I txtd this guy I really care about today and when he txtd back he put a 'x' at the end for the first time ever.
He's kinda shy with girls and I've been his friend for like a month and hes never done this before. I don't know if he does this with all his girl friends or not...
Is this him making a move or am I reading too much into it? If it his what do I do next? Wen I txtd back I did the same but wot do I do the next tym I see him?
HELP i dont know what to feel lol!
2007-01-13 07:23:36 · 33 answers · asked by jesusfreakjen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you end your texts with an x then he is being polite
if he started it then he is interested.
easy way to find out
put xx at the end of your next text to him and see how he replies
2007-01-13 07:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
kisses at the end of text messages are a funny thing. It depends what you were talking about, as well, I think. Like if you had said something about how you felt rubbish, he might have put it there just as a little reassurance. I wouldn't read too much into it in itself, but look out for other signs that he might like you. Perhaps flirt with him a little bit more than you might have done otherwise, because while it was obviously not a major move on his part, it definiely indicates affection, and he obviously made the conscious choice to put the x there. So I think it gives you the go ahead to explore the whole thing a bit more, and have hope that he's interested!
2007-01-13 07:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just keep playing it cool with him. Lots of people put x after messages, whether or not it means anything. The fact that it does obviously means he is thinking of you as a very close friend but perhaps he not quite ready to make the relationship a bit more heavy. Take it easy girl and let things happen as they will.
2007-01-13 07:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mother Hen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what the text says. But Id say hes starting to flirt with u. Keep things simple, carry on the way it is. Try and let any developing relationship happen by itself. Carry on with the x's. Maybe, if and when you get closer, try ending it "LUV U x" and so on and so forth.
Good luck honey!
2007-01-13 07:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are putting way too much thought into this. If this guy does like you then just let it happen naturally, don't be worrying over a x at the end of a text because loads of people do that (including myself).
Just be yourself with him, don't act any different because you might scare him away.
Good luck xxx
2007-01-13 07:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be him testing you to see if you like him...
Tend not to text kisses unless mean tham as afraid the girl will not want to be my friend...
What you need to do is put him at ease and make sure he knows its ok to look at, approach you and make a move like touching you ie putting arm around in the cinema, maybe touching your boob then you kiss him...
If hes staring at you or looking away if you catch him thats a good sign... wear something sexy see if he notioces or gets facilated with yoru boobs... Ask him if he likes the view and that you like it when he looks at you like that... as long as he keeps looking up at his face.
Engineer means of getting touchy ie asking him to show you or you show him how to play a sport putting arms around each other.
Tickle fights and play wrestling always good.
If you just want to be mates guys can handle that... maybe a little awkard at first then will be fine. Guys go for girls they like as mates...
If you want to be more get kissy, touchy or let him see more of your bod according to your age...
2007-01-13 09:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an old guy and I don't know much about texting, but in the old days when we used to write with a pen and paper, putting x's and o's at the end of a letter meant "hugs and kisses".
2007-01-13 07:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by steveh74135 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I;'m not going to be able to tell you anything more than the answers you now have. x and o means hugs and kisses and he's probably letting you know for the first time he's interested in you for more than just friends.
More to the point, by answering this question, I move up to level 3 and it allows me to answer even more questions people have and I think you for that.
Go after him if he hasn't already gotten after you.
Good luck and be very happy!
2007-01-13 08:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on the guy's personality. I never do the x and o's thing, ever. A girl I am crazy about does it when she texts me all the time. I never reciprocate the x and o. I just dont think its cool for guys to do. Did it make me feel special that she does it to me - NO I just figured its what girls to do everyone. Am I wrong - I dunno
2007-01-13 08:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's probably expressing affection. Imagine that.
Keep it in perspective, try not to worry too much, and remember the cliche advice: just be yourself next time you see him.
If it continues developing, enjoy. If it doesn't, it isn't the end of the world.
2007-01-13 07:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are reading WAY too much into it.
A guy i know always puts X's on the end, but means nothing by it. And my boyfriend NEVER does, nor does he send soppy ones. Its just down to a persons style of writing. It means different things to different people.
I would concentrate on HOW OFTEN he texts or rings you.... thats a better guide to how much a guy likes you.
2007-01-13 07:28:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋