So I met this guy at the bar that I frequent about once a week. He is super nice and friendly with my friends (guys and girls). I am really into him. He seems super shy. How should I handle this? How can I ask him out without asking him out?
2007-01-13 07:22:38 · 15 answers · asked by Kelso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
next time yous are all hanging out and your ready to leave turn to him an say will you be here tomarrow? (or what ever day yous will meet next time) then say great i;ll see you then.
2007-01-13 07:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by mylilsun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Continue seeing him at the bar and semi-flirting, and nothing will ever come of it because he is too shy to ask you can you are unwilling to be straightforward and ask him.
Either be patient and wait for him to ask you (if you can't bring yourself to do it) or just flat-out ask him. You might feel like you are sending a bunch of signs that you want him to ask you out, but if he is super-shy like you say he is (as a shy guy myself) chances are he won't pick up on it until you either a) have become to frustrated with waiting or b) think he's gay.
2007-01-13 07:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by nardis14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems super shy? Oh, for Goodness sake, just ask him out. What;s the worst thing that can happen?
2007-01-13 07:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is sth. You are talking to him and your mobile rings and you talk to your imaginary friend. So, you act like he/she has just said you that he/she can't come with you to the cinema or sth. So, you act like really annoyed, and start talking him about that, saying you had bought 2 ticket, that you couldn't go alone ect. Well, if he is so shy and can't offer himself to accompany you, you propose that o him, but saying that of course if he wouldn't mind that...
Does that seem so bad?... Well, I think you can prove it.
2007-01-13 07:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Include him in the bunch, and try to like make plans among the group and then ask him "you goin" or something. Then he will get the idea... ehehe
2007-01-13 07:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by joo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is....
Can you ask him, without asking him?
Talk to him, when you see him at the bar.
2007-01-13 07:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he goes anywhere else but there, then when he tells you where he goes just say well maybe i'll see you there sometime, then go. How about that?
2007-01-13 07:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going somewhere, invite him. and when you guys start getting closer together then maybe, just maybe he will ask you out, so you dont have 2 ask him out
2007-01-13 07:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by book_worm8888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you don't. You said you were at a bar, so you're not a child, so just speak up.
2007-01-13 07:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out with you and all your mates somewhere so its not a date, then get him drunk and find out what he truthfully thinks of you!
2007-01-13 07:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋