Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

My mother-in-law always say stuff like.. your gaining weight, you need to lose it! or she will say why you dress like that? you need to put something else on that doesnt show everything? can you help me?!

2007-01-14 15:18:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just wondering. A short cut looks good on me objectively. I don't have masculine features at all. Now it's shoulder length but I'm considering chopping it again. However say I'm trying to impress a certain guy, and I want to make sure he doesn't think I'm butch or anything like that. Would it make that much difference?

2007-01-14 15:18:19 · 13 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5 in Singles & Dating

I have tried hanging out with her, We went to the Seahawks-Cowboys game, she wanted to see the Cowboys win, she had a little hat and jacket, she started crying when they lost. I wanted the Seahawks. I love having her around but I don't relate to her at all. one is age, second she's a girl, and finally she doen't have the same mom. I am told she looks like me, but my step mom is mostly white, so I don't see it since she has blonde hair, green eyes. She doesn't know Portuguese as much, she speaks english clearly without an accent. I have my friend living in my house who's a girl and my girlfriend, and they always play with her... She wants to play with me all the time, but I don't.. actually I can't. See doesn't understand that Im busy. How do you explain to her that she can't bug me, and how can we connect as siblings... ?

I feel stupid asking this.

2007-01-14 15:17:56 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

loves animals,blue eyes,brown hair,light skin,likes full house,attends church,has 4 dogs,2 cats,loves american rejects,and likes cheese pizza

2007-01-14 15:17:39 · 51 answers · asked by ang 1 in Singles & Dating

Last winter I made a snowman in the woods with a good friend of mine in July we went to look at it and it was gone. Now I have fears of making another thinking it will be taken again.

2007-01-14 15:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by wolfwi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my x=boyfriend's father went to irak last year b-4 we broke up, lately i have been thinking about it, im a lil superticous, and feel like contacting my x to ask about his father. he was really nice with me when we were together. the thing is that we broke up in bad terms. eventhough he contacted me not too long ago to say Hi to me. What should i Do?

2007-01-14 15:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by agentaita1 2 in Singles & Dating

i am scrad to tell this guy i love him cuz wut if he does not like me it will embarrass me for ever cuase he is in my school and he would tell all his freinds about it and stuff wut should i do about it

2007-01-14 15:16:04 · 12 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My second ex wife is nuts! I have paid that evil woman thousands of dollars since we divirced but now she found out I got a big settelment from the state and now she is hangin around and driving me to drink. When I dont answer the door she gets mad and throws stuffg at the side of my trailer then drives off. My neighbors have complained cause this happens at like 3 in the morning sometimes. Notr long ago she smashed out my headlaights on my truck and i had to drive home with flashlights taped onto my dang fenders and even got pulled over by the cops. I really dont want to get the cops involved since I sort of owe her for losing her car in the river last year but I moved out of state and never paid her anything. She is as mean as a snake and will lie to a judge or a cop and will say anything so I'm plenty spooked. Do yall have any suggestions? do I hide or, lord help me, let her move back in? Does anyone in the world have problems like I do?

2007-01-14 15:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that sends me love notes and poems and that is practically upsest with me but i dont like him at all because when im talking to a guy he like scares the guy away and it realy realy bugs i hate it what should i do i dont want to hurt his feelings

2007-01-14 15:16:01 · 5 answers · asked by *bonita* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 15:15:20 · 17 answers · asked by marlanna 1 in Singles & Dating

like i am a huge flirt like how can i give guys to like me .. wut should i do

2007-01-14 15:14:30 · 1 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my husband is stationed in Japan and on a ship, it is our first anniversary and I have no idea what to get him. He is a tech person but I really do not know what he can and can not have on the ship. I bought him a really nice watch for Christmas. For valentines I got him a speaker contraption that plays his mp3 player. Our anniversary is in March but it takes about 6 weeks to get to him, so I have to mail and buy now. He is apart of a biker group called Rough Riders but I have bought all their stuff for him. OK so I am out of ideas. You know these guys live and love to get packages, so I send him stuff ALL the time, so i need something really special.

2007-01-14 15:14:04 · 8 answers · asked by DamnBiatchYouKnowYourStuff! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this past week i noticed this cute freshman we see each other in the hallways a couple times per day but every time iwant to try and talk to her she with some friends. is it okay to still try and talk to her? or would that be weird? what should isay? weve looked at each other a few times... and ithink she notices me, how do i approach? this isnt like me by the way, its never been this difficult for me. tips greatly appreciated

2007-01-14 15:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or a guy with a decent face and a nice body?

Or does it even matter?

2007-01-14 15:13:24 · 21 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok....we are going to get married next year, and of course budget is the first thing that comes up in wedding planning. Both of my parents are divorced and not remarried as of yet, and his parents are divorced and his father is remarried and his mother lives with her "life partner". So who pays for what?? I hate to ask my dad for anything because he has been in bad health and has had several surgeries in the last year and has just gone back to work. What do I do?

2007-01-14 15:12:47 · 12 answers · asked by Destiny 1 in Weddings

apparently I'm one of them, and I see other girls like that too. People always tell me I'm attractive and that I'm fun to be around, so I just don't understand why guys don't seem to like me?

can anyone else relate/suggest a reason why?

2007-01-14 15:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by hi_imamodel 2 in Singles & Dating

Please tell me, I am in desperate need for a boyfriend.

2007-01-14 15:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Given any special circumstances....drunk, horny, had a bad week? Are men so insecure that a woman is disrespectable b/c she looses one night? Do women feel that the only way to become respected is to wait about how many more dates?

2007-01-14 15:12:03 · 23 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for a year,but he goes on my space and talks with other girls and tells them hes single and im a phyco.i confronted him and he says he only talks about his art with them and talked with a couple girls when he and i werent talking what should i do?

2007-01-14 15:11:52 · 9 answers · asked by shaw 1 in Singles & Dating

why do i keep thinking about this guy, when i don't really want to???????
I have been hurt before and i'm trying to be single for while until i forgive my past. but this guy i met a month ago, keep coming on my mind and i even picuter us bing together, kissing, dancing, and all that. what do u call this and what should i do?????


i think that he is also trying to protect himself from getting hurt. he waits until i call him. he won't tell me how he feels and he waits until i say something. i'm going crazy, help?

anything but no rude answer!

2007-01-14 15:11:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you loose touch with your friends? i rarely talk to some of my friends. How can u salvage a friendship? Me and my best friend are slowly drifting apart. We always say that we will be friends forever. but lately she has been hanging out with other people more, rather than me. and on the myspace account, there is no mention of me! what can a person do... has anyone had this happen to them before?

2007-01-14 15:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by alohaforever16 3 in Friends

I've started dating a guy, but we haven't kissed yet. How do I kiss him? What does it feel like? I'm scared I won't be a good kisser, are there any special "techniques"?

2007-01-14 15:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by Edags 2 in Singles & Dating

i have known this kid, a boy, i am a boy too, for about 3-4 years, and he lives right across the street from me. he can have a loud mouth, which is why he brags about how he gets all the girls when it is just us guys (we know he doesnt). but, when it is just me and him shooting hoops, or me him and 1 other kid, he tends to grab his penis, making it almost a *****. one time he even pulled him pants down and showed us his pubes. he usually pulls his shirt up and shows us his stomach to try and "distract" us. we are 16 btw. another time we were wrestling in his basement, and i pulled his pants down except his boxers and he didnt mind. i also pulled his shirt off and he didnt mind that either. then i would jump on him and again he didnt mind. but he always sends mixed signals, like one time he was willing to measure his dick size in front of me and some other guys, but says he looks at girl porn and talks about girls. do u think he would ever want to hook up with me? based on this

2007-01-14 15:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by yOYo 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are opposite of most couples. He struggles with his weight, and I don't. I can eat whatever I want and will not gain a pound. He, however, gains weight anytime he eats something unhealthy. He is willing to diet, but I do the cooking for the two of us. I can not stand much health food--it just doesn't fill me up (maybe it is bc I'm so skinny and don't need to lose weight), and am always so hungry within an hour after eating. Is it wrong of me to cook health food for him, and "normal" food for myself? Anytime he sees me eating something "unhealthy" he starts pouting, and saying that I should be supporting him by eating healthy food. The problem is that healthy food DOES NOT fill me up and leaves me weak and moody. Fattening, or high caloric food just makes me feel so much stronger. Again, remember, I DON'T need to lose weight--I am underweight. Should I just tell him that we have different body types, and therefore, can eat different things?? HELP!

2007-01-14 15:11:06 · 11 answers · asked by lalagirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wat do u hate about ur friends tha most wen sometimes their bossy

2007-01-14 15:10:59 · 13 answers · asked by sexy a 1 in Friends

I want success stories .... Ones that worked on the marriage afterwards and made it work.... Did your spouse forgive you or did you ruin the marriage and now wish you never did it to begin with?

2007-01-14 15:10:54 · 11 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 15:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by kahlien05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am interested in a guy from work and I asked him if he would like to hang out on friday.He refused and said his bro is going to be in town.I was also supposed to go to his church group with someone else, but since she wasn't in town, he offered to take me, but I refused.The next day he emailed me and asked if I was up for lunch.I refused beause I had a meeting, and gave another time and date.He accepted and we went out.During lunch he asked me if I was still talking to my ex, what is my fav movie, and other general conversation.He paid for the lunch. We both had a good time and his bro is really coming to visit him for the weekend.So should I assume he likes me?And what should I do next?Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me for our 'real' first date. I am not sure what the next logical step would be. Please advice and moreover, is it safe for me assume that he is interested?

2007-01-14 15:09:38 · 24 answers · asked by Someone 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship. I am fool still, I yet like her. I don't even know what I am attracted to. I worry she will find better than me. We are broken up but I still have feelings and crap. She just seems so cool when we are alone but with a whole bunch of people and mainly her friends it is a totally different person. I think she has bi polar too. She tells me all my flaws makes everything my problem. She is controlling and I can't tell you why I am still interested in her. She makes out in front of me with other guys and girls. She strips at parties. She explains her undying love of her ex-boyfriends. She doesn't even respect me. How do I become clean and never think about her??

2007-01-14 15:09:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should i stop acting like a huge flirt cuz all tha guys love mii but of course i love it but .... :D how

2007-01-14 15:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating