I recently got dumped from my ex-bf who had dated for 13 months. He first broke up with me several months ago but then we sorta get back in last 2 weeks. He said he will change and wanted to get a second chance from me. I loved him so i gave him the chance but he blew it again.. This time even hit me harder cuz i realized i truly love this person in order to give him a second chance, not to mention he cheated b4 and lied to me billion times.. Anywayz, IS it possible for guys not to have any feelings toward their girlfriend and never was in love? and Why?
2007-01-10 15:38:54 · 3 answers · asked by shadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop any connection with him, no call, beep or mails give it a break if he really want you he will contact you. It is very possible that that guy is just using you but settled somewhere which he cant reveal to you, or he is just confused and comparing notes and he has failed to choose the best.
Please for your sake and to avoid heart break all the time give him a break, start looking up somewhere but just be good friends with others. Dont hate your outgoing bf because you have once been intimacy friends! Sorry for you but that is not the end of the world you might get a better one who understands you.
2007-01-10 15:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by ConRob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible for anyone to have no feelings towards their boyfriend/girlfriend or never been in love i guess the reason is coz they r afraide to open their heart to the person who loves them
2007-01-10 15:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by stang girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u werent with my ex i just broke up w/last nite
i think there is a fear of feelings for them and many only know one way to handle real feelings and thats to run but know ur still come back or call and say how could you and so the cat still plays. selfish inconsiderate weak azzzezzzss, i hate weak people and if u have to lie for anything ur YOU MUST KNOW UR DOIN WRONG SHADY AND HEARTLESS.
mine never gave me not one apology but instead other way so yep i became very emotional and well let that LOSER yet loved em LIVE RENT FREE IN MY HEAD FOR AWHILE AND IT MADE ME NOT ONLY VERY HURT/MISERABLE BUT NEEDY AND LOSE EVEN MY BOND W/MY KIDS FOR THEY SEEN HIS TRUE COLORS AND I WAS BLIND FOR SHOCKED HE COULD EVEN DO HALF THE CHIT HE HAD...MINE EVEN W/ MY EX NOW BEST FRIEND OF 30 YRS AT BEACH BUT SAID IT WAS NOT LIKE THAT......GEE OK I BELIEVE U...BUT STILL HELD ONTO F'N HELL, HURT AND FEW DAYS OF HAPPY TIMES MANY NITES OF WOUNDERING AND BEING PIZZED OFF AT MY SELF CUZ I WAS NOW VERY INSECURE UNSTABLE W/LIL SECURITY , UNHAPPY AND LONELY EVEN FOR I FELT LAST TO ALL W/IN IN END AND WELL LET GO FOR GOOD I HOPE THIS TIME,
NEED TO LOVE MYSELF AGAIN FOR I LOST ME AND MY OWN STRENGTHS IN MYSELF TO NOT EVEN KNOWING ME WHO I REALLY AM ANYMORE FROM ALL THE DEPRESSION ONTOP OF FRIENDS AND LIFE SURE IS NOT MUCH FOR NOW ANGRY INSIDE THAT ANYONE COULD BE SO HEARTLESS .
I THINK KNOWING I HURT MAKES HIM ACTUALLY FEEL WHOLE AND MORE SECURE IN A WAY....
WELL HUN U WILL GROW FROM IT ALL AN EVENTUALLY GET NUMB TO IT AND WANT OR DEMAND MORE AFTER ALL U GAVE IT ALL FOR U TRUSTED EM AN OPENED UR HEART AN LET UR WALLS DOWN TO WHAT BE DEMEANED....
NOT NO MORE ONLY IF U LET IT , HARD AS HELL TO DO BUT I HAVE MORE HATE NOW IT SEEMS AND FRICKIN DISQUEST AND ANGER.....LET IT GO , SICK TO RECENTLY FIND OUT WHAT I WAS WOUNDERING THE SHADY AZZ CHARMING TELL ALL THAT HE LOOKS LIKE THE ROCK IS AN THINK HAS BEEN SMOKING HIS ROC AND I THINK THIS IS WHAT MAKES THEM NOT CARE AND LIE SO MUCH.....
WASTED TIME AND HURT NOT ME ONLY BUT MY KIDS , WHAT HURTS IS KNOWING WHAT WAS LOST OVER SOMETHING HE KNOWS IS NO GOOD IN HIS PAST AND TO CHOOSE TO GO BACK THERE.....
I CANT DO IT NO MORE I NOW FACE REALITY AND DONT LIVE ON HOPES OR PAST MEMOIRS OF WHO HE WAS OR EVEN BELIEVE MUCH HE SAYS ......
I WOKE UP AND HAD TO ADMIT IT IS A ADDICTION I KNOW NOT MUCH OF AND THE CHEM IMBALANCE ONTOP OF HIS POKER PLAYING DAILY CREATED SOMEONE I DONT KNOW AND WELL I HAD TO NOW CHOOSE FOR MY KIDS AND MY FRICKIN SANITY.
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS THERE IS A FINE LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE AND WELL MET MY MATCH.
FEEL FOR YOU , WHEN UR READY LET IT GO MEANING EVEN TRY TO REMOVE THE WHYS OR THOUGHTS FOR U MAY NEVER KNOW .
IF U STAY IN A PLACE USEUALLY U STAY IN A PLACE BUT IF U CHOOSE TO MOVE IT YOU MAY ACTUALLY GROW INTO A HOME OF HAPPINESS AND NOT HURT.
2007-01-10 19:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by NatureOrNurture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋