Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

why is it a big deal if people know of a guy & a girl older than him having a romantic relationship...

they say age doesn't matter but does it really not matter...
though i don't think it's right if the woman is more than 5 years older...she must be at most 4 years older...what can you say???

is it wrong ???if it is, what the basis.... real and just basis...

2007-01-10 15:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by i am here 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The answers that I got back I feel that alot of people were upset at me and telling me how could I. But what about her, she is his mother and she doesn't feel guilty about it, and I am her sons best friend so why should I feel guilty ? Alot of people have secrets and skeletons in their closets and alot of older women out there are loney and horny and like younger men too.

2007-01-10 15:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey. I come from central Europe and I'm 21 years old. Just so much, that we wouldn't be complete strangers :))

I wonder, if you feel lonely...
<> what is the thought that gets you the most in these days and what song you feel describes it the most?
<> Where do you like to hang out and where would you like to go, say tommorow?

Would appriciate all answers, if you feel like answering.

2007-01-10 15:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by n101135449 1 in Friends

Im not really a fun person to be around. How can i loosen up and be less self conscious. I just want to be able to have fun with everyone and enjoy my life. Im allways so serious and too in my head. Please lend some advice. I need to become more friendly and more socialable. Thanks for your answers :)

2007-01-10 15:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe true love is unconditional. However, at what point does love become blind ignorance? Love can impair your ability to make rational judgements. At the same time, love can bridge the gap between assumption and reality by the way you respond to each others needs (mentally and physically). Is there really a way to guard your heart while giving your all to a relationship?

Talk to me people......

2nd

2007-01-10 15:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by 2nd2n0ne 2 in Singles & Dating

some girls talk in a baby voice during the day and think that they are the cutest thing in the world. they even tell boys that they are cute and the boys seem to fall in love with them. why is this so? plz help as this is quite babyish and they need to grow up because it's really starting to annoy me

2007-01-10 15:53:42 · 17 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that i've been flirting with for a year now. but recently we seem to have lost touch. he doesn't call that much anymore but we do talk once in a while. i haven't seen him for 2 months. i don't know if he's just busy coz i know he's working now or he just lost interest. do i tell him that i miss him?

2007-01-10 15:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just curious because it seems like the majority of couples look so perfect on the outside but alot seem to have major issues.

2007-01-10 15:53:07 · 29 answers · asked by spyder 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well there is this girl and we are in love with eachother, but whenever we start to be happy, something happenes and its always my fault. she also doesnt believe me when i tell her i love her. i think the reason shes lke this because of past relationships( i know what happened in it) and well he wasnt a good guy. he cheated on her and played wih her emotions. now she refuses to believe that i truely love her. i dot know how to fix this. i know for a fact se loves me but for some reason she doubts me.....

2007-01-10 15:52:06 · 7 answers · asked by ka 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend and she is average looking. We are best friends. People tell me that I'm attractive a lot. We will meet guys at the same time and the guys she likes always want me.She has this bitchy way about herself and she totally messes up her chances with men right away because she yells at them and play fights really rough with them. Like hurling her car keys at them, and she talks really loud too! She tries too hard to get attention so she wants to control the conversation and out talk me or any other girl in the room so she can say she had the guy first. If we meet a guy at the same time that doesnt mean he's hers if she "called him first". It's all about who he wants to talk to. There was this hot Indian guy who owns a store and he always would ask me what kind of guys I like and he asked could he get me a present for my birthday. Oh my goodness, she flipped out on me! She started talking about another girl, but what she said about that girl sounded like me. What should I do?

2007-01-10 15:51:14 · 5 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Friends

our 3rd year anniversary is near. what is the most inexpensive gift that i will give to my wife?

2007-01-10 15:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, I'm an 18 year old guy, and I was dating a 15 year old girl (yeah , I was skeptical about it, but she was a nice girl). She had a little crush on me for awhile, and she had her friend ask me out. She thought I was extremely funny, nice and cute...

So, the thing is, we dated for about two weeks and randomly one day she says "things seem weird between us, I think we should just be friends."

She's a shy girl, and myself, I'm sort of borderline shy, if I have something to say, I'll say it.

Anyways, on to my point, I always tried talking to her about what was going on in her head, and she would never really communicate with me, I'd tell her how I felt about things, and she'd just say "well I hope I don't end up hurting you."

We got along just fine, and I'm not sure if it's the maturity/age difference or what, or if she just didn't know what to do.

I guess my question here is, what would cause a girl that is shy to just break up with someone without even wanting to talk about it?

2007-01-10 15:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by J Payne 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 15:48:25 · 18 answers · asked by Harsh Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you do a weekly dinner with family where it rotates houses. There's you, your mother, your sister and a niece (and their families, 12 people total). So everyone hosts and makes dinner once a month. The nieces husband gets unexpectantly sent to Iraq for a year. Would you expect the neice to continue her rotation or would you skip her as a way to help her out while her husband is gone? Note, she has a 3-year-old and an 11-month-old.

2007-01-10 15:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by Heidi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 15:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after being rejected by someone, i lost all my self worth, like i feel no man would like me, when im am friends with someone i just really think of him as a friend and that it must not go somewhere else, when i have a crush , or i like someone i just beleive that he is not the one for me and that he deserves better, and that i will not be loved.
and i am even pissed if someone would confess that he likes me,i no longer want attraction, i get hurt easily , so i refuse to be in a relationship, i can no longer trust men ,or any man to take care of my heart, i feel like if i trusted another man again, it would break my sould and would really crush my soul
im just 19 , but because of this, i dont even attempt to make myself gorgeous, im not ugly or what, i used to join pageants and win them, but now i dont feel like impressing any man with the way i look, if that guy doesnt like what he sees, and cannot relate to me and my life i dont give him any chance at all.what should i do,

2007-01-10 15:45:38 · 29 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

Ps: she has a b/f ...

2007-01-10 15:45:16 · 7 answers · asked by almost there 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We want someone we r close to to marry us. Both my sister and his sister are legally qualified. I say mine, he says his. I don't like his, he don't like mine. Neither one is the dress wearing "type",so we don't have bridesmaid duties to give them. How should we decide? Draw straws?

2007-01-10 15:44:49 · 13 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Weddings

I recently asked a girl I like out on a date, but she said no for personal reasons. She told me that we haven't really known each other that long and that she wants to wait before dating again. So, how long should I wait till I ask again? Is it pointless to continue with this girl?

2007-01-10 15:44:45 · 5 answers · asked by sparta923 1 in Singles & Dating

I have pressure and stress in each area of my life and don't know how to deal with it.

I am worried about my child. She is 14 and lives with her Dad in another state. She is crying and wants me to come back and live with her and her Dad. We are legally divorced and I don't think that I can adjust again to my ex's controlling ways.

I am stressed out on my job. There is too much work and we are short staffed. The owner of the company that I work for sometimes yells and is mean. The workload is not manageable. I am looking for another job, but its taking time.

I live with my parents and they criticize the way that I do things. They say that I don't serve food properly and with love. I do plan to move out, but want to have a stable job first.

I feel that I am worried for my child, stressed out from work and not comfortable in my home situtuation and don't see any hope anywhere. I don't know how to cope.

2007-01-10 15:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend (from 20+ years ago) and I finally got together last week for a "reunion". FYI, he found me on the internet and initiated the contact. He said that he had been looking for me all this time. We are now both married. Well, he said that he liked what he saw and complimented me on how I've preserved myself all these years. He said that I was all that he's been thinking about since we reconnected. He asked if I would like to do "it" again with him for old time's sake, and then quickly changed the topic. Slip of the tongue or what? Of course, I acted like I didn't hear the question. He seemed embarrassed and did not pursue the issue. In all honesty, it was good to see him again. It's always a nice feeling, I guess, to reunite with long-lost friends. What was that all about?

2007-01-10 15:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to enjoy wrestling with my male friends. But we're teenagers, and things aren't the same as when we were kids. Can't they play innocently anymore? I can! Why can't they?

2007-01-10 15:43:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My crush's best friend always pulls me and my crush apart when flirting and playing footsy and other stuff I tolkd you about in other questions....Why??

2007-01-10 15:42:29 · 4 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Singles & Dating

See there is this other guy and i really like him but i remember i used to like jeremy a lot but now i kinda don't like him and i'm thinking it's because of the other guy. I mean i liked jeremy sooooo much that i got really jealous of every girl on his top 16 on his myspace page. Now i'm like his #1 girl on there besides his family. I didn't even ask him to put me as his #1 girl on there he just put me as that. He's so sweet and he can always make you feel happy. If i really didn't like this other guy maybe i would like him but it's so hard not to like the other guy cuz he's hot and kinda sweet and he plays like every sport you can think of and he plays the guitar but it just hurts me sooooo bad that i don't like jeremy anymore!:( What can i do???

2007-01-10 15:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 15:41:22 · 16 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my siblings were raised by my grandmother and i always wanted to sleep with her.So we had 2 beds in the room my grangmothother my sis an i in one.And my brother in the other i was only8 my sis 5.One night i woke up in the middle of the night wich i do often and look toward the bed my brother was sleeping in and there was a dark skinned man with a long gray breard and he just stared at me.I was so afraid i tried to pinch my grandmother but she would not wake up.Yrs later my aunte told us they had saw something.We finally moved out to a bigger house across the street and it was yrs before anybody ever moved back in that house.And when they did they didn't stay long.

2007-01-10 15:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have the best fiance anyone could ask for, a loving family that give me anything i want pretty much..yet i have issues with anxiety and i can be so happy one min..then bam i just wana cry and cry...its getting worse everyday..ever sense i was really little it would take me FOREVER to go to sleep at night because everything around me, in my head, just anything would terrify me..id always think someone was tryin to talk to me in my dreams..id always think random ppl would me just standing and looking at me in my room and it got better for a few years..well the past couple years its gotton bad again...i dont know what to do...someone plz let me know ur opinion...

2007-01-10 15:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

, Women look like hell when they get old why is this. Men are like a fine wine !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-10 15:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by bonny bones 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I are like brother and sister. For as long as I can remember we have done pretty much everything together. Until a few months ago we used to walk every afternoon, hang together most nights, watch movies, play pool and see our mates at the pub.
Now he has a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing him happy, and I am pretty good friends with his gf too, but it seems that now they are neglecting their other friendships. At first I thought i was just being jealous, but then I got talking with his gf's best mate and she feels the same. I never hear from him unless I call him or go see him and I really miss my best friend. When I need him most he is "too busy" to talk / listen, and I have tried explaining to him that just one day out of every week, just the two of us would be nice. All he can say is "you can come round and see US whenever you want"

Why doesn't he get that I need time with just him sometimes?

What should I do?

2007-01-10 15:39:54 · 12 answers · asked by loza500 3 in Friends

2007-01-10 15:39:08 · 9 answers · asked by Yiahor 1 in Marriage & Divorce