Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

my boyfriend, whom i've been with for 4 yrs and living with, has been dissappearing at night, like 2 am and won't come home or contact me or family for 20-24 hrs. he won't say where he's going. he gets drunk and leaves. i am beginning to not trust him, and frankly i'm kind of scared that if i have intercourse with him i might catch something. i mean, i do trust him, but only to a certain point. he has left 3 times within the past 7 days like this. He'll drink either here or the bar, and not come home or call us for a day! he can't drive either, he has a dui, and he even took my car without me knowing about it twice this week. I just want to know, how suspicious is this of cheating? should i ask him to get tested? i would like to work things out and help him straighten up, but should i use me as leverage? such as "I'm not going to be here for you until you grow up, prove your trustworthiness, ect"?
what exactly should i do? please, any alternatives for breaking up.

2007-01-10 23:10:37 · 14 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 23:10:27 · 3 answers · asked by ceedee123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in order to have good date is person should be millonaire enough to impress other person. does money has any relation with good date?

2007-01-10 23:09:56 · 9 answers · asked by sonali s 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to find out how involved my children should be in my second marriage. I want them to play a big part of the wedding, but how involved should they be? I want them in the cerimony, and at the head table,, is this wrong? I also want them to drive with us from the church to the reception, is this ok as well?

2007-01-10 23:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by techno_nut_2005 1 in Weddings

I'll be blunt. I need my boyfriend to break up with me so I can go out with another dude. KEEP IN MIND! I'm only 13.

2007-01-10 23:09:16 · 31 answers · asked by black_rose_math 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 23:09:14 · 9 answers · asked by ceedee123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 23:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz help....

2007-01-10 23:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by emma_18d 2 in Family

2007-01-10 23:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by janet s 1 in Friends

2007-01-10 23:03:32 · 23 answers · asked by coolbuddy 1 in Friends

Hi everyone,
We are girls , we are friends, we are best friends...
But last month i feel strange...
She is my friend and i'm not a lesbian (at list a thought i'm not) but now i feel that a like her a little bit more than just s friend and more than sister...
What is it?
What to do?
What to think?

Thank you.

2007-01-10 23:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by Stac_laukums 1 in Friends

Why do my b/f's friends call him whipped for brining me flowers and supporting me at my gymnastics meets?? I don't make him, he just does.
Is he whipped b/c he was a player until he fell for me, and does sweet things for me??
All his friends come to the meet to but he comes up during the score announcements and is there for me.
What is wrong with him being with his friends at the meet unless I get hurt or until the end?

2007-01-10 23:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 23:00:20 · 15 answers · asked by coolbuddy 1 in Friends

My Ex and me broke up six weeks ago. How long does it usually take for a person to find someone else to replace you? She's alot older then me, in her sixties and she's not all that great looking. I fell in love with her heart until I found out she didn't have one really, it was all a game. I'm thinking she found someone new. One of our mutual friends who lives down the road from her said she has nobody. However, I feel that she does.

2007-01-10 23:00:16 · 2 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says that my male friend just wants to have sex one day and he hates him. He says that a man cant be friends with a woman without sex coming into it from one person or the other. I think it is possible and I get on better with guys. Surely platonic relationships exist without sex??

2007-01-10 22:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

why is my points going down? wat did i do to it? tell me how to get it up and y is it going down?

2007-01-10 22:58:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 22:54:17 · 24 answers · asked by immortal nightmare 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I used to work in two countries for a long time. We saw each other once a year or even longer. During this period, I happened to know a guy who liked me at the first sight. After he told me that I just let him know I was married. He gave up. But because of our work we had to see each other very often. his feelings were still there when he talked to me and stared at me. I began to like him back. There were always some other guys who liked me, but he was the only one I couldn't resist.

I didn't want to ruin the life of three people. I hided my feelings and avoided any contact with him. Sometimes I was rude. Later he quitted the job and moved to another city. I left too. Since then we've had no contact.

I thought I'd forget that guy when living with my husband. I'm very happy in my marriage. I love my husband. But I'm still thinking about that guy and feel painful. I don't think he's better but can't get him out of mind. It's been almost 2 years!

I hate myself!

2007-01-10 22:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 22:53:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well see i liked this guy yesturday but now i dont aand im gonna be meeting him today and what should i do now??

2007-01-10 22:52:18 · 13 answers · asked by kikisoccerbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend neaver ever comes out when i ask her what do you think.

2007-01-10 22:52:11 · 10 answers · asked by sporty chick 1 in Friends

If you received an email from a member of the opposite sex stating that they were living with someone but technically they viewed themselves as single what would you glean from that?

2007-01-10 22:52:07 · 26 answers · asked by Ellie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do my b/f's friends call him whipped for brining me flowers and supporting me at my gymnastics meets?? I don't make him, he just does.

2007-01-10 22:51:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 22:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by martabilin28 1 in Singles & Dating

I really love my boyfriend. And I see my future with him. You know, getting married, build a family together, etc. But just recently, I found out that he doesn't believe in marriage. What shall I do?

2007-01-10 22:50:19 · 22 answers · asked by ritz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is not sexually related btw. Having been single now for about 2 1/2 years, with many friends who are couples or married, I was thinking of the simple things I miss about being in a relationship? To start you off, I would say - Having to drive to most functions, not being able to ask someone elses opinion when buying presents, hugs on the lounge during a DVD. These are a few simple examples, but I was wondering what everyone else thought? Thanks

2007-01-10 22:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by Flumma 2 in Singles & Dating

Why on God's green earth do women go after married men? My husband and I are separated geographically and I learned of his infadelity across the ocean......these women believe him when he says he's sparated.....What happened to the good ole days when if a couple were sparated they tried to work things out...not jump into the next sack......SHAME on those women who help unfaithful husbands......they are not victims they are accelorators to the dimise of a marriage!

2007-01-10 22:48:14 · 32 answers · asked by Smiling Belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At our schools gymnastics meet, the entire wrestling team, b-ball team, and lax team showed up.

2007-01-10 22:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean eating the "punany".

2007-01-10 22:45:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 22:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by sai 1 in Marriage & Divorce