i'm falling in love with this guy that lives almost 2,000 miles away. He is older than me by three years(i'm 13, he is 16). And i know he is trying to like take advantige over me or any thing. But he calls my friend alot. My best friend knows more about him than me. I'm not worried about my friend, but i am about Jeff. What do i do. (P.S. just because i'm not an adult doesn't mean i can't fall in love so don't tell me it's just a crush.)
2007-01-13 07:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life...Stop with the damn Cell Phones, the texting, the damn MySpace...get off of here and get a friggin life
2007-01-13 07:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because your 13 doesnt mean that you dont have feelings. The only thing is you have to look at the facts too. He is 3 years older than you and lives a long distance away as well.
Even though right now 3 years dont seem like alot to you it makes a huge difference in the way that a older teen looks at things as well and you will find out in the next 3 yrs, as well.
Would you go out with a guy that is 10 yrs old?? Think about it ... There is a difference.
Right now why not just be his friend and get to know him better. Dont rush into anything or let anyone push you into something that you may not be ready for.
If the feelings are for real and it is real love then it is not going to just go away over night or in the next three more years either. Its not like you got to grow up now and get married .. start as a friend! good luck.
2007-01-13 15:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...I'm not going to tell you it's just a crush , but at 13 yrs old wanting to be with a 16yr old that lives 2,000 miles away who is Calling/talking with your friend alot more than he is you....What would you call it?? I don't call it a crush!!!!!
You Should be Worried about Your Friend....but not in the way you think. If she's getting more "involved" with this fellow ..It could lead to something and that won't be a good thing. You and her don't even know if this guy is 16yrs old! Have you ever watched 20/20 ??? Perhaps you should look it up on the internet...some ppl lure young kids through the internet* I would definately be worried for You and for your Friend*~ Go to the malls , roller skating rink or ice skating rink, YMCA (Swimming) and meet up with guys your own age that you can talk to in person. Be Careful* THINK about this ** Best Wishes**
2007-01-13 15:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, it's just a crush. "Love" is what adults call it so they can feel like they are not feeling the same feelings as "a kid".
My thoughts on a long distance relationship is that they don't work. I've not seen one work before, in fact. The only ones I've seen survive through college, even, are the high school sweethearts that already shared a very strong bond, and even then if the distance was too great, they drifted apart just the same.
2007-01-13 15:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him but also let him know it's either you or your friend. Tell her she needs to be a friend and stop talking to him on the phone so much. (P.S. since you're falling in love you should also know that love comes with pain sometimes.)
2007-01-13 15:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fine ur in "love" but honestly i no wht ur feeling, hes so sweet sxc class good nice good lookin ok? but this is a crush and i no ur like no its not!! but it is ok?! and i swear 2 u , u will get over him!/ but at this moment in time u cant, cuz im in da same situation as u, and did u no if hes 16 he can av sex with u, u cant have it with him and most lads that age just want ya 4 the sex! ok xxx
2007-01-13 15:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let someone walk all over you. Be safe not stupid. Have you even meet him. He is to old. You and your freind should laeve him alone. BE SAFE>PLEASE
2007-01-13 15:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him more than your friend. tell him how you feel about him.
2007-01-13 15:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋