Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

What should I do???
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2007-01-13 07:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Friends

we have no money, we have transportation but no money. i don't wanna travel anywhere because it's so cold and my car isn't that stable. i cant invite him over and i can't go to his house either. any ideas?

2007-01-13 07:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 07:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by gaiaxy 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girl acts kind of different than she did on your date is she no longer interested? On the date she was laughing at everything I said. Yesterday at the bar she was not laughing as much, or joking with me much, and acting a little different. She was kind of sick though. Is she most likely not interested in me anymore, or is this normal and I'm over thinking it.

I should also note I text her the night before asking her if she was going to this bar. She didn’t respond. She ended up being there (and she is not a regular there) and told me it was a coincidence.

2007-01-13 07:31:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the reason i am asking this question is because my fiance's mother and 18 year old brother are staying with us temporaraly and last night, his brother happened to walk by my bedroom and saw me undressed (FULL frontal!) and i was so embarrased that i dont even want to see him at all! i cant get over it ..would anyone else be embarassed and how would you get over it?

2007-01-13 07:31:27 · 18 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 in Friends

i had a friend who knows all about me,and on new years eve he tried to sexually assault me,and i got depressed and i will kill myself,and he knows he is to blame for it,and he is threatning me saying that he will tell my family,friends,and even call my co workers to tell all about me,and he knows things that i would never want anyone to know,i cant go to the police cuz he will humiliate me by telling everyone things about me,can anyone help me?

2007-01-13 07:30:55 · 21 answers · asked by e_s_p 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is a 20 year old college student. He has a wonderful fiance who we love very much. My problem is her mother. Her mother is not the evil mother-in-law to be, she just won't let go. JM (my son) and JD (his fiance) have to drive about an hour to see each other. JD usually prefers to come here because she says our family is much more relaxed than her family. She enjoys the joking and laughter (no our family is no sit-com, we have our full share of bad days), but she told me we are at least vocal and don't keep it all inside. Please believe these are good people. I guess for the purpose of this question I'm only stating the bad.

To the problem. JM and JD asked me to call and ask if JD could spend the night one night because she was really tired and it was raining. When I asked her mother she said "ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! What would people say? I will never allow her to damage her reputation that way" I was hurt and now I don't know what to do or what to or say to her. Plz hlp!

2007-01-13 07:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by fishergirl 3 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine is hooking me up with i guy who she meet in the national guard, he lives in a different state than me,and i have never meet or talk to him, and i do what to meet him,but what if he is not what i expect what should Ido?

2007-01-13 07:29:46 · 8 answers · asked by angel_lips 2 in Singles & Dating

We want to get married in the garden of my future mother in laws house how can we go about this?

2007-01-13 07:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by deeoh7 1 in Weddings

The Number is 1 800 539 2372

Thanks

2007-01-13 07:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we met for 9 hrs. but we mingled suddenly. after that in the plane, we talked a lot and suddenly he held my hand.and i didnt know what to do. i clinged to it. it felt nice. but after the flight he left. i felt i cudn't live without him. he calls me. but when i try to express my self he changes the topic. what shud i do?? is it love ???

2007-01-13 07:28:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to say happy birthday but to very subtly let him know I still like him. Nothing obvious please. Tricky one.... I still miss him....

2007-01-13 07:27:13 · 35 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a question about my Nephuew's girlfriend and her use of that word and her drug use and I was called judgemental and a prude do you agree?

2007-01-13 07:25:55 · 1 answers · asked by Pamela V 7 in Singles & Dating

hi!i have no good friends ,if any one can help me providing a healing hand please answer.

2007-01-13 07:24:59 · 11 answers · asked by ricky 1 in Singles & Dating

That is the question. It is like when you believe something
so much, that the spiritual mind, practically controls your
destiny. Or the direction, rather, that you move in. Do you
believe in this powerful phenomenon, especially when it comes
to love ? This is what I am experiencing right now. What is
your answer ? Best answer wins.

2007-01-13 07:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this boy in my class but i don't know if he likes me. what do i do?

2007-01-13 07:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by crystaL 1 in Friends

I txtd this guy I really care about today and when he txtd back he put a 'x' at the end for the first time ever.

He's kinda shy with girls and I've been his friend for like a month and hes never done this before. I don't know if he does this with all his girl friends or not...

Is this him making a move or am I reading too much into it? If it his what do I do next? Wen I txtd back I did the same but wot do I do the next tym I see him?

HELP i dont know what to feel lol!

2007-01-13 07:23:36 · 33 answers · asked by jesusfreakjen 2 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy at the bar that I frequent about once a week. He is super nice and friendly with my friends (guys and girls). I am really into him. He seems super shy. How should I handle this? How can I ask him out without asking him out?

2007-01-13 07:22:38 · 15 answers · asked by Kelso 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm falling in love with this guy that lives almost 2,000 miles away. He is older than me by three years(i'm 13, he is 16). And i know he is trying to like take advantige over me or any thing. But he calls my friend alot. My best friend knows more about him than me. I'm not worried about my friend, but i am about Jeff. What do i do. (P.S. just because i'm not an adult doesn't mean i can't fall in love so don't tell me it's just a crush.)

2007-01-13 07:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Singles & Dating

Some ppl put up internet links etc...And photos of themselves etc..So just wonderingg How would I be able to do that??
Thanks!!

2007-01-13 07:20:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-13 07:20:23 · 34 answers · asked by melvin-miller@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

Calling a guy back - a question for women. I asked this but it wasn't clear so some answers were strange. Women: if you are really liking a guy at a bar and he is confident and cool and you give him your number with a smile, but then when he calls and leaves a message on your machine and sounds more serious and self-conscious and not half as "cool" as his bar/club persona, would you call him back or would him being nervous on the phone be a turn-off (despite being Mr. cool when you first met him)?

2007-01-13 07:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by rope-a-dope 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy i like him and he likes me, but im not soppost to know that he likes me. what should i do because i really want to go out with him, and i am tired of waiting for him to ask me out?

2007-01-13 07:19:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 07:18:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i m very depressed due to my habbit of mastrbating,it hampers my studies a lot.every time i make mymind & promise myself not to do that again but i fail to keep my promise.please help me....all day i study alot and i m doingmedical entrance prepration.

2007-01-13 07:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by ricky 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I'm 15....THis girl is really pretty...and I wanna get to know her better...but...I've never even talked to her before.....like only for 5 minute.and thats it...but..I think she's "talking" to someone..but all her friends say I have a chance........that they heard her talkin good about me to her bestfriend.now..I wanna ask her best friend, if I have a shot, cuz she would know, and I just dont wanna come outa the blue, and ask the girl...and..i wanna get her email adreessss also, ...like I said..ive never talked to her..so I need some good advice...and shes popular..and so am I, and not tryin to be cocky, but I'm good lookin...i just need soem good advice..oh yeah ..im 15..shes 13..and Im focusing on my studies as well..so ..yeah.. but like yesterday..she wouldnt' even look at me..idk why?.( thats when she found out I liked her)..oh yeah...her friend " aproves" of me.so would it be bad 2 ask her wut she knows?..i can get her email from a friend..is that a bad idea

2007-01-13 07:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....from the woman he loves?
I've studied and researched this subject to a fault, and still don't understand 2 things. One, why should I put up with communication methods from my woman that are unfair to me? Two, if I decide to put up with some of it, how do I minimize/manage it best?
There are numerous problems in communication between the genders when they live together. This is the one that tends to be female-specific, extremely common, and very difficult for me to blow off and/or manage. I already know how to screen for women who are going to do this more than others, what's left is trying to gain a different perspective on this tendency and knowing how to minimize and manage it best.

2007-01-13 07:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 07:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by farisha N 1 in Friends

will cheat on her now what kind of thinking is that?

2007-01-13 07:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by xayahuascax 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 07:16:42 · 9 answers · asked by ~ :)Im Rocking Something :) ~ 3 in Singles & Dating