my husband quit his job 1 year ago because he thought he could continue his study, but he didnt go because we had no enough money.so he start small business but it didnt go to well, now he sat doing nothing but he still thinking of doing hid business. he always said that everything that he do will become nothing, effortless.i dont know what to say to him.he will get mad thinking about this and start to scold everyone.now hes thinking of going to new zealand to work but e didnt know whether to go there or do his business.advice please....
2007-01-12 21:49:31 · 6 answers · asked by bumblebee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have faith in him go with the flow.
New Zealand isnt too bad.
You got any questions on NZ email me.
Many a strong secure family have started out with more of a struggle than you are going through right now.
The time to worry is when he gives up.
2007-01-16 15:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man is down but will not admit he is out.
Importantly, he needs your support in anything he does whether he succeed or fail, you must stay with him.
He may not be very business minded but is trying.
Talk to him and persuade him to get a job to build some capital and later go into business again. NZ does not sound bad, go for it.
Good Luck
2007-01-17 05:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is a bit big.
But as many would say, a proper prior planning prevents future problem from arising. Furthermore, whatever plans you made, always look ahead on time of what will this all leads to.
Assessment is very important first prior to anything. I know that both of you will be confuse but just take time. You should also have a big heart in understanding his situation.
And last never forget to pray. I know most of us would neglect this stuff, but mostly when I'm in trouble i always call God first..
I hope this helps
2007-01-13 06:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that he get a job right now -- any job -- so that you two can get a financially on track for him to either go back to school or try his business again. The stability of a job might make him feel better about himself by being productive, contributing, etc. Good luck!
2007-01-13 07:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a slacker to me and always looking for the lazy way out. I think your gonna spend your lifetime chasing his rainbow, that is, unless you get off his merry go round. ( I'd scoot out of there).
2007-01-13 06:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be respectful of him and pray for him. It's the two best things you can do for any man.
2007-01-13 06:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋