2007-01-10 22:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by sai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you expect to live with that guy for the rest of your life?
It is just a matter of time before you have enough of he kills you or you kill him. Get out now so you can start over.
2007-01-14 20:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world you want to stay with a man that treats you so badly? Do you really think he will change? These are things you and only you can answer. If you don't believe he can change then the best thing to do is get out of the marriage. Abuse is nothing to take lightly. Sounds like he needs some help and if he is not willing to get it you need to get out.
2007-01-11 07:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Chillin-it 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear. NEVER accept insults and abuse from your husband. If you have done nothing wrong, and he doesn't believe you, then he is the one with a serious problem. He needs help in controling his emotions.
Did you know that each year thousands of women are killed in Domestic Violence incidents?
I hate to tell you this, but if he keeps abusing you. LEAVE. And don't go back until he has taken an ANGER MANAGEMENT COURSE, and after you know that he is seriously repented of hurting you emotionaly.
2007-01-11 07:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes trying to control you and have you keep denying and proving you didnt cheat. most likely those that cheat are the ones that are cheating. Stand up and dont allow the abuse, it will only depress you and also he will take your self esteem away then you go down hill. Stop it now its early in your marriage, to stand your dround and not invest to much if he wont stop.
2007-01-11 08:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband was a hidden controll fanatic. Get out now. Really. It will only get worse, seen it with my mother, even I have the tendencies. your husband can't help it, he's sick in the mind. that how it starts,, Bet he tries to cut you off from previous family and friends too. move out. Get the wedding annuled, and go back to your previous life. I reall y really feel sorry for you, and would like to help you. you would probably benifit from someone who specilizes with these people. but you should dump him asap and move on before he ruins your life. C.
2007-01-11 06:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..if you have done nothing wrong you don't have to accept the insults and abuses. You have the right to fight back.
Even if you have done something that may amount to cheating, he has no right to insult or abuse you. He can only discuss and settle the issue.
2007-01-11 06:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the marriage right now while you are still young, do you have any children.
this is a sign ,and already it seems to be a trust issue , soon he,ll be watching every move you make,won,t be able to go anywhere without a spanish inquisition.
2007-01-11 07:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell more about it
were r really? if yes when after marriage ur silent on it
wat u wanna do now?
whats ur location i mean how ppl around you see this thing
unless above are answered no genuine reply could be given
2007-01-11 06:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only going to get worse, good luck
2007-01-11 11:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by shane892000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! You know! God know! But I don't know?
2007-01-11 06:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by FIXIT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋