ok well there is this girl and we are in love with eachother, but whenever we start to be happy, something happenes and its always my fault. she also doesnt believe me when i tell her i love her. i think the reason shes lke this because of past relationships( i know what happened in it) and well he wasnt a good guy. he cheated on her and played wih her emotions. now she refuses to believe that i truely love her. i dot know how to fix this. i know for a fact se loves me but for some reason she doubts me.....
2007-01-10 15:52:06 · 7 answers · asked by ka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are pretty smart. You understand that since she had trouble in her past, she is not believing you. You also love her despite that. So dear, keep it on. Don't hurry up things. Express your true feelings to her from time to time. Show her that you love her. Be there, listen to her, ask her to speak her mind to you. Give her time to recover and to trust you.
And don't do anything silly. Be careful, she is hurt and if you do something un-smart, she will be hurt more and you don't want that. So be her guy, she is going to trust you and believe you.
2007-01-10 16:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is worth fighting for, love her through it. I was played the same way by my ex and my now husband did everything in his power to make me feel loved. No matter what, ALWAYS BE HONEST with her. Even one dishonest move will lead her away from you. She has to be able to trust you and see that you're nothing like her ex. Keep doin what you're doin and things will get better in time.
2007-01-10 15:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by funnybone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been hurt bad, you are right, she will need time to learn to trust again. She will also need time to LET herself trust again.
Convince her of your love slowly and over time with your actions, as well as, your words. Be good to her. Make her laugh. Take her to places that she likes. Rub her feet. Take care of her if she is sick. Be kind to and help her parents (sisters, etc.) if they need anything done - help painting a room, building a fence, etc. Take her out to ice cream at midnight and then go for a walk. Surprise her for no reason with flowers or little things that she likes - candy, books, earrings, little notes in the pocket of her jacket, etc. Listen to her. Share your dreams with her and listen to hers. Be there. Hug her. Kiss her so that she gets flutter in her belly, and keep saying I love you. Good luck!
2007-01-10 16:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by connorsmom916 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove you love her.
Walk to her house in the rain.
Show up on her doorstep with a single red rose and a box of chocolates.Or just the rose is fine.
Sing to her= )
Use your imagination.
Good Luck. ash
2007-01-10 16:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, you don't dude you convince yourself that you love her, know one can make anyone do what he or she doesn't want to feel or do, anyway Sir love is about you and your God if you put money in your relationship with him who invented love she will be drawn to you.
Hope!
2007-01-10 16:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know that she is insecure because of her past relationship then you need to do everything you can not to make mistakes because you want her to feel like she can trust you so if you know you're doing things to make the situation worst you answered your own question......
2007-01-10 15:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by ...Jess....:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions speak way louder than words.
2007-01-10 16:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋