Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

I recently got dumped from my ex-bf who had dated for 13 months. He first broke up with me several months ago but then we sorta get back in last 2 weeks. He said he will change and wanted to get a second chance from me. I loved him so i gave him the chance but he blew it again.. This time even hit me harder cuz i realized i truly love this person in order to give him a second chance, not to mention he cheated b4 and lied to me billion times.. Anywayz, IS it possible for guys not to have any feelings toward their girlfriend and never was in love? and Why?

2007-01-10 15:38:54 · 3 answers · asked by shadow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

as myself i find it rather complicating

2007-01-10 15:38:36 · 23 answers · asked by j 2 in Singles & Dating

my cousin is with a guy that is likke that and she is suppose to be marrying him next year

2007-01-10 15:38:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i nown this girl for 2 mothes and i love her. she has been goin out with this guy she just broke up with him.and i wanna now when i should pop the question

2007-01-10 15:38:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I like this one guy in my class and he also lives like down the street from me. I think he likes me, but i dunno. I really wanna know and tell him to see how he feels, but how do i tell him without just saying I LIKE YOU. I talk to him and all and joke around, but I dont know him THAT well yet cuz im new this year and all. any ideas of telling him and finding out if he lieks me?

2007-01-10 15:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by shortie0609 2 in Singles & Dating

Which annoys him more. Can you think of a nice non-confrontational way to tell her to shut-up already?

2007-01-10 15:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by DropTopAle 2 in Friends

It is a 3 yr relationship. I broke up with my ex back in November, 2006. It was my fault. I said harsh words to her because of her silly question (Would I take a revenge on her if she was not my gf?). She said the question was just a silly one because she was under pressure and not having enough sleep. She never meant it.

I just talked to her on the phone. She said she has someone in her mind now. She always thinks about him. (They haven't got to the bf/gf stage yet). She told me that we will never be bf/gf anymore in the future. However, she doesn't mind to be friend with me again.

It is only 2 months!! I still love her very much. Should I still "try" to be with her again??

I need some HELP/comment.

2007-01-10 15:36:06 · 5 answers · asked by Ocean 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 15:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that a man cannot see my worth? I am a loyal, nice, pretty, smart and funny girl ... and yet not one seems to recognize it. Wouldn't every guy actually want a woman who's actually worth something? She doesn't cheat and cares deeply for him? Shouldn't he WANT to care about her, too? Girls out there, do you feel this way, too?

2007-01-10 15:35:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old are you ?
Just curious to what you find attractive in a woman.. What is it that would keep you interrested in her.
One more question while I am at it ? Now that you are older, do you find yourself attracted to younger woman rather then woman your own age? If so why ?

2007-01-10 15:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lavender 7 in Singles & Dating

It's basically what I'm doing now, but I'm sure her mother and father know that we're still dating... I don't want it to effect our relationship, which it almost did. I love her dearly and I can wait for her till she gets out of school

2007-01-10 15:34:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with him for 4 yrs. 1 yr ago he took a job about 2 hours away from where we lived. I own my home and have a good paying job. This move was only supposed to last 3 months, then 6 months, then a year. So then he tells me thathe was offered a management postion 3 hours away but if it was going to cause a problem then he wouldn't take it. I said although I supported him I felt it would be hard and cause a problem. He still took it. Due to our lifestyle this person's family doesn't accept me. So when he took the job it's only 45 minutes from his Sister who doesn't know we're together. So for the last 4 mnths I've only had 2 visits. I get a phone call his way to work & a phone call on his way home. O.k. so now he was able to get an apt. cuase it's hard to get one where the job is at. Now it's like "Are you ready?" I said "for what" he said "to come over here?"
I am terrified. The seperation caused me to go into a horrible depression and I am afraid of going back into it.

2007-01-10 15:34:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, guys i want honest answers ok! what would an average 12-14 yr old boy look for in a girl?
and dont say "for whats in her heart and soul...blah blah
be honest and tell whats you would really want..like long hair ..brown eyes...big boobs( typical guys >.>).

ok thx!

2007-01-10 15:34:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This includes daily wear

2007-01-10 15:33:55 · 10 answers · asked by GoldenDrgon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello, my name is Troy, and i'm getting married next year to my girlfreind Krissy, who I've been with for about 2 years now. we've been planning to get married for a year, and we're getting married once she graduates, i'll be in college, finishing up my first year. I just want to know if anyone else supports young marriages. And dont try to change my mind, i dont believe love has no age set. I just want to know if anyone else supports it. We are doing it for the right reasons, all we want is to spend the rest of our lives together, we cant go more then a day or two withought talking to eachother, and we cry whenever the other has to go home. please, dont critisize me, just tell me if you think young marriage is ok.

2007-01-10 15:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Troy E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay there is this guy that I dated in the past and he said he still loves me and he said well do you still love me? I was quiet an Then I sed i had a b-f and then he said well i want US back.so choose.Follow your heart...The truth.. I still love him.I mean I dated him for 3 years... But then this guy I am currently with Loves me very much too an would do anything for me...what should I do?

2007-01-10 15:32:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a bf that I've been seeing for a little more than a month. (lets call him #2) Lately though, he's gotten too physical and doesn't seem to accept it well when I say "no." He isn't violent or anythign but he's just got a lot of qualities that I dont like now and that are showing through now that we have been together for a bit.
There's this other guy I really like who is the complete opposite (lets call him #1) but I am not sure if he just likes me as a friend, plus he is very serious about his work and is busy a lot. I am pretty resolute about breaking it off with #2, though I don't know how. I wouldn't just be wanting to do it for #1 because I don't even know if that will work out, but I really really like #1. So I sort of know what i WANT to do based on how I feel but I have no idea how to go about it Any advice would help. thanks.

2007-01-10 15:31:20 · 8 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

so my friend who was my best friend knows this guy that i like. she knows that i wanna go with him to winter ball but that i dont know how to ask him. i guess she was getting fed up with me and decided to go on this big rant about how i cant do anything for myself. is it my fault that im kinda scred to ask him? and that she has more gut than i do?

2007-01-10 15:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Starburst 2 in Friends

he keeps forcing my leg to touch like right next to his, like very close up to him, and he pretty much is hanging onto my arm.
What does he want to do with me???

2007-01-10 15:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Singles & Dating

Howcome sometimes guys re sooo stupid about flirting and they don't know whether the girl jsut has something in her eye or shes bashing her eyes cuz she likes you. and what is the main way you act when you flirt, not just be nice. it's so confusing how you guys flirt especially since you can make one move and a girl thinks a million things of what it might mean. PLEEASE HELP im like breaking my heaaddd.

thaanks!

2007-01-10 15:30:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exactly prevents the pregnancy or what happens during the pregnancy, that makes it so taboo?

2007-01-10 15:30:31 · 13 answers · asked by jsbomb 1 in Family

Just got hired for a pretty good paying PT job merchandising. However was forewarned that one of the store managers was very very difficult to get along w/that she's always "miserable, unhappy, and has the personality of an angry gorilla".
:o(
I am looking forward the job, but NOT working w/someone so mean!!
Do you have experiences like this?!
How should one cope?
(I have to take this job--nothing else is available locally around here yet)
HELP!!
(thanks :-)

2007-01-10 15:30:26 · 8 answers · asked by Auntie Marie SueB 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I used to work in two different countries for a long time. We saw each other once a year or even longer. During this period, I happened to know a guy who liked me at the first sight. After he told me that I just let him know I was married. He gave up. But because of our work we had to see each other very often. The feelings were still there when he talked to me and stared at me. I began to like him back. There were always some other guys who liked me, but I could not resist him.

I didn't want to ruin the life of three people. I hided my feelings and avoided any contact with him. Sometimes I was rude. Later he quitted the job and moved to another city. I left too. Since then we've had no contact.

I thought I would forget him when living with my husband. I'm satisfied with our great marriage. We love each other and my husband likes spoiling me. But I am still thinking about that guy and feel painful. It's been almost 2 years...... I hate myself.

2007-01-10 15:30:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. I always thought that we'd get engaged sometime during my Junior or Senior year of college and get married after. We have never talked too too serious about it yet but he did hint a couple months ago about a ring but hasn't said anything about it since. Also since we graduated high school 2 years ago he hasnt been doing too much, just been going from job to job showing no interest in college and just a little interest in the military. So today he started talking about the military (which he planed on joining after high school but didn't) saying he is thinking about trying to get into shape this next year or two and then joining. And then I said that would mean you'd join right when I graduated college, and he goes well it's not like we're going to get married when you graduate but if that's the case and we wouldn't get married 'till he was outta the military I'll be 27 and by then I was hoping on thinking about a kid

2007-01-10 15:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are these girls/guys at our school, and they are one of those "Asian groupies" kind of groups.They are the people that TypE lYkE THiS, they always go "IM A NINJA", and they always write I LOVE PENGUINS and stuff like that. My friends and I use to be in there little group, but I didn't want to hang out with them anymore because they were mean, and they would start rumors and stuff. LOL. But I have to admit they are really pretty. ANYWAY, they are always starting rumors about my friends and I, and they are always trying to hurt my friends and I.I want to talk to them, but I don't know how to approach them. Should I be very polite and tell them to be nicer or should I go crazy and swear at them and punch them in the face. I can't stand them starting rumors about my friends and I anymore. How should I approach this problem?

2007-01-10 15:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by dk 3 in Friends

2007-01-10 15:26:22 · 18 answers · asked by ashleynaminah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 15:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

THere's this guy, and I don't find him attractive or anything, I am more infatuated with the idea of him. He is a total perv... HE has slept with freshmen multiple times. (He's a Sophomore. I am a freshman.) He has touched me, purposely making me squirm. (Once I was wearing a mini sitting down. THe hem was about 2 inches from my crotch, and he knew it. He put his hand right at the edge, and just let it sit there.) HE talks to me about doing stuff, and he doesn't bat an eye. HE has a bad rap at school becasue he has near naked pictures on myspace, and he chooses ME to flirt with. Thinking about him makes my stomach twist almost painfully, and I can't stop picturing him kissing me.

I don't want to sleep with him or anything, but when I get around him I catch myself entertaininig the idea. AT least giving him head. This can't be healthy, and I need help stopping it!!!

2007-01-10 15:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and sometimes i think she likes me, like she will always talk about me to her friends, or call me cutie, gorgeous, blah and like we flirt alot when we are around eachother, but then like sometimes, for example today, i went to her volleyball game, and she completely ignored me while i was there after she wanted me to come, and like i dont know what to do and its driving me insane.

2007-01-10 15:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at my school. I don't know if she likes me. How cn i figure out if she does. I am very shy and i don't communicate well. If anyone has any advice could the please help me. I need help with this. I have never ever had a girlfriend or asked a girl out. I have barely talked to girls. I have talkedto this girl a couple of times and we went on a school trip together and had fun while we were there. I really like her. Any answers that may help me?

2007-01-10 15:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating