ok i've been likin my ex since about 5th grade we broke up in 05 because he went with my friend (she passed away in Sept 05). Currently I' am with someone who has always been there (we were friends first). But my ex wrote me a note in nov. saying he misses me i kept denying him and he left me alone. ALmost three days ago he writes me again on urban chat says to call him I say for what and he says he just wans to talk well i wrote him and said about what and he also sent me friend request. Well i know he'll write me bck tomorrow but what should i do? what do u think? I mean i'll always have love for him but its just not the same anymore
2007-01-10 16:01:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont want to start up with him again then you need to let
him know that you are not intetested in getting back with him.
the contact with him may give him the reason to think that
you want to talk to him. if you really dont want him back. then
time to let him know once and for all what the deal is, other
wise you may end up losing what you have for something that
might not might be anything, he a ex for a reason .dont you
think.
2007-01-10 16:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this guy left you for your friend (not much of a friend, if she took your guy), but now that she's gone, he wants you back? Girl, you are a smart lady who deserves better than that. You know what you should do, but are you asking this question hoping someone else says go back to the ex?
Think of this as your opportunity for spring cleaning. Get the ex out of your life - nothing is worse than second guessing your choice because of your past. Its natural to look at the past relationship with a soft view - forget the bad, see the good, and want that back. But it's gone, done and over. Hang on to your anger at the ex.
Suggested reading - "It's Called A Breakup Because It's Broken" (seriously, that's the title of the book).
Good luck!
2007-01-11 00:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Just 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, do not fool yourself with him. Remember the reason why the two of you broke up in the first place. He cheated on you with your best friend (May God bless her). Now, that she is no longer in this world to be with him, he wants to replace her with you. Just like you said, you will always love for him but it is not the same and you should let him know this. Tell him that you have moved on and you refuse to take steps backward. Think with your head not your heart.
2007-01-11 00:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww well if your with someone different that you like then stay with that person. But if your not really in love with that person then try your ex again. If you really did care about your ex in the first place. I know how your ex feels. My ex boyfriend left me and I send him messages waiting for his reply but I get nothing back. I just want another chance with him again. Even though he left me three times already. It is just heartbreaking to lose the one you really love.
2007-01-11 00:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by greasemonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other 2 people i know what ur going throw my ex did that to me 2 and i told him no i had a boyfriend that treats me better and im staying with him and he finally left me alone about it
2007-01-11 00:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur answer is in the last part of ur q if its does not feel rt something is wrong with it so keep on where u r and just cut him of coz its not like he just wants to be friends coz the more u allow him in the more confused u will be
2007-01-11 00:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the guy ur with. when/if that fizzles out ggo for the other guy. Most guys don't like playas
2007-01-11 00:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is a waist leave him where he is
2007-01-11 00:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋