she says there will alwasy be good friends because she holds no grudges
2007-01-12 21:28:22 · 5 answers · asked by fabianbolanos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems the operative word here is "constantly". If you are correct that it is "constantly" that is a little too much. Yes, I can understand her being friends, but she needs to take a look at it from your standpoint.
2007-01-12 22:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that this is an individual thing, personally I have always had a big problem with my boyfriend's ex(s) (10 year relationship) and again I also think that woman are the most devious of all species, don't trust them and never will, yes I am a woman, but I don run like that. Once I leave a relationship, that is what I do, I leave it, don't want to be friends, don't want to talk, nothing, you go on with your life and I will go on with mine. But then men seem to have this dumbfoundedness when it comes to other men. If this is something you don't like then you should let that be known, if you are uncomfortable with it, believe me let this bus go and another will follow. God Bless.
2007-01-12 21:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no!!!!! it sounds like the two of you is young,so i will lay it on you like this!! leave her-I'll tell you why.I am quite sure the two of you spoke about it and it's evident she still talk to them-so my question to you is why would you want to be with some one who doesn't respect your feelings.if she don't respect how you feel and submit to you simply, leave her!!!!!!! it's obvious she don't care what you think- she gonna do what she want to do-and trust me there will be much more things she gonna do that you are not gonna like-to save your self the trouble leave her now or hopefully by the time you get this message you already have.
and who knows if she still have feelings for them-i say she still has some and that is enough to cause her to use them as a rebound any time you and her get into an argument.
she is using them for back up-it's time for you to step your game up-you have two choices-either you leave her or you make you some friends-i mean so many female friends that it will drive her crazy and if she really like you-she will ask you to get rid of them and thats your chance to ask her to get rid of her ex boyfriends.
its a fair exchange
and if you are a real g-just lie and tell her you got rid of them girls and keep all of them-because honestly -all woman lie,men too-but woman are sneaky and slick-so beat them to the punch-always be prepared!!!!!!
2007-01-12 21:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by prosper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely wouldn't be ok with this, if I were you. If you trust her completely though, and know she wouldn't do anything to betray your trust..it could be ok. But I find this suspicious..as most people do not keep contact with ex's after a relationship. I would talk to her about it..and explain why this is bothering you. If she doesn't understand, and isn't considerate of your feelings, she's not worth it.
2007-01-12 21:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
t5alk with her
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2007-01-12 21:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋