I like this girl at my school. I don't know if she likes me. How cn i figure out if she does. I am very shy and i don't communicate well. If anyone has any advice could the please help me. I need help with this. I have never ever had a girlfriend or asked a girl out. I have barely talked to girls. I have talkedto this girl a couple of times and we went on a school trip together and had fun while we were there. I really like her. Any answers that may help me?
2007-01-10 15:25:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Thine Own Self Be True. Don't be something that you're not to impress this girl. If she doesn't like you for who and what you are, then she is not the right one for you. This is nature's way of doing things. One thing I could recommend is be honest. Tell her that you are very shy, that you don't normally approach girls this way, but that you are fond of her and would like to know if she would consider catching a movie with you...just as friends. It may sound silly, but rehearse your spill until you feel you have "it." If you screw it up, tell her that your just nervous because she has that effect on you. This will make her smile and then compliment her smile and get back to your question.
People are usually intimidated by asking someone out because of the potential results. Keep it friendly.This may make it easier for you...and her. Over time, nature takes its course and defines itself in other ways, sometimes love, other times...just friendship. Either way, this girl is not annoyed by you. As a man, i think you have a shot. Don't force anything. Be friendly,be a gentleman and respect her. The cupid knows what targets to engage and when to engage. Goodluck.
Some cool ice breakers that I remember doing: Take some change out and spread them across the table. Tell her to pick one and describe some special or memorable moments in her life respective to that year. Then it's your turn.You do the same. You learn about each other this way. It can open the doors to laughter or finding a common ground. Another one was "2 truths & a lie." Each one of you will share two truth about yourself (one at a time) and one lie. The other person has to guess the 2 truths and the lie. You can decide how many chances one has before the game. These are cool ice breakers because they can be done anywhere and the promote communication and laughter.
If during your "date" you find yourself in an ackward moment, excuse yourself. A good man always has an exit strategy from uncomfortable situations. If your moment of silence goes a few seconds too long, excuse yourself, "I'm going to refill my drink. Would you like yours refilled too?" or "Please excuse me. I'm feeling a little congested right now." Come back and begin the small talk.Goodluck.
2007-01-10 16:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, I'm gonna say the same thing to you that I said to my friend whose obsessed with a friend of mine. And sorry if this sounds harsh, but you may think that you're talking is going somewhere or at least getting you further into this "relationship", but if a person isn't into you like that, then the small talk is bullsh*t. You need to get a mutual friend to hang out with the two of you together like going to the movies and stuff, and try to make the friend a girl so that she doesn't come on to another guy. When you get up the courage, make the first move. Don't be shy!
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you! ;-)
Btw, you have my dad's first name and last initial...FUN FACTS TO KNOW! :-D
2007-01-10 23:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you can't make someone like you.
You can only give them the opportunity to get to know you and decide for themselves how they feel. Sorry, but the best way for that to happen is to spend time with her, meaning you're going to have to ask her out.
So, you approach her, tell her you really enjoyed the time you spent together on the school trip and ask her if she'd like to go out on a date with you.
It'll feel like forever and it'll take a eternity for her to answer, but before you know it, it'll be over and you'll have your answer; either a potential girlfriend or the first girl you have get over.
2007-01-10 23:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask her out guess what you and her will not go out and you will still be alone. If you ask her she might say no and you don't go out and you will still be alone. However, she might say yes. At least the second option has more potential positives.
2007-01-10 23:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl likes me but she is a ***** to me and hides it alot but you might need to just try to get to know her don't be too eager and them why don't you find out what she likes and then ask her out
2007-01-10 23:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant get a girl to like you...either she does or doesnt....its all first impressions. Try another one...
2007-01-10 23:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hand her a smoothie.
banana.
maybe some strawberries.
2007-01-10 23:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋