HELP!!! Should I date her again?

Question

It is a 3 yr relationship. I broke up with my ex back in November, 2006. It was my fault. I said harsh words to her because of her silly question (Would I take a revenge on her if she was not my gf?). She said the question was just a silly one because she was under pressure and not having enough sleep. She never meant it.

I just talked to her on the phone. She said she has someone in her mind now. She always thinks about him. (They haven't got to the bf/gf stage yet). She told me that we will never be bf/gf anymore in the future. However, she doesn't mind to be friend with me again.

It is only 2 months!! I still love her very much. Should I still "try" to be with her again??

I need some HELP/comment.

Answer 1

i think that you need to move on, she sound like she not inters ted
in having a relationship with you anymore, i would just leave it
as it, the only person that will get hurt by this is you;

Answer 2

my friend revenge is not the solution ,it is not justifed to do so. Would you ask for forgiveness, then continue with your relationship. Try never give up to her. You were meant to be together.You have managed for 3 years why allow a small obstacle break you apart? Go for her

Answer 3

Move on, there are more girls in this world and they're probably better looking. Go to places where women tend to go like the mall, bookstores, etc and find yourself a chick.

Answer 4

Take the hint hunny...she already told you she would never be with you again....and just "being friends" will be hard until you get over these feelings you seem to be havinig again....

Answer 5

as a guy i think no at first but it depends on the "love" level in the relasionship you had with here...............