There are these girls/guys at our school, and they are one of those "Asian groupies" kind of groups.They are the people that TypE lYkE THiS, they always go "IM A NINJA", and they always write I LOVE PENGUINS and stuff like that. My friends and I use to be in there little group, but I didn't want to hang out with them anymore because they were mean, and they would start rumors and stuff. LOL. But I have to admit they are really pretty. ANYWAY, they are always starting rumors about my friends and I, and they are always trying to hurt my friends and I.I want to talk to them, but I don't know how to approach them. Should I be very polite and tell them to be nicer or should I go crazy and swear at them and punch them in the face. I can't stand them starting rumors about my friends and I anymore. How should I approach this problem?
2007-01-10 15:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by dk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I have been trying to ignore them, and pretend that it doesn't bother me. But it does bother me, I have them in P.E and they would give me looks and I would want to cry.
2007-01-10 15:42:33 · update #1
the worst thing you could do is go phycobeeoch on them. lol. it will only put another thing i her mind to talk to other people about-how you freaked out on her. as a teen, i understand all the rumor drama that occurs. just be like, " look. i know we're not friends anymore, but it won't help anything to talk about me to other people. please keep me and my friends out of your conversations." be sincere as possible. if she keeps it up, tell ur fav teach to giv her a talk. i know the exact type....they r so anoyin
2007-01-10 15:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by FrancetichSketch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through my experience, if you make a deal out of these rumors then they will continue because they will be feeding these rumors. If you get mad they will start more rumors. If you ignore them they will be thinking, why is she not getting mad at me? And they will get mad because you did not do what they wanted you to do. If you did get mad people would think the rumors are true and you would be helping that group. So ignore the rumors like you have never even heard of them before. And if they ask if they the rumors are true and you want to answer then answer calmly like a matter of fact way. They will believe the rumors if you get paniced or get after them saying "No it is not true!" Good Luck
2007-01-10 23:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by someone ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person, and just ignore them, and their rumors.. that is just so immature. just let it go, they are trying to get a reaction out of you. but if you don't give them any type of reaction, then they will eventually leave you alone. They are only starting rumor and what not, to prove they are better then every one else. Just ignore them...
2007-01-10 23:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest approaching them calmly and politely asking them to stop what they are doing. If that doesn't work, don't get angry or violent - talk to a higher authority about it. I know that sounds lame, but it's really the only way to solve a situation like that. At least for a wimp like me.
2007-01-10 23:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like these are not very nice people. try and turn the table around. i don't mean to spread rumors and stuff, but tell them what you truly think about them and let them have it! they deserve to know how bad you've been hurt and the only way for them to experience it is if you stab them in the heart with fierce words. then they will know not to mess with you anymore.
2007-01-10 23:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by luvs2play2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First approach them and be polite. If they don't stop, just ignore them. Trust me, don't start rumors about them or something like that. I have been through that. It isn't pretty.
2007-01-10 23:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be like: stop telling rumors about us and see what they say, if they deny spreading rumors just say well they better stop. but if they start with you and make fun of you make sure you have your friends with you because then its not like there just picking on you and you shouldn't sink to there level and start rumors about them, just stand up for yourself.
2007-01-10 23:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetheart14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know about the whole punching thing. But you do have to be firm and confident when talking to bullies. Be polite and firm. Also, use a higher tone of voice, if you go squeaking to them and asking to pretty please leave you alone you are only going to make The whole thing worst.
2007-01-10 23:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and stop hanging out with them. You aren't going to change them. Hang out with your real friends. What do you care what they say about you. Be the bigger and better person and just ignore them.
2007-01-10 23:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could first try askin politely and if they dont listen then well u could either ignore it or u could start sumthin and fight bak by spreadin rumors abotu them. or u could punch em in the face 2 like u said.
2007-01-10 23:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋