Okay i know this guy, i care about him a lot, i tell him i love him all the time. Problem? He's my best friend, and i KNOW he likes me. But we got in this kinda fight tonight, because he made a joke i didn't find too funny. I told him that it wasn't funny.. and that idk if i should talk to him anymore, but i was kidding too, and i told him that, but he said maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore. i called his cell after thinking about what to say to him.. and obviously his answering machine comes up. I told him i didn't like hearing that too much from people i care about. And that it wasn't true. So yeah, that's why i got kinda frusterated about it, then i told him that i cared about him very much. and i thought that he should think about it a little longer then let me know later. Did i do the right thing?
2007-01-10 16:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While I think it's more pertinent to know what the comment was about to make an accurate decision, I'm not sure what validation your looking for?
I will say, Yes it's alright to have your own feelings/opinions and disagree or dislike something someone you care about said & to tell them. That doesn't make you not friend anymore just means you disagree. And Yes I think if you were rash or felt you were mean to them to call and make apologies is alright. But Not just because you want them back, but because you care. Remember you can only give your love....if they choose not to step up & return it...sometimes seeing the bigger picture than just the disagreement than maybe they aren't worth it in the long run. Hope that sheds some insight, but don't sacrifice your feelings for his....down the line it's not good for YOU!!!
2007-01-10 16:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 20:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by pax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little chance to cool down. Then when you see him next time go up and ask if you and he can have a talk. I'll bet he will do that. You did the right thing in leaving him a voice message.
2007-01-10 16:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force a guy to like you that way. I've tried and it always fails. Keep him as a friend, but give up on dating him. Once you do that he will come around and accept you as a friend.
2007-01-10 16:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you just need to gve him the space he need to deal
with what going on. if he really care for you then he will come around. you did the right thing by letting him know how you feel
now gve him the time to deal with his feeling as well.
2007-01-10 16:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude for this one u are on your own i think if the friendship comes back then u r lucky i wouldnt be your friend...u should know when to joke and when not to...u totally took it to a unnecessary level...pretty childish i think
2007-01-10 16:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by dudette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must have been a harsh fight, or that guy is sensitive! really it seems you did the right thing! but a even righter thing is to proove that you are sorry! if you are of course!
2007-01-10 16:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by outlaw_weasel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because its clear that you two like each other and you need too talk and see about what you want to do from there
2007-01-10 16:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you get so bent out of shape over a joke?
2007-01-10 16:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-10 16:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋