we met for 9 hrs. but we mingled suddenly. after that in the plane, we talked a lot and suddenly he held my hand.and i didnt know what to do. i clinged to it. it felt nice. but after the flight he left. i felt i cudn't live without him. he calls me. but when i try to express my self he changes the topic. what shud i do?? is it love ???
2007-01-13 07:28:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nine hours does not make a relationship; sometimes 9 years doesn't even allow someone to know another person. Think of this as a POTENTIAL friendship, enjoy talking with him, and don't rush anything. He might have been a needy person, reaching out, but on a plane says "No commitment, please." I'm not sure how old you are, but what advice would you give a friend who asked you the same question? You are in an emotional state right now, hoping this will work out, and yet there is no basis for a relationship at this point in time. If he doesn't explore all of your thoughts, what hurts you, helps you, your dreams, etc. then he isn't wanting a relationship, only a contact for whatever reason. Not to enter your life, as he would grasp every word you are saying. Just enjoy, relax and explore all other friendships. You'll know if this is love just in how it plays out. Time is the factor that will give you answers. Oh, and to the question "Is it love?" I think you know the answer to that. If not, look up love in the dictionary, and you won't see his picture listed there.
2007-01-13 07:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, it's Dan Marino and he doesn't have a Super Bowl victory. He's even stooped to being a shill for Nutri-System!
2007-01-13 07:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by angrycelt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only person who can answer that question is u but i doubt that it is love.... b/c not many peoople ven know what the real meaning of love is so.....
2007-01-13 07:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋