 20 minutes, it made 1 gallon, i drank it for 2 days and on the 3rd day, i could feel myself getting well. you can find it at a hippie-herb kinda store. also, mullein drops work on lungs, sunflower seeds make lungs strong, too. + it hurts for a doc to "pic" lungs!!!
2007-01-15 10:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by enwoodelf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older generation always have bad feeling for the hospital. My parents don't like to go to the hospital too. Most of the time I had to tell them either they go to the hospital or I bring the Doctor to the house. Sometime it's really tiring to persuade them, but I just have to keep trying, as I know very well, one day, they will leave me.
2007-01-15 16:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best option is to go to your Dad and tell him, calmly, how upset you are about his health, and how badly it is affecting you. If he cares about you, he will go to the doctor, and let you come with him, as it sounds to me like he didn't go.
Obviously cancer is the first thing that springs to mind, especially with him being a smoker, and he probably doesn't want to face the truth.
I don't want to be morbid or assume, but someone I know died a very horrible death because he ignored the very same symptoms.
2007-01-15 10:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW WHY ARE YOU SO UPSET???
LISTEN IF YOUR DAD IS SICK, THEN TAKE HIM TO THE HOSPITAL AND LET THE DOCTORS HELP HIM.
IF HE REFUSE TO GO SEE ANY DOCTOR THEN THERE IS NOTHING YOU COULD DO. I MEAN HE IS AN ADULT AND YES SOMETIMES YOU COULD GET FRUSTRATED BUT CALM DOWN FIRST, THEN THINK WHAT WILL BE YOUR NEXT STEP.
YOU COULD GO TO THE COURTS AND ASK FOR HELP SO HE CAN SEE A DOCTOR. BUT I DONT THINK HE WOULD BE HAPPY YOU DOING SO.
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-15 10:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad that you love him and you want him to be around for as long as possible. Go with him to the doctor. I think he's just scared about what they'll tell him. He owes it to you and your mom to be truthful about his illness. It's not normal to cough up blood. Let him know how important he is to you and your family. Don't get depressed....get angry at him for not taking his life seriously. Don't give up on trying to get him to go to the doctor. Just be brave! He's your dad....he can't get mad at you for loving him. I wish you and your family the very best!
2007-01-15 10:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God consistently mutually as attempting, as God facilitates people who help themselves particularly than people who're lazy. Lord Krisna stated in Bhagavad Gita, we ought to accomplish our works and resign the fruit of our action. So we ought to save attempting and discover excitement in doing our artwork, in spite of if or not we get the wanted result. we ought to consistently not lose wish. Do your perfect and bypass away something to God,it is going to all come spectacular some day or night.
2016-10-31 05:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound like tuerburculosis. Which is highly contagious. He needs to go now To the Doc, he is passing that around and so are you and you your family friends could ALL have it. It spreads fast too. GET HIM THEIR NOW< BEFORE YOU CAUSE AN EPIDEMIC!!!!!!!!
2007-01-15 10:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your dad is very ill and must see a doctor now! not later so do what you have to do and call someone get some of your friends to help good luck
2007-01-15 10:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by ken j 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋