When the school year started this girl I didnt really like much, kept coming over to me and telling me storys, also during classes she would say stuff like "I went to that hotel", "you can build computer, COOL!", But saying I didnt like her I shrugged outta the conversation. Now she nevers talks to me and im wondering, how to attract who over to start talking to me again, I have a crush. Is there any way to get her to re-notice me and come over and talk?
She is never on her own, always with her friend, and I get shy easy! What made me change my mind was at first I though she was rude and saying I was shy, would make fun off me, but now I see she is not like that! Also I think she might be going out with another person now, because there was a note saying "(Her name) & Alan forever and ever", but I think her mates did it as a joke! HELP!
2007-01-12 21:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to talk to her even if she is with her friends..ask to borrow a pencil or something or ask her the time..smile at her.
2007-01-13 00:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant speak to her on your own because of your shyness, then i'd suggest maybe trying to speak to one of her friends on her own and see if the girl really is seeing someone, ifyour crushes friend knows you where rude to her friend (your crush), then you may get shouted at a little, but explain that you made a mistake in being rude to her and then ask your crushes friend if she could tell your crush that and that your sorry and would like to talk to your crush again, to get to know her a little better, you don't have to tell your crush straight awy that you fancy the pants off of her, just take things slow and try to eventually be friends with your crush first, it's only that way that she will hopefully, re notice you again, you cant force anyone to relike you again, it takes time and effort, mostly on your part. i hope everything works out for you though.
2007-01-12 21:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by tribalgirlie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be calm, if she liked you then she still does now. Just try and talk to her a bit, to show her that you want to listen to her and talk to her. I know it's a hard thing to do if your shy, but nothing fatal can come out of it.
2007-01-12 21:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by without.question 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to talk to her. conquer your fears and just say hi.. that can do a lot for a girl.... maybe after a while you might find a time that you can talk to her more and then maybe ask her out.. dont be shy...just do it!
2007-01-12 21:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by picklegirl326 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry, it's a crush and you'll soon get over it !!
2007-01-16 12:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing will make her notice u more than catching her eye and smiling :) it works wonders...
2007-01-12 21:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
meet her and have that courage to express her your feelings.dont walk with others shoes
2007-01-12 21:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she doesn't have a crush on you. n
2007-01-12 21:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-12 21:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋