Why do my b/f's friends call him whipped for brining me flowers and supporting me at my gymnastics meets?? I don't make him, he just does.
Is he whipped b/c he was a player until he fell for me, and does sweet things for me??
All his friends come to the meet to but he comes up during the score announcements and is there for me.
What is wrong with him being with his friends at the meet unless I get hurt or until the end?
2007-01-10 23:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it a bad thing that he, unlike most guys who come, doesn't ask me to please **** him??`
2007-01-10 23:05:21 · update #1
Nothing! Boys will be boys just like girls will be girls. WE tend to gravitate towards our own sex and freidns because it is comfortable. Could it be his friends are jealous that he spends more time with you on his own choice? Or could it be that he has a steady girlfriend and they don't? YOur first goal is to not bad mouth his friends or give them a reason to dislike you. Suggest boys days out to your boyfriend so that his friends learn that you aren't there to monopolize all of your boyfriend's time and that you udnerstand that they want to spend time with him too. That being said don't choose to cancel a date or prior plans to let him out wiht the boys and don't force him out allow your boyfriend to chose where he wants to be. EG I know you really want to go to the game with the guys, so I was thinking we could meet later. This gives him the opportunity to get the best of both worlds or, " THanks for coming and watching the meet, your friends must be getting bored, why don't you guys go out for lunch or something and I'll meet up with you later. Hopefully this helps
2007-01-10 23:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Natashya K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys are that way! They have the ideas of being macho, not showing affection in any way, being always in command and untouchable, to say it in one world - larger than life.
My bf's friends make jokes about him, too, and guess what, he doesn't care a bit! He is happy being there for me, doing sweet and romantic little things all the time, so why would he care. But when they are alone, and have the "boy talk", they always say how happy they are for him, that he found such a wonderful girl, and such a wonderful love. They would probably do it all the same way, if they were in love such as he is.
He made great choice, not completely putting either of you (you or his friends) out of the picture.
He's a great guy, you are one lucky girl!
2007-01-11 07:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad thing! He obviously cares about you very much, and is showing maturity in the relationship. His friends, aren't committed to anyone, and may even be jealous, of his relationship with you. Don't worry about what they say. And no, he isn't whipped!
2007-01-11 07:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you have a great b/f. Don't worry about what other people say. You don't have to be around the others, just him. So, let him do what he wants for you and no he's not whipped, he just loves you. Be happy.
2007-01-11 07:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf seems to be doing what he wants regardless of what his friends think. Thats good it shows he isnt into peer pressure and he really cares for you. Dont worry about his friends you 2 just keep doin it ur way.
2007-01-11 07:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not bad. I just shows how much he appreciates you and is not afraid to show that. If he used to be a "player", his friends are probably confused as to why he changed. You must be one very special girl.
2007-01-11 07:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friends call me whiped to b/c I bring my girlfriend flowers and go to things with her and go out of my way to help/do things for her. i dont know my friends and her get along and help her if she asks so im not sure. ask your boyfriend if he thinks he is whiped mine asked me and i told her no that she dosent make me do stuff i do it on my own. good luck
2007-01-11 07:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by dontstandoncorners 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friends are just giving him a hard time, probably becuz they're jealous!
2007-01-11 07:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by slipperypickle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are jelous, cause he has someone good and that they dont.
2007-01-11 08:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you repeat the question??? :D
2007-01-11 07:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋