Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

2007-01-12 21:49:44 · 8 answers · asked by alwaysintrouble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband quit his job 1 year ago because he thought he could continue his study, but he didnt go because we had no enough money.so he start small business but it didnt go to well, now he sat doing nothing but he still thinking of doing hid business. he always said that everything that he do will become nothing, effortless.i dont know what to say to him.he will get mad thinking about this and start to scold everyone.now hes thinking of going to new zealand to work but e didnt know whether to go there or do his business.advice please....

2007-01-12 21:49:31 · 6 answers · asked by bumblebee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 21:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by jam 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with one of my friends,
she's always acting as a BOSS
she's always commanded me...
and she'll get mad if I don't obey her
I tried to be FRANK on her.
I told her the bad attitudes that she has
and I want her to change those .....
but she got mad on me.
she always tell other people about the
negative things against me but those
were not TRUE.....other people believe
on her...............cause she's popular
IT's so .........VERY BAD, I'd like to
give her the BEST PUNCH that I can.
but I'll be called in the guidance office
if I do that........................

what should I do?
I want to REVENGE on her
no to say sorry or make friends with her
cause I already gave her many
chances to change........

2007-01-12 21:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by rhizzie 2 in Friends

My husband is aways comparing me to single women, he tells me how much more attractive they are and so much nicer than me in every way,i have three children and hardly have a moment to myself, its so hard to look after myself the way i used to, but nevertheless it really hurts my feelings.

2007-01-12 21:47:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just wanna know why the ladies always find it difficult to trust a guy who really meant what he says and just want to be loved just like he loves and believes everything his lady says...I`m i missing something or just being naive and stupidly in love?

2007-01-12 21:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Answering the question a bit longer...say.....when.......you've had a drink?

2007-01-12 21:44:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a copy of the new world translation of the holy scriptures issued by the watchtower society. I would like to know if bible versions published by different religious movements , in this case the jehovas witnesses is in any way biased or differs significantly from lets say, those published by the catholic church. I have only discovered that in my version the word god has been substituted for Jehova.

2007-01-12 21:40:24 · 16 answers · asked by Link 2 in Singles & Dating

I have already asked her to marry me becuase I believe its the right thing to do but I don't know if I have made a mistake or not.

2007-01-12 21:38:34 · 15 answers · asked by kiwi_2800 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 21:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by michelle k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a relationship, but he lives 5000 miles away and has a rather low sex drive at the best of times, we only see each other a couple of times a year at best, but apart from the obvious I am very happy and would not consider being unfaithfull, but thats not helping the fact my vibe is broken and there are only so many cucumbers you can pick up at the store b4 people start to look at you kinda funny. Anyway I am going out of my head any helpful advice on how to calm me down or resolve the situation?

2007-01-12 21:34:44 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 21:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by island_kids63 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM 22 MY WIFE IS 18-AND WE HAVE A 8 MONTH CHILD.BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED I CHEATED ON HER WITH A WOMAN.MONTHS LATER I TOLD HER AND SHE WENT OUT AND HAD SEX WITH MY FRIEND AND TOLD ME AFTER WE GOT MARRIED.I FORGAVE HER BECAUSE I FELT SHE WAS ONLY BEING VENGEFUL-BUT THREE MONTHS AFTER WE GOT MARRIED SHE HAD AN AFFAIR WITH TWO EMPLOYEE'S AT HER JOB.SHE CLAIMED EVER SINCE I CHEATED ON HER IT BROKE HER HEART-WHICH COULD BE TRUE.BUT, NOW I PUT THINGS BEHIND ME AND FORGAVE HER FOR THAT-BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE HER AND I WANT IT TO WORK.THE PROBLEM IS I DON'T TRUST HER-LITERALLY I DON'T TRUST HER, AND I AM NOT HAPPY WITH HER-MY ONLY DESIRE IS TO BE WITH MY CHILD-BUT THE PROBLEM WITH THAT IS, MY WIFE LIVES WITH HER MOTHER AND I LIVE WITH MINE-WE ONCE LIVED TOGETHER BUT SHE BLEW THAT!!!! WHAT DO I DO, WHEN I AM LIVING IN A STATE THAT I DON;T WANT TO BE IN, I AM IN A MARRIAGE THAT IS UNHEALTHY, AND IF I LEAVE THE STATE I AM GONNA FEEL GUILTY FOR LEAVING MY DAUGHTER BEHIND?THIS IS STRESSFUL & CONFUSIN

2007-01-12 21:32:13 · 27 answers · asked by prosper 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At the moment i feel like i have been used and i dont need to support my father. i grow up living with my mother and her family only which i mean he wasnt there at all. when i was a baby he told everyone that i wasnt his child and all that so for 19 years of my life i grow up with no father only father figurs but thats about it. hes got kids to another women which is around 10 kids and she left him and now hes back with my mother i had to leave my studies for him and put it on hold for a year or so and i also had to change my plans for him because he was crying on the phone wanting to come to nz and now hes here and everything his family which i just met like last year thinks that i should be doing this and that for him and all that and put my studies on hold again which hurts me to the max. Because now im old and now i can do things with my life and he comes walking into my life thinking that i should bow down to him and do what ever he wants me to do and give up my dreams for him

2007-01-12 21:30:37 · 4 answers · asked by lena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dateing this guy for 6 mounths. i love him alot but i really like this other guy alot to. i was going to brake up with him so i could be single for a wile but idk if i want to now. i cant stop crying and i'm so confused. every one says i should but idk. i want to but then again i dont. someone plz give me a good awnser!

2007-01-12 21:29:48 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she says there will alwasy be good friends because she holds no grudges

2007-01-12 21:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by fabianbolanos 1 in Singles & Dating

one girl and one boy ,they are very good friend,,,day by day,,they started meeting everyday sharing there things,,getting close to eachother,,now they are like relation of girlfriend & boyfriends,,but the surprising thing is that boy has not proposed her yet,,but they both like eachother,,but girl z nurvous thinking that she is doing mistake,,coz her boyfriend left her some mts back and went out of country,,and she doent know when weather he'll back or no,,she z feeling verl lonely,,give some advise to her as she my good friend

2007-01-12 21:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by sam 1 in Friends

Hi my name is Wayne Ross and I work for the London Lite. I have a little problem cos I am a black guy and I only like white girls. I broke up with this girl via email and I am a bit of a wimp. I lied that I was trying to be born agian when I really was lusting after my ex the white girl Hannah who left me 3 years ago, Please help me cos I feel like such a loser as Hannah dont love me any more. I treated the black girl bad and now she hates me. What is wrong with me ?

2007-01-12 21:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating

should she continue the relationship.. she feels as if she doen't know him much

2007-01-12 21:26:18 · 15 answers · asked by jaya 1 in Friends

trying to find information about a childrens' home my little brother was in. any idea how to start looking. thanks

2007-01-12 21:22:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mean its co-ed skul n teachers hav problem evn if v chat wid the guys.. its sad tht we cant talk to guys and guys cant talk to us in the class with such teachers... its not only tht they even want us to stay 1mile away frm them.... my parents dont mind wen guys cal me up n chat wid me.... i dnt knw wat the F*** is their problem..
please do help me with this problem......

2007-01-12 21:21:50 · 8 answers · asked by nikita s 1 in Friends

I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for two months. We recently moved in together, he has a history of cheating but I have enjoyed my time with him. He recently proposd and I said yes, only to later find out he was off tap when he asked. Should I accept?

2007-01-12 21:21:46 · 6 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

I kicked out my live in boyfriend, he said he was going to a bar, left at 6pm and never came home, no call, explanation, nothing. I am pregnant. He has done this before, about once a month. I love him, he loves me, hes my best friend, but he has serious honesty issues, addictions, and impulsive behaviors. Hes not a bad person, he just does hurtful bad things without regard to other people, Im not sure he has control over the things he does. I don't want to raise a baby this way, but I don't want to do it alone either. He came home to his things packed up and could just not understand why I was mad or why I would not talk to him. I just asked him "Isn't it obvious" weve been through this before. I am not okay with this sort of behavior and since its ongoing, obviously it's not going to change. Is this something I should have just lived with or accepted or did I do the right thing? I miss him already, but I don't need the stress and pain he causes me. He can be wonderful most times.

2007-01-12 21:21:34 · 6 answers · asked by alexandria1_1999 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 21:18:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 21:17:20 · 34 answers · asked by Sharon T 2 in Friends

The Classy One's like 2 Act Like They Are Virgins and
The Nasty One's Like When I Talk 2 Them Dirty, But They Be Removing They Skirts When They Hop In The Burban?

2007-01-12 21:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a real thing that has happened. I have a younger brother who is so good looking that I like him a lot. I still do. To cut the story short we started having a relation that is considered as incest or taboo for a brother and sister. I started that. I really liked him a lot. I could not find a good reason that explains why this is bad.

Couple of years I learned from Discover channel that we are generally more attracted to people who have a matching DNA. That answered my question. We must be having a very closely matching DNA. Thats why we formed such a very good bonding. I wonder why people made this taboo. I could not answer this question at all. Can somebody come with a very good answer why this should be considered a taboo?

P.S: May be I began thinking wrong and am missing some correct understanding of good life. I wanted to know a genuine reason for making this a taboo. It is not good to plainly say that I am bad. Please make me understand why this is wrong.

2007-01-12 21:12:48 · 46 answers · asked by Clueless 1 in Family

When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk?
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy! What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that! Also I think she might be going out with another person now, because there was a note saying "(Her name) & Alan forever and ever", but I think her mates did it as a joke! HELP!

2007-01-12 21:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

Have a lovely day!

2007-01-12 21:11:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 21:09:14 · 15 answers · asked by sonali p 1 in Friends