I am just curious because it seems like the majority of couples look so perfect on the outside but alot seem to have major issues.
2007-01-10 15:53:07 · 29 answers · asked by spyder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
all of the above lol
2007-01-10 15:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband more than anything in the world and never knew true love until I met him. We want all the same things out of life and we want to share them together. I could never say I hated him...he has been the perfect husband and I could not even begin to ask for more. He gives me everything that I could every need or want in every single way and I do the same for him. The biggest test of our love is the deployment we are currently in the middle of. We both know it will make our marriage stronger and it will definitely give us something to fall back on in case we ever see hard times. I love him deeply and I am truly in love with this man. I am so lucky to have found him and fallen in love with him. I give him everything that he deserves which is the sun, the stars, the moon and he treats me like his princess. Every girl in the world is looking for a man like I have.
2007-01-11 00:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband... We don't have any major issues. Although I don't really know how "perfect" we appear on the outside. We're just a normal couple.
2007-01-10 23:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love him and like him. And other times I still love him and dislike things that pop out of his mouth. Maybe he feels this way about me too.
Plus I'm TRYING to reconnect w/him right now, and at times feel like I'm not getting thru to him. He'd prefer to look on the history to see what I've written on yahoo Q & A. So maybe when he reads this tomorrow morning, he'll understand that I am SERIOUS about doing some reconnecting here.
In front of other's it's like a fairytale relationship in other's eyes.
And overall our marriage is a pretty good one, it's just that marriage is serious business, and it's like a job --u have to keep on top of it esp. during a PHASE to strive more for communication, improvements ( mutually ) it takes two to make it a complete success.
Relationships aren't easy for anyone in the world. Even the best of 'em could use a healthy boost of improvement. Even tho it starts w/self (working on oneself) it still takes both spouses to make a relationship work.
There's pro's and con's to marriage, as being single--there's good things and not so good things about it.
Then when area's of a relationship seem to be going smoothly, you kinda forget about the challenging times.
I think to some degree everyone hides behind a mask whether in a relationship or not.
2007-01-11 01:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Auntie Marie SueB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love, like and hate him. He is a great person most of the time but we do have major issues that we work really hard to fix!
2007-01-11 00:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE, LIKE ,AND HATE MY SPOUSE. That's why it is perfect. Who really wants to be June cleaver? I personally need someone who makes me so mad I want to smash his face but he must also make me want to take him anywhere. It works for us.
What you are seeing is the game face of all couples. When they are in public it's like a Disney fairytale. So sweet and cute, whatever that doesn't make a relationship. Fights, arguments that's the meat of a relationship. That's what let's you know your going to make it. If you can argue right and let go of the small things and make your point and the other respects it that's LOVE.
2007-01-11 00:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate all my exspouses. I guess thats why I have been divorced 3 1/2 times. Since I got that big insurance check though two of them are prowling around again. I caught one of them trying to climb into the window of my trailer the other night. Good thing I wasnt drunk yet caused I called the cops and she was arrested and draged off to jail again. I wonder if anyone else has my kind of problems?
2007-01-11 00:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE my spouse very much, there are times when I don't LIKE him, and there are times when I feel like I HATE him. He is the man I married though, every couple has their ups and downs.
2007-01-11 00:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like and love my husband. Hate is a very strong word and I try not to use it very often. Marriage is about working through problems together. I think if people say they never fight then they do not have passion in their marriage.
2007-01-11 00:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my husband forever. He is the most wonderful man I have ever met. However, I am aware that he has his faults. Love means that you accept the entire person for who he is - faults and all. I have never felt "hate" toward him, but sometimes I do need to remind myself that he is "the whole package" and I must tolerate the little things that annoy me.
2007-01-11 00:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most spouses love each other, but being in love is a whole different matter.
2007-01-11 00:26:36 · answer #11 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋