hi, im 26, never had a girl friend, been rejected so many times i've lost count. i have a great job, a great career, my own apartment, all the fundamentals that a guy can ever need. i dont have an image problem as i am ok looking and have a fine dress sense. i have a great personality& a great sense of humour, i just don't understand it, why dont girls want me? people say the right girl will come around, but she never has, people say im young, but my 50yr old mate has heard that one ll his life yet no1 came around for him. Do i have to be a jerk in order to get girls? i dont want to be something im not. Is it coz im a nice guy that im a loser in today's society? 'Someone will come along' ??? well, people only say that to get rid of you. Why do girls only call me after they get pregnant and they rejected me prior to that? What have i done wrong?
2007-01-15 10:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by vanilla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, its not that they fall pregnant with my child, but somebody elses and then they decide to look for my number and call me up so that they can start a rship with me. Why do girls go after those guys in the 1st place, don't they realise that already they they are bound to get hurt?
2007-01-15 19:38:01 · update #1
You are seen as financially secure and are able to provide for their children. Instinctively, women look out for their kids first.
You are a meal ticket. In general, women with children have a hard time finding someone that will support them.
2007-01-15 10:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by member_of_bush_family 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you are doing wrong is looking in the wrong places for the right girl. Perhaps you could use a little more self confidence since after being rejected so many times it may show in your attitude whether you realize it or not. I don't know where you are but what about trying stage shows to meet someone, events where people go for purposes other than meeting someone, perhaps even a bowling league. If you are going down a path and don't find someone there, like the 50 year old, try a different path!!
2007-01-15 18:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change...be yourself always. Perhaps you just aren't getting "out there" where you can meet people well...your ideal partner isn't going to come knocking on your door.
Go out and be social...join clubs or civic organizations, do volunteer work, attend cultural events, take a class, etc. The more exposure you have to others, the more likely someone groovy will cross your path.
2007-01-15 18:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not done anything you sound like a attractive man who is has a life and when the girls get pregnant they notice that you have a good career they think that they could get some money out of you. so I think that you should try staying away form those type of girls. You sound like a very intelligent man who knows what he wants in life instead of spinning the rest of his life with hookers, and whores it sounds like you want somebody who is worth you time and who is willing to commit and not cheat on you. It sounds like you know what type of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with the only thing is you have to look for that right person. Try dating different girls and getting to know them and try seeing if you like their personalities. Just take your time your young attractive and intelligent just take you time you don't have to be in a hurry to find your true love. If you want to ask anymore questions contact me at nonestopchick@yahoo.com Good luck hope you find your true love someday.
2007-01-15 18:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be a jerk, you just have to be more choosey at the girl or type of girl your interested in. If they call you after they get pregnant, you didn't need to be hooked up with the slut, correct?
2007-01-15 22:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,Stop trying Just be your self, and when they come after they get pregnant, be very nice to them but don't get involved, let them see Just what they lost when they dint choose you.
PS. don't go taking up anybody Else's Crap!
2007-01-15 18:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is to you where are your going to meet women? If it is at bars well then there, you go!
2007-01-15 18:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'R THE ONLY DUMBASS THAT WOULD PAY FOR THE KID.
2007-01-15 18:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by BadBoy L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋