Hi everyone,
We are girls , we are friends, we are best friends...
But last month i feel strange...
She is my friend and i'm not a lesbian (at list a thought i'm not) but now i feel that a like her a little bit more than just s friend and more than sister...
What is it?
What to do?
What to think?
Thank you.
2007-01-10 23:02:04 · 10 answers · asked by Stac_laukums 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say don't listen to people who haven't been there and don't understand (that's like trying to get religious advice from an athiest). Anyway, I say you need to have a heart-to-heart discussion. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, just be strong enough in your feelings/convictions to act on them. You probably just haven't had enough experience with this type of situation to make up your mind yet. But you will in time, trust me. There is no magic age that you will figure it out but one day you just will. I suggest you take things slow but don't deny your feelings as they come up. Just keep talking and see what happens. Stay away from people who could be harmful to you and talk to people you trust like counselors at school or other people you know who are open-minded about this subject. Good luck! :]
2007-01-11 11:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think gal you are getting into big trouble.Pliz luk at her as only a friend and not a patner.By da way do you have a guy coz thats the one person you should be so close too.Tekea plz not to be a lesbian coz i hate them not unless she is a shemale en i dont have a problem with that.If you need someone close then email grgowuor@yahoo.com.
2007-01-11 07:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she's ever thought about being more than close friends. Go slowly in asking and don't demand answers. You may have a person with whom you want to have a physical, intimate relationship. Go into it slowly. You don't want to lose a friend because good friends are hard to find.
2007-01-11 07:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u hv feelin towards her tht r nt friendly or sisterly like u should tel her suppose she feels the same if she does gud fr u if nt tel her tht u wil try n b her frnd n wil nt let such things cm in the way of ur friendship.But i must warn u tht if she dosent feel the same way u feel bout her then her attitude might change towards u.But then again true frnds always 4giv so giv it ur best shot!!!!
BEST OF LUCK!!!
2007-01-11 07:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand the nature of your relationship with your friend. and i will not claim to understand either.
SOmetimes, when you spend too much time with another, you feel this deep conection. perhaps that is what you are feeling?
However, if you need to explore this more... you should go see a counselor.
2007-01-11 07:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like does not mean you are lesbian or you like her in that sense. Maybe you should talk things out with her and don confuse yourself or hide it from her
2007-01-11 07:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps U should move on before U ruin your young life.Looking at something long enough can trap U.
2007-01-11 07:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be because u have nobody so close to u at home, ur own sisters or brothers are not so close to u...
2007-01-11 07:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how you fell
2007-01-11 07:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just needed 2 points...thanx...if you pick my answer as the best one, i'll get another 10, so please pick it...lol
2007-01-11 07:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋