i'm married he's not we are in our early 30's last night we went to a hotel and got it on i had to get back home he said he he'll call me on my private cell i know he works today should i wait for him to call or call him or was i just a booty call how can i find out?
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2007-01-15 10:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey!! Someone like me!!! Is there something in your marriage that you may not agree with? There was in mine. I had a drunk husband that liked to beat me. 3rd time's the charm. I pressed charges on his @$$. My husband now is my ex-boyfriend(???) We dated 16 years ago when he was divorced from his 1st wife(the 1st time)of which they had a daughter together. We dated for 3 months. We were even talking marriage & kids back then. He had to marry the witch again because....can you say BLACKMAIL????? I was so heart-broken that I cried for 3 days straight. Anyway, while we were both married to different spouses, we cheated on our spouses with each other!!! He didn't want to marry the witch, but he didn't want to go to jail, either for child support. They had another child, his son(maybe). He found out that she (his ex) was cheating on him w/ his best friend for the last 4 years of their marriage. So, I can relate to what you're going through. He was even searching for me when we weren't married. He had the town sheriff watching out for me. Just to make sure that I was okay. My hubby (now) found out that I got divorced through the sheriff. He was actually searching , wondering how I was doing & having people watching out for me for 13 years. I know it sounds kinda strange, but he had never forgotten me. He finally found me & he will never let me go again. Never. So, it goes to tell ya...
Let him free. If he comes back, it was meant to be. If he don't come back, there's more fish in the sea.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-15 11:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you have an affair in the first place? what ever happened between the two of yous 20 years ago is the past. did you ever stop to think how your husband will feel when he finds out what you did? if you think you have something more with this guy you need to tell your husband your not happy in your marriage and you need to tell him what you did. get a divorce and be by yourself for awhile, to figure out what it is exactly what you want.
2007-01-15 10:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why oh why did you do that?
does this change the relationship that your in?
was it just something you always wanted to do?
i think you need to ask your self and answer honestly all of those questions.
tell your husband straight away, it will hurt he will be angry but he;ll be worst if you keep it for awhile.
dont contact the man you slept with if you have any respect left for you husband .
and ps i dont think you can delete the question, unless maybe you resolve it.
good luck!
2007-01-15 10:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u hope to gain from this relationship? eventually it will destroy your marriage, kill your husbands love for u, and all he wants is the obvious, if he will cheat with u, he will cheat on u. why ruin an existing working marriage for something u don't even know will work out. has alot to do with lust and infatuation, neither last the test of time. even if this man loved u, what about your marriage, are u willing to end it on someone u use to go out with, years ago.
2007-01-15 10:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop this and right now! Get what you need from your partner and if that is not possible then get out of your relationship you are being so unfair.
2007-01-15 10:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
2007-01-15 20:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 06:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call it cheating on your husband...make a decision...be married or be with this guy.
2007-01-15 11:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you posted an question on deleting previous questions. I hope your hubby finds out you cheating whore!!!
2007-01-15 10:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a covanent with God, you need to seriously think about what you are doing.
2007-01-15 10:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋