I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for two months. We recently moved in together, he has a history of cheating but I have enjoyed my time with him. He recently proposd and I said yes, only to later find out he was off tap when he asked. Should I accept?
2007-01-12 21:21:46 · 6 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummmm.........two months?? This comes as a shocker to me as I was expecting a time frame of at least three years but it could just be me. Not to be cold on this one but we are definitely living in a society that uses the big "L" word a little too loosely. I don't know how many people I hear say "I Love You" to their partner that they have only known for merely an hour.
Anyways, to your question.....even though you have enjoyed your time with him, he still has that history of cheating. It should be treated as a criminal record if you ask me. If he's done it once, he;s bound ot do it again. You have only known him two minths and haven't exactly gotten a chance to know him the best although I'm sure you know him pretty decently. I would seriously say that you should give it quite a bit more time than what you have already. You're 22 and still have quite a life ahead of you. Don;t be too hurried in things, make sure it is what you want first. Just because you want it now, doesn't exactly mean you'll want it later especially if its brand new. You think of how marvelous something new is until you find that key feature that just sets you running the other direction.
2007-01-12 21:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Give it a LOT of time. At 22 you can still do anything you want with your life! Be your own person, don't feel that you have to just settle for someone. If you have even the slightest doubt, then don't do it.
2007-01-13 06:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way not only after 2 months. You couldn't possibly know someone well enough in such a short time. Beware I see danger and heartache don't be silly if hes even genuine he is in a hurry before you see the real him
2007-01-13 05:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by deb m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! You've known him two months, he has a history of cheating and you're asking this question? I'd be running in the other direction - and fast!!
2007-01-13 05:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would wait until he proposes again, this time sober.its not fair on you to go through your marriage wondering if you did the right thing or not..do you really know someone at two months?but that your prerogative. what ever choice you make, make sure you are doing it for you and not for him
2007-01-13 05:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettstar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
accept the proposal but don't get married just yet as he may cheat on you
2007-01-13 05:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by megan p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋