i have been dateing this guy for 6 mounths. i love him alot but i really like this other guy alot to. i was going to brake up with him so i could be single for a wile but idk if i want to now. i cant stop crying and i'm so confused. every one says i should but idk. i want to but then again i dont. someone plz give me a good awnser!
2007-01-12 21:29:48 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No need to be a man glutten, just keep things casual and don't get too caught up. be honest with both of them on where you stand and be clear to both that you would like to see other people and would be interested in getting to know them. Choose later when you actually do know.
2007-01-12 21:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Magz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something that anyone can easily help you with. You need to decide what will ultimately make you happy: guy #1, guy #2, or neither. On one side it can be argued that if you really love guy #1, you wouldn't be interested in guy #2. Then again, perhaps you're at a point in your life when you should be dating multiple people to find out for yourself what you want in a partner. My best advice: make a decision. You probably won't be able to stop crying until you do.
2007-01-12 21:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, dont' worry. I've been through this before too.
I have been dating my boyfrend for 2 years now, and I still feel the need to be single and date other guys; yet at the same time I love my boyfriend with all my heart.
When it was the first year of our relationship, I had a huge crush on one of my guy friends, and to top that off, he liked me too! So I was bawling every night because I was so confused and had no idea what to do! I turned to my friends and of course they said "Yes, dump your boyfriend and date ___" I couldn't do it, because I knew (and still know) that I love my sweetheart very much. Love can overcome anything like this little problem.
All the advice I have got for you is to follow your heart like I did. I am still in the 2 year relationship, and it's excellent. All honest and we talk about everything. I still sometimes wonder what it would have been like to date my friend, but I know that if I did that, I wouldn't have got to see how much my boyfriend cares for me, and how much I love him. I wouldn't be able to tell if he was right for me or not, but I know one thing - It wasn't a wrong idea to stay with my 2 year bf!!!
Like I said, follow your heart fully and honestly. It will tell you what it needs. It's complicated, but you can get over it eventually, like I have.
Best Wishes in 2007!
~ Shelley ~
2007-01-12 21:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♫♥♫Teagan♦Smiley♫♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stay SINGLE and ALONE for a while. Tell your partner you are not ready for a relationship because you are confused, but you do not know what the future will carry for you.
You need to focus the coming weeks on spending time alone or with friends, doing things you like... till you become emotionally stable and all the confusion goes away.
Then you will know what you want, who you want... and after that go and be honest about your feelings towards whoever it is.
Good luck, but focus the coming weeks on building your spirit and raising it high :)
2007-01-12 21:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt get exactly with which one are you going to break up,anyway I have been in similar situation about 5 years ago,I was in love with some one but defenatly sure that our relation might not be ended to marriage,then It happened and I replaced some one else it was hurting for some time and I didnt forget that first one but I can promise you the hurt you are feeling right now, wont be same strong for long time,time would solve it.
2007-01-12 21:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by pouneh6112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a difficult position...going steady with a boyf and then liking someone else...
examine yourself... who do you want to lose? who do you really love more? always remember to follow your heart, not only that, you have to consider also
your family and friends opinions, but that doesnt mean you'd follow them...
if you still cannot decide, stop seeing your boyfriend for awhile, no communication whatsoever...and then decide who you want to see and be with one day...if whoever
is your answer is the right man for you...goodluck
2007-01-12 21:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No human can ever be the author / Maker of the Universe. tell your moms and dads that you would fairly worship God than to be ignorant and declare your self as God. seem what take position to Pharoah for the period of Prophet Moses (peace be upon him) time
2016-10-30 23:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by pour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need some time to think who you really love....
2007-01-12 21:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy life & share them.
2007-01-12 21:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by DAVE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him
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2007-01-12 21:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋