Calling a guy back - a question for women. I asked this but it wasn't clear so some answers were strange. Women: if you are really liking a guy at a bar and he is confident and cool and you give him your number with a smile, but then when he calls and leaves a message on your machine and sounds more serious and self-conscious and not half as "cool" as his bar/club persona, would you call him back or would him being nervous on the phone be a turn-off (despite being Mr. cool when you first met him)?
2007-01-13 07:19:52 · 6 answers · asked by rope-a-dope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd call him back. It's cute when guys get all nervous it shows that he really does like you. If he was too cool and a pro that would worry me, because it looks like he's done this too many times
2007-01-13 07:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that should be a turn off!
Go for it call him create a relationship with this perosn, go out to bars, party. Just because he sounds boring doesnt mean that you didnt have fun with him the night you were at the bar with him. It's actually pretty hott to meet a man like that. You never know what your gonna get and bam he can trickle you to doing cool stuff :)
2007-01-13 15:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by joo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really care, the phone is less personal, it's a pretty awkward piece of technology. It's how he is in person that matters to me
2007-01-13 15:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back. It would be nice to try to have a conversation with him rather than judge him right away with just one look.
2007-01-13 15:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by pretty me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him back, people are very different in person than on the phone.
2007-01-13 15:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he's not drinking now.
2007-01-13 15:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋