I've started dating a guy, but we haven't kissed yet. How do I kiss him? What does it feel like? I'm scared I won't be a good kisser, are there any special "techniques"?
2007-01-14 15:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by Edags 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tilt your head slightly to the right so your noses will miss. Most people tilt that direction. That gives you the best odds of not banging your noses together. Also - don't kiss right after you eat - obvious reasons. And, your first kiss should be simple. Just a little simple, sweet peck. Something that will be nice to remember long, long from now - whether you even remember who you kissed or not. Just something simple. Long from now. you will find that the sweet, simple moments are the best because somehow those have the best shelf life - you will keep them with you forever.
2007-01-14 15:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Quantum Aurelius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww lol I remember my first kiss and it wasnt too long ago. I was actually 18 (yeah im extremely shy) and it was sweet. Well all i can say is remeber to chew some gum before u guys kiss! There are no "special techniques".The first time I kissed I basically followed what the guy was doing and it all feel into place. U should never just plan hor gonna do it cuz it wont work. Just do what hes doing and have confidence. U should even tell him that its your first time kissing he will think its very sweet cuz the guy i kissed thought it was :) HE will understand if youre not the best. Just dont worry about. Just remember that it will be a day u will never forget :)
2007-01-14 15:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is don't kiss him unless you really like him! You want your first one to be special, and I wish I could take back a lot of kisses I gave!
As to technique, think about giving. If you really want this guy to be happy, it'll show in your kiss. It's best just to be natural, and let your lips move as they may. They'll know what to do in the right situation. Trust yourself. It feels great, by the way, especially if you really like the guy.
You might want to think about if you want to French kiss or not. This is a step up from a normal kiss, and again, your tongue will know what to do. I think this is sexual, at least it turns me on big time. So...there's no going back, so think carefully with more than just hormones.
I know that sounds old-fashioned and boorish. I'm just at the age when commitment is downright sexy.
2007-01-14 15:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by kannajo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it when you want to, or let him kiss you and follow his lead. Don't drool and don't let your tongue just sit there because that feels kind of ew in the other person's mouth. You'll catch on, and being a "good" kisser is different depending on who you're kissing, anyway. I was my boyfriend's first kiss, and he kisses just fine now that he's over his initial nervousness about the whole thing.
2007-01-14 15:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh thats so sweet, dont overthink it too much this is a natural act & although it prob wont help you any right now, at the time you will know exactly what to do.... just make sure you have mints for your breath and your lips are nice and soft, then pucker up!!!! Im sure the guy you like will lead the way!!!! Soon enough you will realise that everyone kisses differently, and thats the beauty of it!!!
2016-05-24 03:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to wait for the right moment- a time when u two are completely alone and when ur really close to each other and just grab his hands and kiss him. don't worry about not being a good kisser- u've never kissed someone before so he'll understand if u aren't good. but u'll feel tons better afterwards- it feels like ur flying =P
2007-01-14 15:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start on the upper or lower lip of the other person and let the tongue do the rest. make it soft and sweet and then later make it more aggressive, but it depends on how long you kiss. start watching movies with a lot of kissing in it.
2007-01-14 15:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by hollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay attention to his moves, his face, and follow his lead -- do it with the same pace, return his pressure with a similar amount, hug if you want.
don't worry so much about technique as you do about connecting emotionally -- if you do that, you and your kissing partner will find a way that you will both enjoy
2007-01-14 15:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss, soft and sweet, then if it's better get more from the next one and the next one.
2007-01-14 15:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K well dont use gum use breath mints because gum make your saliva smell bad close your eyes massage their toung but dont like eat their face off
2007-01-14 15:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋