Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

My long term girlfriend and I have been together for almost years. I have two other children from another relationship in which I have visitation and joint custody. My GF has never and would never physically disapline them and has even said it. She loves my kids to death and has done so much for them. We have a one child of her own and my GF treats them like one of her own. My 6 year old tends to be at time mouthy and loves to talk back, even at me sometimes. My GF pulled my 6 year old by her shirt to get her attention and told her to hush sternly. The birth mother filed charges/warrent of Assult and Battery on my GF. I ask my 6 year old what happend in private and was told that only her shirt was pulled. Is bring alleged charges of Assult and Battery on my GF conidering the circumstances and "OVERKILL"? I think it is and is completly over the top.

2007-01-10 16:08:34 · 19 answers · asked by Frustrated Boi 757 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay boys and girls, in your opinion, what are the worst traits a men can possess? What about women?

2007-01-10 16:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by Magz 2 in Singles & Dating

High/Low A, B, C, or D? Or even more...?

2007-01-10 16:07:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was w/ a guy for almost two years, although it was long distance, he seemed almose perfect, but fell in love even with his flaws. We spoke everyday and night and saw each other as mush as possible. He professed his love for me all the time. But he kept a secret from me that he had a child with a one night stand before we met. This caused him so much pain that made him feel suicidal. He didnt want a child w/ some girl he didnt respect or care for. Now that I helped him come to terms, he met his child & in a matter of weeks he decided to leave me to be with the mother. I helped him sooo much with his suicide situation, I thought it was a mistake, thats what he made me feel and I know he felt that way. But whats worst is he showed no regret and was very cold to me. Doesn't he realize who was there for him, I am the one who told him he should be a part of the childs life, I helped him come to terms with everything and I can't believe he did this to me. How can someone be this way ??

2007-01-10 16:07:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i know this guy, i care about him a lot, i tell him i love him all the time. Problem? He's my best friend, and i KNOW he likes me. But we got in this kinda fight tonight, because he made a joke i didn't find too funny. I told him that it wasn't funny.. and that idk if i should talk to him anymore, but i was kidding too, and i told him that, but he said maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore. i called his cell after thinking about what to say to him.. and obviously his answering machine comes up. I told him i didn't like hearing that too much from people i care about. And that it wasn't true. So yeah, that's why i got kinda frusterated about it, then i told him that i cared about him very much. and i thought that he should think about it a little longer then let me know later. Did i do the right thing?

2007-01-10 16:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've asked him right out, why are you being awkward, and he said I was weird and signed off. We were using MSN. We're both 15, and have been friends for a grand total of 5 months. I'm a girl, he's a guy, if that's of any help. Are friendship started fast, but as of late it's been weird. Whenever we're within 5 mile radius of each other we're pretty much within an arms reach. I don't create this closeness, he does. I'll go off, and he'll follow me. When we sit next to each other our knees, and if possible out thighs are pressed together. I don't mind, but the thing it he usually acts like he doesn't want to be around me. As in he sits there and I sit there, and we talk. Sounds pretty normal. The thing is his voice sounds completely different. It's softer, nicer? And his eyes they get all watery, and they'll twitch softly. Basically, he quickly looks away. Though the eye thing? It's become a constant. And we don't really talk, it's like a quick conversation of all the important things we don't get to say. Well, usually we're surrounded by people. When we're around his friends, they're mine to but more his. They only started hanging out with me after he, my friend, and I had been friends for a couple of months.And here's where it gets more puzzling. He'll act very obnoxious. I mean an extreme. I mean more then usual. He's naturally obnoxious. Which makes it even weirder that when we're by ourselves, he acts so weird. In the past, the last four months, he was never changing. Always the same. But now he's just out of it. He use to say don't touch me. But now he hits me all the time, you know playing, and I hit him back. We can work that way. He's also started to act like he's tired or to make a "point" he put his hand on my shoulder, and bring me closer to him and says it almost pressing his head on mine. Just stupid things like that, he doesn't count them as touching, I'm guessing. I like one of his friends, and he knows this. He's been meaner to that friend. He's been doing that more. If I go off with another guy he'll follow and later he'll tell me I like that guy and to just admit it. I talked to his friend, through IM, for awhile, and he kind of messed up that friendship. He teased us to an extreme, and he'd lie about his friend. I'm beginning to wonder if he's jealous. A lot of times when we're around people it's like he's competing for my attention. And when he gets it, he tries to keep it. Sometimes he'll just do really weird things. Like a couple days ago, we snuck off from his friends, and he had an empty soda bottle and started a game of Spin the Bottle. The thing is, it was just us. It originally started as slapping the person's hand, then petting it, then gazing into each others eyes, until finally he gets to kissing. Luckily, his friends got there as soon as the slapping round ended. They all refused to do anything farther then hitting each other. Good, in my opinion. But he would proclaim this round was for so and so. He'd always laugh and say yeah right when it landed on one of the guys. But when it finally got to me He said, "Oh, wow. You're going to have to kiss me." Then he called me a cheater when I wouldn't. The whole time we were all amazed by his behavior. His friend and I kept looking at each other wondering why he gone insane. Yeah, that was special. And a new edition if he sees me in a public place and he's by himself, he'll just ignore me. He'll stay in the vicinity, and walk around. Like he doesn't see me. It's really stupid. Obviously, I'm there. Obviously, he's there. So I play back, I'll walk around until we "bump" into each other. Like a warm-up to talking. It's retarded. But if he's around his friends, he comes right over. Leaves his friends, basically. And whenever he can he sits close to me. Which is another weird thing. His "best friend" will be there, and he sits right in front of me. Where he has no friends what so ever. Last night he sat a seat away from me, and told me that the seat next to him is saved. For no one, because everyone's there... He spent most of the time leaning over the empty chair talking to me, or passing me notes. Not obvious in the least. Of course, this is just in a class. When we're with his friends, he always sits next to me. He'll try to make people move, or me, so I can sit with him. When I asked him why he said that they stink and for me to stop being weird. They don't stink. I can assure you of this. Enough detail for you? LOL! A little more, I think...He told me he doesn't like me, and I said okay. He told me he'd never like me. And I said okay. I didn't ask you see. This was when he was asking if I liked him. Right after he acted like a complete jerk and ruined my friendship with his friend. He seems to like that question. Do you like me? I always say the exact thing. No. And then he says, I don't believe you. And I'll ask, why? Then he'll say something rather dashing such as you're weird, I'm leaving. You see, he doesn't ask me in person. Only over IM. So he apparently doesn't like me. Which I'm fine with, I don't like him. Just so we all know this. And he doesn't like me. He's very adamant about it. So, my lovelies, what in the helk is the matter with him?

2007-01-10 16:06:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it still romantic to take a girl on like a hour long like road trip.....Say like from the city to a like forest perserve or wooded area for like a picnic or somthin.........

2007-01-10 16:05:35 · 4 answers · asked by The Last Redneck Soxfan 2 in Singles & Dating

There was a family website that one member could start, password it, give that password to other family members and it had a family calendar for posting birthdays, appointments, etc., a fridge door for posting notes on, and a forum, a photo gallery, lotsa stuff like that. Anyone else remember it? Where has it gone? I lost track of it, and haven't been able to find it anywhere.

2007-01-10 16:03:52 · 2 answers · asked by Dimps 2 in Family

When it comes to love, is it possible to "know" someone at age 21? :)

2007-01-10 16:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by Melody P 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 16:02:35 · 5 answers · asked by bec 1 in Singles & Dating

Could relatives ever marry?

2007-01-10 16:02:06 · 14 answers · asked by jsbomb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok what does it mear if girls look o the groud for some secs the teary look at u this girl did it to me she looks at the groud that she looks at me why did she do that!

2007-01-10 16:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by sweeter a 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i've been likin my ex since about 5th grade we broke up in 05 because he went with my friend (she passed away in Sept 05). Currently I' am with someone who has always been there (we were friends first). But my ex wrote me a note in nov. saying he misses me i kept denying him and he left me alone. ALmost three days ago he writes me again on urban chat says to call him I say for what and he says he just wans to talk well i wrote him and said about what and he also sent me friend request. Well i know he'll write me bck tomorrow but what should i do? what do u think? I mean i'll always have love for him but its just not the same anymore

2007-01-10 16:01:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 30 and I want to have sex EVERYDAY...but I don't have a boyfriend right now (sigh). And I'm not a slut.
what can I do to stop feeling this way??

2007-01-10 16:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by lola 1 in Singles & Dating

scrawny guys? do you lik them?

2007-01-10 16:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for 6 yrs and we're xpecting our first child. we were friends for about two yrs and dated for about 4 yrs b4 we got married. the whole time, him and my dad have NOT gotten along and have had a few very big fights. my husband is not perfect but i have never had a good relationship with my dad and he has been verbally abusive many times. this recent blow up essentially we were disowned and aren't supposed to come to thier house (my mom isn't really involved in this tho, so...???). has anyone been in a similar situation and/or have any advice in general? i'm slightly surprised that i don't really feel upset by what my dad said (many yrs of dissappointment in him maybe?), but i do with my mom and the rest of my decent sized family and i am concerned about how things can effect our baby and them.

2007-01-10 16:00:24 · 2 answers · asked by clubbrat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 16:00:18 · 6 answers · asked by Jazz-y 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 16:00:01 · 6 answers · asked by wardy 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is Yahoo allowing people to ask questions/play games that involve giving their mothers maiden name on here? I hope this site is monitored. It worries me that kids will give out too much info. Will Yahoo remove those posts?

2007-01-10 15:59:58 · 3 answers · asked by makehaysunshine 2 in Friends

n how can i get her to grind wit me

2007-01-10 15:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by storage b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 15:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by slim74guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel so sad and hopeless these days. I don't really know how to explain it either. My ex boyfriend and I got back together and I feel like I made a mistake. I wish for once in my life something would work out the way I want it too. I wonder if I really made any difference in my family and my friends lives? I want to be happier, but I'm not sure what to do to cheer myself up anymore. It seems like I've tryed everything. Please, let me know if you have any helpful suggestions for me? Thank you.

2007-01-10 15:58:52 · 6 answers · asked by Apy S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a FWB. We both are fine w/ our situation,neither of us want a committed relationship. I want to know,are guys put off when or if girls become the 'aggressor'? I'm just curious.....thanx

2007-01-10 15:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay now well as a not such a "pretty boy" "seventeen magizine model" type lookin person that I am. Theres this girl i kinda like thats in most of my classes in high school and she cute and atractive an all and I would like to ask her out, but theres been a no communication since i met her in 6ixth grade. But now that im in high school i met another girl thats cute and ya know we get along and flirt during class every once and a while,and i was thinkin on maybe askin her but i dont know which one? Heres the kicker i dont really kno if either is good because both of wich are hispanic (both do speak english) and im white so im wonderin if that might be a problem too.

2007-01-10 15:58:00 · 1 answers · asked by The Last Redneck Soxfan 2 in Singles & Dating

phone sex is this cheating?

2007-01-10 15:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by jen 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy is like 22 years old. He smells so disgusting! He stinks up the whole house. My mom, my boyfriend, and I tell her, but she won't tell him. It's really bad. We all just want to leave the house when he's here. His hair stinks, his feet stink, his whole body stinks. Even my sister can't stand it. I don't know how she can be intimate with him. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but it's really gross. What can we do????

2007-01-10 15:57:07 · 8 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6 in Singles & Dating

If a girl becomes unhappy in a relationship after 5 years 11 months is it over or can i make her happy again. She only tells me this stuff when i fight with her and recently blew up on me for not answering my phone when i went to my friends. That was 6 day before her period P.M.S. i think. But she said vicious things like i dont like you anymore and i dont want to get married to you. The next day we hung out like nothing happened and i asked her are we together always she said yes. I then asked when are we getting married she said when i feel better, soon.

Anyway shes unhappy how and can i make her happy again. I'm depressed because of this and i can't move on its killing me i need your advice and you experiences. And if you have gone through this same thing then tell mewhat happened in your relationship. I'm 21 and she 20 and we plan to get married by next year.
p.s.
We still have sex and i know she wants to because she asks to go down on me after and she is very wet during the sex

2007-01-10 15:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Today, i was having a fun day until, my boyfriend told me dat he wants us 2 be fdz, not gf/bf. So, i went to his house and chill with him. we talked about our relationship and we decied to be fdz.
I was very upset dat we weren't dating any more. So, his homiz came to his house. and i texted him... if i can sit on his lap.. he said ok. s0, i sat on his lap and flirt, later when i was leaving, we kissed. I am so confuse and i want to be wit/him so bad. but, wat do i do next? help.
PS, we had never kissed or been so close as today but we also had broken up too.

2007-01-10 15:56:58 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

They moved to another state about 8 weeks ago and now they have been evicted from there apartment.There on a bus back to Florida as we speak.My son is a pot smoker and a heavy drinker.He cant get a job because he has no Diplomia and refuses to stop drinking and smoking pot and ciggeretts.He has a bad temper and has tried to push our family around when he was a teen.We have tried everything from therapy to church jail and Dr's.He refuses to see that we cant take care of him and will not take him and his g/f in.We tried to do that one time for a few weeks and it lasted 10 months!!! If our landlord finds out he has even been here we will be evicted.I hate this because i feel like im suposed to help my children but my husband and i cant stand the drinking and the drugs.We have never used drugs and hubby quit smoking years ago.We dont drink either. We tried to raise our kids to do better.
Are we wrong to close the door? What would you do?

2007-01-10 15:56:44 · 12 answers · asked by GH 1 in Family

Most womens r always cheating their partners

2007-01-10 15:56:31 · 5 answers · asked by vinodvpv 1 in Singles & Dating