why do i keep thinking about this guy, when i don't really want to???????
I have been hurt before and i'm trying to be single for while until i forgive my past. but this guy i met a month ago, keep coming on my mind and i even picuter us bing together, kissing, dancing, and all that. what do u call this and what should i do?????
i think that he is also trying to protect himself from getting hurt. he waits until i call him. he won't tell me how he feels and he waits until i say something. i'm going crazy, help?
anything but no rude answer!
2007-01-14 15:11:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can advise you on this ,,,, No one can make your decisions for you minor or major ,,,,,, No one can live your life for you either and no one is going to offer to take your place when you have to face consequences for mistakes you make ,,,, All I can say is don't let past experiences ruin your future ,,,, Learn from them yes but don't let them interfere with what you feel you want to do ,,,, Sounds to me like you've already made up your mind if you are the one that's calling him ,,,, I mean if you were so unsure of your own feelings then why are you being so forward with this guy calling him instead of waiting for him to call you ,,,,, Actually a young person is being smart if they avoid being tied down to just one person anyway ,,,, Don't be in such a hurry to get yourself obligated to just one person ,,,, Play the field so to speak ,,,, Find out who and what's out there first ,,,, Who knows ,,,,, tying yourself down too early just might cause you to miss meeting that Mr. Right guy ,,,, You should try to get as wide a range of acquaintances as you can ,,,, This will enable you to make a wiser decision as to who you want when you are ready for a more serious or involved relationship ,,,, Think about it ,,,,,, Give my suggestion a try ,,,,, I can't hurt you and you just might wind up happier than you've ever been ,,,, Yoda told you this
2007-01-14 15:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush on this guy. You can still be single and be his friend. He waits til you call him because he respects your privacy. You will never find out if this relationship will work unless you try. Even if you get hurt you still keep going on, thats what life is about, learning from mistakes and experiencing things.
2007-01-14 23:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel and maybe he might be the guy for you and if you hang out with him more then maybe you can find out things about him and if he has good potential then go after him!! if not then look for someone else but if you keep on thinking about him then talk to him or a therapist,counselor or maybe your parents.
2007-01-14 23:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by halima b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its natural to be attracted to someone.
it sounds like you are both trying to not get hurt and there's nothing wrong with that.
take things slow and easy. get to know each other.
2007-01-14 23:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't get him off of your mind,maybe he's supposed to be there
2007-01-14 23:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by spartamonkey14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋