why is it hard for highschool teens to ask girls out?

Question

as myself i find it rather complicating

Answer 1

Sounds like you are shy. You probably would like it if the girl asked you out instead. Most shy guys do. lol Don't be scare of us especially if the girl you likes happens to be shy as well? Smile and see if she smiles back at you.

If she does then try asking her out and if she doesn't show interest don't worry because sometimes you have to keep trying till you get a yes.

It's like door to door sales. For every no there is a yes that will soon follow. You have to knock on some doors a few times to get a yes. (Not to say that us girls are doors.) Just using that example metaphorically.

Usually when a shy guy liked me I would know in the way he smiled and usually I would ask him out. I like to make it easy on the guys because I know it's horrible sometimes. lol

What every you do don't blame yourself if the person rejects your offer because maybe it wasn't meant to be with that person. Maybe they aren't the right person for you? I know that when ever I felt rejected I realized that I my life wasn't over when the next guy came along. :-)

I understand how it's like because I was once a teenager but that was a long time ago.

Answer 2

Because you are young and inexperienced. Some guys are like that their entire lives, others will grow up with alot more self confidence and become quite forward.

I guess in highschool everything is scary, and we are afraid of having our feelings hurt. You should learn to take the plunge, you never know if you don't try and the worst that can happen is she will say no.

Of all the things you may regret in life, it is the chances you did not take which will haunt you most.

Answer 3

Mine is because the school is so diverse like in middle school i ask a lot cuz well you the ppl and are more comfortable. But once u get to highschool things open up ppl arent as close there distant. And it becomes harder finding someone and well just say the question that was me. It changes once you do it though.

Answer 4

Because they are too busy acting cool as if they don't need anything. That's why girls are also starting to dominate the top class because boys are just to cool to learn in school.

Answer 5

well when u ask someone out,not matter what they u usually will see the person more then once a week. everyone u know will ask u y did u ask her out. alot of people gossip and I think that its hard to ask girls out because alot of people will find out and will judge u. good luck to u

Answer 6

Because they're still in high school so how much experience (asking girls out) do they have? Just a learning curve, you'll get the hang of it....

Answer 7

because being smooth enough to not feel like a fool when you do it takes practice and how do you practice if your not already smooth it is a catch 22 and not much fun to go Thur ......and it is not limited to any age, group, or whatever else.... it is universal until you get it then you don't worry about it because you have what it takes to talk to them. its a phase that lots of men never get completely out of

Answer 8

Because they feel pressured or emotionally confused yet it is there most likely first time asking and don't want rejection!

Answer 9

It shoudln't be, but it is. It is something you will have to get over. I am not afraid to ask a guy out. It isn't as scary as it seems. T is easier if you dont plan or think about it.

Answer 10

because we don't have our own money, we have to go home when our parents say we do, we have to deal with parents asking us annoying questions, we have to do schoolwork at the same time, we have to make sure that our reputations don't get sunk if the girl says no, and we have very little independence even though we want to be independent.