I have a bf that I've been seeing for a little more than a month. (lets call him #2) Lately though, he's gotten too physical and doesn't seem to accept it well when I say "no." He isn't violent or anythign but he's just got a lot of qualities that I dont like now and that are showing through now that we have been together for a bit.
There's this other guy I really like who is the complete opposite (lets call him #1) but I am not sure if he just likes me as a friend, plus he is very serious about his work and is busy a lot. I am pretty resolute about breaking it off with #2, though I don't know how. I wouldn't just be wanting to do it for #1 because I don't even know if that will work out, but I really really like #1. So I sort of know what i WANT to do based on how I feel but I have no idea how to go about it Any advice would help. thanks.
2007-01-10 15:31:20 · 8 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look here, it shouldnt matter if you like another guy it sounds like your not happy with the guy that you are with now,so tell him to take a hike and go for the other guy, and if the other guy doesnt work out, well at least you wont be with somebody you dont want to be with................
2007-01-10 15:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by officer dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, you need to break it off with guy #2 first, regardless of the other guy. It isn't fair to him in the first place that you like another guy, and you aren't comfortable with what he's doing in the relationship, like getting too physical. Move on!
Make sure guy #1 likes you and WAIT a while before you got out with him...trust me when I say this, because rebounds hardly EVER work.
Good luck, and I hope you make the right decision. Go with your heart! ;-)
2007-01-10 15:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off with #2 if the other guy didnt like u, u wld still be hpapy and feel like u made the right choice. i think u shd casually break up since u havent beenseeing each other 4 very long, just be like this isnt working out, i think we need 2 start seeing other ppl, and u can try and spend more time with #1, hope this helps and good luck.
2007-01-10 15:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by cutie317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have feeling for your bf, you should break it off. whether you go with #1 or not. I think relationship qs on here are funny... cause you don't know the background, the people, how people look, and don't see how often people see eachother/how long they've known eachother.
2007-01-10 15:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Slim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I will give you some advice . . . why don't you submit your name for Bimbo of the Month, I think you're a sure winner.
2007-01-10 15:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just say "hey, things are not working out with us anymore, I think it's best for us if we just end it now"
2007-01-10 15:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart..but think a thousand times before you do or decide anything :)
2007-01-10 19:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by babycutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a dang whore
2007-01-10 15:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋